How To Show An Aquarius Man You Love Him (11 Ways To Make Him Feel Loved)

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
Learn how to show an Aquarius man you love him in ways he'll truly appreciate. Do something he loves without him having to beg you...

An Aquarius man is one of the most difficult people to figure out in the whole Zodiac. He’s a complex, freedom-loving, and commitment-phobic guy. So, now that you have your Aquarius man, you might wonder how to show him that you love him.

It is not always easy to know how to keep an Aquarius man happy because they seem to just keep themselves happy by living on their terms. But trust me, there are a few simple things you can do to have your Aquarius man swooning and coming back to you.

If you’ve ever wondered what you can do to show your Aquarius man how much you love him, then you’ve come to the right place. This article will tell you precisely how to keep your Aquarius man feeling loved and appreciated.

How Do You Show An Aquarius Man You Love Him Without Saying It?

Aquarius man is not looking for a relationship that’s going to blow over quickly; he’s looking for the real deal. So, how do you make an Aquarius man feel loved, and come back to you for more and more?

If you want your Aquarius man to feel loved, then your best bet is to make him certain that the way you feel about him is just as serious. Prove to him your commitment and dedication to the relationship.

It’s really important that you show an Aquarius that you’re trustworthy and not see him as an option or a means to an end. One thing he certainly won’t tolerate is adultery, so keep your friendly flirting with other guys to an absolute minimum.

You don’t want to give him any cause for suspicion, because the truth is, he’s rather afraid of getting his feelings hurt. That is why it takes a lot for an Aquarius man to commit to a woman because he really needs to be sure.

How To Make An Aquarius Man Feel Loved (7 Sweet Ways)

Give Him Lots Of Space

It’s pretty rare to be there to witness an Aquarius man falling in love, but this is only because when they’re just starting to look over the edge, they start falling hard. This sudden closeness you’ll have at the beginning of the relationship will seem great, but that feeling won’t last very long.

Aquarius men are notorious loners, and they need their space. If it’s the real deal, they might ask you to stay near them and just do your own thing. If your Aquarius man is spending more time away from you, it can be for a plethora of reasons.

It could be that he just wants to sit and think alone for a while, or that he’s feeling a little neglected. The thing with Aquarius men is that they are such deep thinkers that they think everyone else around them is too.

They want you to know what they’re thinking without them having to tell you. In time you’ll learn to pick up on what he wants but is maybe too afraid to say. Phrases like “I need you,” or “please stay,” are hard to say for an Aquarius because they spent so much of their life being carefree and emotionally detached, and now they feel like they want you and need you, and they don’t know how to express that just yet.

So, to show an Aquarius man you love him, check up on him a little more often than you normally would with someone else.

Be Honest

Aquarius men aren’t big fans of subtle cues or underlying comments. If you have something to say to them, they would probably prefer you just to come out and say it. Unless it’s telling them, you’re madly in love with them, and it is just weeks into the relationship. That may have them running away or isolating themselves from you.

Get to know each other in ways that you wouldn’t have otherwise and be completely honest with each other. Play a game where you tell each other your secrets when you’re comfortable enough with sharing them.

This will make any Aquarius man feel like they’re in a safe environment, protected and secure around you in the future.

Aquarius men are not fond of lies or liars for the fact being that they’ll think about what you said for possibly days on end and try to come up with a reaction for you, but when that all turns out to be false, he’ll feel like he’s wasted his time.

To show an Aquarius man you care about him truly, let him know that you won’t lie to him and that you’ll keep your relationship honest. Doing this will make him feel loved, and he will be able to love you more and show you greater affection.

You may also want to readQuestions To Ask An Aquarius Man To Spark His Interest

Give Him His Freedom

While you’re in the honeymoon stage of your relationship with an Aquarius man, things will be non-stop fun, and you’ll both love it. His outgoing and carefree nature will have you smiling and getting out of your comfort zone, and it’ll be great.

But after that, you’ll be together, falling in love and possibly getting into something serious. You have to be extremely cautious while you’re at this stage of your relationship. Your Aquarius man may feel tied down and restricted if he can’t do what he would normally do if he wasn’t in a relationship.

This isn’t to say that an Aquarius man wants to go out and be with someone else, it’s just that he wants his freedom to do what he wants, to go out on a whim, but you can let him know that you want to do those things too. Doing things he loves together will bring you two closer, and your relationship will grow off of your experiences you share.

It’s easy to fall for an Aquarius man, but it can be tough to keep them and show them your affection without scaring them off. These commitment-phobes can love you forever if you just know how to act around them and let them be themselves.

