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6 Biggest Turn Offs for an Aquarius Man

Aquarius men are very particular, especially in the love department. They are caring, generous, and fun-loving people, but there’s only so much they can handle in a relationship. But, you need to know what are some of the biggest turn-offs for an Aquarius man.

These six things will bug any Aquarius man to no end, so try to steer clear of them if you want to win over your man.

1. Predictability

turn offs for an Aquarius man

Being spontaneous and outgoing needs to be present in someone for an Aquarius man to be attracted to them. If you’re set in your ways about having a schedule, things might not work out with an Aquarius. Aquarius men love to have order in their life, but they love their freedom even more.

Tying him down won’t be the way to go. People who share little details of their life to everyone can be nice, but in an Aquarius’ eyes, they’re just pushy and clingy. To really get an Aquarius man excited, surprise him with something he’d never expect from you. You may even wind up surprising yourself.

2. Emotionally Unstable

Everyone has their slips in their emotional stability; even the rock hearted Aquarius men. Aquarius men won’t be the men to be with you and try to fix you like in all the drab romantic comedies out there. They need someone who wants what they want.

They don’t want (you) to be clingy or share intimate details on the first date. Aquarians are attracted to people who have a cool and calm nature about them. Aquarians are the most emotionally detached sign, so don’t go looking for something that’s not there. They will open up to you eventually, but not if you keep prying. Take things slow and have fun. That’s all you can really ask from an Aquarius man.

3. High Maintenance

turn offs for an Aquarius man

If you’re high maintenance, chances are you’re not going to get a second date. Aquarius men are the best people to be with if you’re just looking to have a good time and hang out.

They are the kind of people that make better friends than lovers, but there’s always that chance with Aquarians that they’re thinking of you when you’re not around. Aquarius men are not the type of men that will give you everything material thing you desire.

They seem to be more into mental stimulation than going shopping or becoming accustomed to your every wish. Being high maintenance in a relationship with an Aquarius man won’t last long.

4. Pushing Your Relationship

Going too fast is the leading cause of break-ups in an Aquarius man’s world. They are free-spirited, and they have young souls. They love to have fun and do what they want and not be held down or controlled. The time will come for when an Aquarius man is ready to settle down in a serious relationship.

The future is a scary thing for Aquarians, they’re unaware of what is to come, it excites them to no end, but the fear of not knowing can shatter them. If you’re in a relationship with an Aquarius man, take things slow and enjoy the moment you’re in. This will keep the relationship between you flow freely and follow its course.

5. Wallflowers

turn offs for an Aquarius man

Not to say that an Aquarius man will pay no attention to a wallflower, but they are naturally attracted to those who are social and outgoing. Don’t be afraid to open your mouth and say what you want- Aquarians will love you for that.

They are not wallflowers, and they probably won’t have any interest in being with one. Aquarius men are some of the most social beings out there, and they want someone who will go to all these neat places they’ve thought about and go out and do exciting things. Having someone who is shy and quiet around will just dull his excitement.

6. Selfish

Aquarius men love to be around people who are constantly helping other people. They will feel loved and appreciated, which they don’t often feel due to their standoffish mindset.

A date idea for an Aquarius and a people person is for them to go to a volunteer site or a marathon. Anything that they wouldn’t usually do that benefits the community and themselves will be a winner in their book.

Aquarius men are easy to love and hard to keep; they’re the forbidden fruit we all want to taste. Being with an Aquarius man will have its ups and downs, but the endgame is worth it.


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Wishing you all the luck of the universe

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach

  • I’ve been dating an aquarius man for 4 months. He’s going almost painfully slow and I find myself googling aquarius men constantly to try to talk myself out of worse thoughts. When I’m with him, I see him once a week, twice if I’m lucky, but his actions speak VOLUMES of things he doesn’t say. We’re definitely meant for each other and I’m always cautious not to push him away….I just wish I knew how he felt and I know asking him won’t be good…does any of this make sense?

    • Hi Nooe!

      Sounds about right for an Aquarius man with his lack of speed. Actions tell you everything you need to know and if they’re good then they’re good. If you feel you’re meant for each other then hang in there and have lots of patience. If you don’t know how he feels, you DO need to ask him. Tell him you’d like to verbally know what his feelings are. That’s a very intellectual way of asking him. He should tell you. Aquarius won’t tell without someone asking. When they are asked, they tell.

  • Keep doing what you’re doing he will come around.
    I got to see mine once a week too. I’ve been denying him spending the night sometimes. I can tell it upsets him…but I think a woman finally saying no to him keeps bringing him back. I don’t think he’s told no often. I don’t text him sometimes cuz I think you know what why do I always have to text….and he will text lol. Giving him a chance to invite me over and I never ask to stay over I think it’s working cuz now I’m invited 2-3 times a week…. but only stay the one night. Keep him wanting more. He is hot and alllllll my friends think so. I know one of his stalkers that is infatuated with him. He calls me, he texts me and no one else to do things with. So I know I am the one. I am a Virgo, I will never chase anyone no matter how hot or amazing they are. I show so much love and affection to the one I am with. I am sure he’s had nothing like it. They love new experiences and love when you are different from all others.

    • Hi Cassidy!

      That’s great that you sometimes deny him spending the night. Making yourself less available is a good strategy as long as you don’t do it too often. I am glad you found a formula that is working for you. Bravo! Keep up the great work sweetheart.

  • i’ve been dating aquarius man for 5 years. I am trying to have my personal space lately because our romantic things are done. I wanna spend time ON MYSELF, not him. I said it to him many times. But he keeps chasing me day by day. Now he is on my FB account. I am sagittatius woman. What should I do? I want break up.

    • Hi iggy!

      He sounds controlling if he’s on your FB account and constantly trying to have you be with him. Either he now sees you as a conquest because you are putting your foot down or he’s trying to control you and keep you on a short leash. Neither of these reasons are good sweetheart. You need to put your foot down more and do what you need to do whether he likes it or not. If you want to break it off then do it. There is no technique to do it. Just tell him that you’re not on the same page with him anymore and you want to move on. Be bold and do what needs to be done!

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