Aquarius men are very particular, especially in the love department. They are caring, generous, and fun-loving people, but there’s only so much they can handle in a relationship. But, you need to know what are some of the biggest turn-offs for an Aquarius man.
These six things will bug any Aquarius man to no end, so try to steer clear of them if you want to win over your man.
Being spontaneous and outgoing needs to be present in someone for an Aquarius man to be attracted to them. If you’re set in your ways about having a schedule, things might not work out with an Aquarius. Aquarius men love to have order in their life, but they love their freedom even more.
Tying him down won’t be the way to go. People who share little details of their life to everyone can be nice, but in an Aquarius’ eyes, they’re just pushy and clingy. To really get an Aquarius man excited, surprise him with something he’d never expect from you. You may even wind up surprising yourself.
2. Emotionally Unstable
Everyone has their slips in their emotional stability; even the rock hearted Aquarius men. Aquarius men won’t be the men to be with you and try to fix you like in all the drab romantic comedies out there. They need someone who wants what they want.
They don’t want (you) to be clingy or share intimate details on the first date. Aquarians are attracted to people who have a cool and calm nature about them. Aquarians are the most emotionally detached sign, so don’t go looking for something that’s not there. They will open up to you eventually, but not if you keep prying. Take things slow and have fun. That’s all you can really ask from an Aquarius man.
3. High Maintenance
If you’re high maintenance, chances are you’re not going to get a second date. Aquarius men are the best people to be with if you’re just looking to have a good time and hang out.
They are the kind of people that make better friends than lovers, but there’s always that chance with Aquarians that they’re thinking of you when you’re not around. Aquarius men are not the type of men that will give you everything material thing you desire.
They seem to be more into mental stimulation than going shopping or becoming accustomed to your every wish. Being high maintenance in a relationship with an Aquarius man won’t last long.
4. Pushing Your Relationship
Going too fast is the leading cause of break-ups in an Aquarius man’s world. They are free-spirited, and they have young souls. They love to have fun and do what they want and not be held down or controlled. The time will come for when an Aquarius man is ready to settle down in a serious relationship.
The future is a scary thing for Aquarians, they’re unaware of what is to come, it excites them to no end, but the fear of not knowing can shatter them. If you’re in a relationship with an Aquarius man, take things slow and enjoy the moment you’re in. This will keep the relationship between you flow freely and follow its course.
Not to say that an Aquarius man will pay no attention to a wallflower, but they are naturally attracted to those who are social and outgoing. Don’t be afraid to open your mouth and say what you want- Aquarians will love you for that.
They are not wallflowers, and they probably won’t have any interest in being with one. Aquarius men are some of the most social beings out there, and they want someone who will go to all these neat places they’ve thought about and go out and do exciting things. Having someone who is shy and quiet around will just dull his excitement.
Aquarius men love to be around people who are constantly helping other people. They will feel loved and appreciated, which they don’t often feel due to their standoffish mindset.
A date idea for an Aquarius and a people person is for them to go to a volunteer site or a marathon. Anything that they wouldn’t usually do that benefits the community and themselves will be a winner in their book.
Aquarius men are easy to love and hard to keep; they’re the forbidden fruit we all want to taste. Being with an Aquarius man will have its ups and downs, but the endgame is worth it.
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