Show A Genuine Interest In His Hobbies

An Aquarius male is a big thinker. His thirst for knowledge is unquenchable, he’s always open to learning new things and understanding the true meaning of what it means to be alive. This is why he’s always trying out new hobbies or taking an interest in a new subject.

He just wants to absorb all the information available to him. He gets really turned on and feels so seen when the woman he is with takes a genuine interest in the things he cares about. If you really want to make him feel appreciated, then show him how much you care about what he has to say.

Ask him about what he’s currently busy with, and what he’s interested in – but be really sincere. One thing an Aquarius really hates is insincerity. So, make sure that you’re actually interested in what he has to say.

Be Less Reactive

Aquarius has some pretty even-keeled moods. Sure, Aquarius does things erratically but he doesn’t react erratically. It’s important that you work on being the same way with him lest he becomes a little freaked!

Aquarius have a history of people overreacting when they express the over-the-top things that they’d like to pursue or do. Since people’s warnings don’t go over well with him, he would rather just move on to another person rather than hear discouraging words from someone who is overreacting (in his mind at least). 

He needs to know that when he needs to take some alone time (Aquarians are actually both very social and solitary), you won’t react by asking if he’s cheating or if he’s leaving you. This is needy behavior in his eyes! 

Aquarius will be impressed if you hear bad or shocking news and you don’t flip out. He’s not an overly emotional character so displays like that are off-putting to him. Instead, show him that you’re unshakeable and he’ll be thinking hard about settling down with you!

Here’s more on what an Aquarius man likes and dislikes in a woman.

Show Him Open-Minded Love

Aquarians are the type to have some unique relationships that others may scratch their heads over. They are wholly modern lovers who might scoff at the white-picket-fence-and-2.5-kids type of marriage. Many Aquarians don’t like marriage, period! 

To be in love with an Aquarius means being open to new ways of thinking about relationships. Aquarians have a love that is just as pure and genuine as anyone’s, they just want the love without the pretense.

To an Aquarius, having the end goal of a marriage contract is silly when the same amount of love can be felt without it. They believe that love is legitimate just as it is without the approval of anyone else. 

They also may be more inclined to have unconventional relationship scenarios such as open relationships. Their form of love is a lot more fluid than other signs. If this is something you are into then make it known because more than any other sign would be, he’d be intrigued! 

Show Up Again And Again

A great way to show the Aquarius that you love him is to be like the world’s most loyal best friend. Loyalty is something the Aquarius can understand and he doesn’t view this as neediness!  

You should show him that you’re there for him by being by his side through his trials. He has a tendency to assume that he will show up for people but no one will show up for him, and he’s okay with this except it makes it hard for him to believe in everlasting love! 

So, when you prove him wrong and start to hold his hand through every trial without pressuring him to do things differently, he’s forced to reevaluate.

The key here is to just be with him through the trials, don’t make him think you’re attempting to control how he handles the problem. It’s important to let him know you’re there while ultimately letting him do his own heavy lifting. This will lead him to believe that your intentions are pure and that you aren’t trying to be overbearing.

4 More Tips On How To Show An Aquarius Man You Love Him

Work On Yourself First

An Aquarius is a social sign, so he is always looking to be supportive of others in life in general. He is here to show others the greatness that lies within them since that’s what makes him fulfilled. 

This is why showing the Aquarius that you’re working on yourself to let go of all past baggage is a big deal in their eyes! They want to be with someone who has nothing holding them back… repression is Aquarius’ worst enemy. He thinks you should be your most authentic self, and showing him that you’re shedding parts of yourself that hold you back will make him want to commit to you.

The great thing about this is that by working on yourself, everyone wins. You are a better version of yourself and the Aquarius sees that you’re not only focused on your relationship and you are not defined by it. This lets him know that you don’t need the relationship to live and this is sexy to them. 

Show Him Commitment Isn’t A Prison Sentence

One thing that might freak an Aquarius man out is the idea that he is going to be tied down to the relationship. This can be off-putting to him because he really enjoys switching things up at the last minute. He loves to have the freedom to do something drastic at the last second if he wants. 

One way that you can show him that committing to you doesn’t have to mean you are needy is to let him know that he still has the ability to let his freak flag fly when he is with you. He may have had doubts that this type of relationship ever existed, so when he sees that you’re willing to give him space to be a weirdo he will rethink his willingness to settle down with you!

Be Confident In Yourself

You will not get his attention if you don’t know your worth. An Aquarius man likes a woman who is sure of herself and doesn’t carry any drama. He likes a woman with a good sense of reasoning and maturity. Many Aquarius men seek out older women for that reason.

