How can you tell when an Aquarius man is ready for marriage? Is your guy showing signs and you haven’t noticed? Keep reading because I have some very important helpful tips for you to figure out whether or not your Aquarius man may be ready to take the plunge.
Signs An Aquarius Man Wants To Marry You
1. He Thinks of You as his Best Friend
When you two are doing everything under the sun together then it’s safe to say that he’s feeling quite close to you and could indicate he’s ready to get married or is closer to at the very least.
This will include taking you to meet his friends and family. Spending lots of time doing family or friend oriented things shows that he’s rather serious about you and intends to make you part of his tribe.
Only someone special would stand the test of time enough to be “brought home to mom”. He doesn’t take just anyone home so you can consider yourself as “in” when he’s bringing you to meet the family or those he’s closest to.
2. Asks to Meet Your Family
When the Aquarius man is considering marriage, he’s going to want to see what your family is like. He wants to know how well he gets along with them and if they are accepting of him as well.
The family dynamic is important to the Aquarius man. He sees this as serious business. If he ever asks to meet your closest friends or family then he’s definitely got his wheels turning in how serious he’s capable of getting.
When the Aquarius man wants to marry you, he will want to see how you fit into his life in the most important ways. He may suggest having a family barbecue and invite both families over to see how well they all get along.
3. Starts Asking Questions
The Aquarius man may actually ask you questions that he finds important when it comes to marriage. This is one of the signs that an Aquarius man wants to marry you. He’ll ask things that are fundamental to the future.
He could ask you if you would like to have children, how many you would like to have, or if your kids are grown, if you would consider having more. He’s trying to see if you are on the same page as him.
He’ll ask what you believe in spiritually, where you see your future headed, and where you would like to be X amount of years later. It may feel like he’s grilling you but the truth is, he’s trying to see if he fits into your future.
4. Talks in the Future Sense
When the Aquarius man starts talking terms of future events and has you painted into the picture, you can rest assured he plans on making it permanent. If he cannot see his life without you, he wants to make sure you stay.
This is when he may start talking about your future together, he may actually mention marriage, and what life may be like with you two down the line. This is one way of testing you to see where you stand on this topic.
He wants to see if you get excited about what he says or if you seem resistant or despondent. He’s looking for you reaction and whether or not it brings you great joy. Testing is nothing new for an Aquarius man.
5. Opens Up About Very Personal Things
The Aquarius guy doesn’t often talk about his personal business. He’s a very private person. He has to really trust someone. Normally he’ll talk to family or his best friend.
If you are the woman of his dreams then you become his best friend and therefore you’re the one he starts opening up to. When he starts getting really into the depths of his life then it means he’s seeing you as “the one”.
He will only say so much to most other people and if you’re only dating, he probably won’t tell you too terribly much because he’s not at the point where he wants to get closer. When he does, he will open a floodgate of personal information.
6. Asks Lots of Personal Questions
Clearly when the Aquarius man is bombarding you with questions, he’s trying to get to know you as much as possible. He isn’t doing this at the beginning of the relationship but when he feels close enough to you, prepare yourself!
Aquarius man knows what he wants and he has to make sure you’re the one he wants to marry which means asking you all sorts of questions about who you are, where you want to be, what your dreams are, and what you really want.
The Aquarius guy will definitely make himself obvious when he is feeling more committed to the idea of being with you for the long haul.
Seeing this combined with other signs, you’re sure to know where his head is at.
7. Sacrifices His Time For You
It’s true that an Aquarius man tends to really love his personal solitude time. However, when he’s in love and wants to get married, he will start sacrificing his time to make his partner happy.
If you see signs of him doing things that make him go out of his way, he’s trying to show you how much he cares and is likely considering you to be his future wife. This is another sign that Aquarius man wants to marry you.
How to Get an Aquarius Man To Marry You – Win Him Forever With These Tips!
Have you been with an Aquarius man for a while but would like to take the next step in getting married but he’s dragging his feet? There are hoops you probably will need to jump through to get him to take that plunge. If you’re ready, keep reading for more information on how to get an Aquarius man to marry you.