So, you want to ensure he feels safe enough to open up with you. That means asking him questions and letting him talk, listening carefully, and never pushing him farther than he’s ready to go emotionally. Once he sees you’re not going to judge him, he may come that much closer.

An Aquarius man needs to feel your confidence and know you stand with two feet on the ground. He will just know you love him if you radiate confidence and are sure of your choices.

Be His Best Friend

You don’t need to turn the seduction on high to let an Aquarius guy that you love him. You just have to be friendly. That doesn’t mean you can’t be flirty—in fact, you should throw your entire flirty arsenal at him!

He’ll love that you’re charming him as much as he’s charming you. Plus, this will feel fun to him, and fun is what he loves! Remember, an Aquarius guy wants to be with a woman who is his best friend first, then his lover.

For an Aquarius man, talking is intimacy. The more you speak, the closer he’s going to feel to you. He’s not about the touchy-feely game; he’s about the mental connection. 

When you make communication your number-one love, he’ll be all yours. And the best thing about this is that it will never push your Aquarius man away. Sharing your ideas, thoughts, and opinions with him will make him that much more interested in you. 

Sweet Things To Say To An Aquarius Man To Make Him Feel Loved

Loving an Aquarius man and telling him how hot or sexy he is, is a good place to start. It helps to touch him while saying these things. Look him in the eyes and touch his arm or his thigh, or kiss him on the neck.

A little light possessiveness also does wonders—try “my sexy guy.” It will make him feel important and special to you.

Here is how to show an Aquarius man you love him. Try some of these phrases:

  • You are intelligent, unique, and creative.
  • Your love makes me feel alive and beautiful.
  • You lift me up. I want to spend my forever with you.
  • You are so strong and independent. I love talking to you.

Even if they seem overly simple or even a little cheesy to you, give them a shot! An Aquarius man loves to hear words like these from his love.

When he feels good and knows how much you appreciate him in your world, he’ll then give you more to feel good about. This includes romancing you and treating you like his queen again.

Being with an Aquarius man is definitely a one-of-a-kind experience. This air Zodiac sign is like no one else you have ever met. He’s the guy who’s always going to want to be on an adventure and keen to learn more about the world.

If you’re looking for a bit of a rollercoaster ride and a relationship that will thrill you to no end, then an Aquarius man is just the right guy for you. You can show him how much you love him by being open to all kinds of adventures.

The 14 Words That Give Instant Youth To Your Relationship With An Aquarius Man…

Have you ever heard of a 14-word elixir that can rejuvenate relationships with an Aquarius man and grant eternal love?

Just as communication is the most important aspect of a relationship, one of the most important aspects of communication is knowing how to overcome disagreements and misunderstandings.

I knew many women who tragically failed with Aquarius guys just because they underestimated the importance of talks.

Some didn’t talk with them enough and some talked too much… Others talked just enough, but they said a few wrong things here and there which made their lovers sulk and brood.

Let me tell you, you never want to leave an Aquarius guy sulking because of something that you said.

It’s best to resolve any such conflict ASAP because his negativity could expand ad infinitum until one day he just snaps and decides that you’re not the one for him and that it’s all over.

The worst part is that 9 out of 10 times with an Aquarius, women are not even aware that they’ve said something wrong… or missed saying something that he expected them to say.

He doesn’t give off any signals when he’s hurt or disappointed. Instead, he usually just becomes quiet… but women never notice it. Even if they do, they never realize what to do in time.

That’s why whenever a disagreement occurs, it’s best to diffuse it with 14 words that could save your relationship.

Click here to learn the 14 words that give instant youth to your relationship with an Aquarius man <<

Sending you love,

Your friend and relationship astrologer,

Anna Kovach

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2 thoughts on “How To Show An Aquarius Man You Love Him (11 Ways To Make Him Feel Loved)

  1. You’ve just described my other half to a tee! Its taken me a long long time to understand him and somehow accept his ways…..we’re still getting there…..☺️

  2. Hi there,

    After reading your article here, made me realize that I have made the most gravest mistake. I am in love with an Aquarius man but I confessed to him too soon in an early stage of friendship, which was all due to times not speaking to each other as we were both busy plus there was a bit of alcohol involved..and now he has isolated me altogether and I am hurt. But I took the courage to explain my true intention and he has agreed to be friends and get to know each other better, but I can see it’s a very tough and long process as he has not completely open up to me. I am even scared to share my feelings as I feel I will keep blowing him off. I guess this is the price I have to pay for being honest with my feelings to him. I just don’t know now how to make him see that he means the world to me.

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