1. Show Your Worth
Aquarius men love their freedom, and it takes someone extraordinary for them to be able to give some of that up and share their lives with someone else. They want a partner, but they want the RIGHT partner. So, show your worth if you want an Aquarius man to marry you.
This makes them take a great deal of time to decide whether or not someone is suitable for marriage and commitment to life. I will admit that Aquarius men typically know fairly quickly if someone will be worth their time.
However, for them to know whether or not that this will be someone that will last; is going to take them lots of time meaning years. If you’re trying to push them into marriage earlier than the bare minimum of 2 years, you’re probably going to fail.
Aquarius men do not like to be pushed, so if you want to get an Aquarius man to marry you, be patient. They are very independent and will not allow someone to tell them what to do, how to do it, and in what timing to do it in. Therefore approaching him head-on about marriage probably isn’t the best plan.
In fact, you’re going to want to plant seeds in his mind instead of trying to tackle it head-on. One of the biggest things you can do with an Aquarius man is to show him why you’d be a great wife to him.
Perhaps you can do so by acting as though you are already married. Naturally, this only works if you’ve been with him for 2 or more years first. Maybe living together is a better next step if you’re not already.
This allows him to see what you’re like up close and personal. Living separately, he still has lots of free time to himself. When he lives with someone; he loses some of that and can then figure out if his partner is worth that step or not.
2. Talk About the Future
It’s always a great idea to approach your plans and goals for yourself. It shows him you are ambitious and you don’t need him to help you with it. You can do it all on your own.
It doesn’t mean he won’t help, but he’s after to help you if he sees you can do it on your own. He will want to make it easier for you when or where he can.
When you’re discussing your plans, you can also bring up the fact that someday you’d like to settle down, have kids, etc. You’ll see quickly how he feels about that.
Either he’ll get uncomfortable, or he’ll ask you questions about it. If he says nothing, ask him what he sees himself doing for the next several years if he has any desire to want what you want.
Aquarius is known for being blunt and telling the truth when you ask them questions so be prepared that he may tell you he doesn’t want marriage, wants to wait, or isn’t ready.
You’ll know where you stand and if there is a chance he will want to marry you someday or if you’d be better off giving up to find someone who wants what you want.
Aquarius is strong-minded, and he won’t do anything he doesn’t want. That being said; if you intellectually get on his level and are talking about goals, passions, and aspirations; he may surprise you and pop the question in the future.
There is no way to know how long or how short the process may be as every Aquarius man is different. Plant those seeds though, and you may see some growth.
3. When He Agrees
If or when he agrees he’d like to marry; you will need to keep showing him why you’re the perfect person for him. You’ll also need to be gracious for all he does for you.
Be loving, be grateful, be honest, and be loyal. These are things he’s looking for in his match for life. If you are living together, you have a better chance of getting him to see that it would be a good thing.
4. Don’t Pressure Him
If you’re not yet living together, you should try suggesting this as the next step in your relationship. Again, I would wait until you’ve had 2 or more years with him. Anything sooner, he will not take it seriously.
If he feels any sign of pressure; he may cut you off and tell you he isn’t ready. You do not want ever to make him feel like he needs to hurry up. He won’t take to it well, and you’ll end up broken-hearted.
That being said; know you’re in this for the long haul if you want to be with him. You’re going to have to wait him out and have a great deal of patience. He’s one of the hardest signs to get to commit.
Once he does commit, it’s even harder to get him to take the next step in the commitment. When you do, though, it’s smooth sailing from there! Enjoy it and embrace the love you have.
Once an Aquarius does take the plunge; he means it, and he will do everything in his power to make it last forever. Many Aquarius men marry for life. If they fail, they may not marry again.
Though as I mentioned; it really will depend on the guy himself. He may have a rising sign or a moon that makes him more emotionally open and able to commit again.
If he’s already been hurt; look for walls he will have in place for a while. Work with him, and in time he’ll pull them down and let you in… for good!
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Wishing you all the luck of the universe
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,