How does an Aquarius man like a woman to dress? This is a man with very definite tastes and preferences. You can do so much when you learn how to dress for an Aquarius man—his favorite outfits—cutting through some of the hard work of seducing him and capturing his heart instantly!
The sign of Aquarius is ruled by the planet Uranus, the planet of independence and creativity. More than most, these men just love women dressing in sexy, red outfits that make their masculine protectiveness and desire come out in full force!
However, do keep in mind that Aquarius men tend to not be the most discerning type, which can work in your favor. He won’t know the difference between one label and the next, for example, or notice if you wear it twice. He doesn’t really care about that.
Knowing this doesn’t mean that you should make less of an effort. The better the package looks, the more an Aquarius man will chase you—and you get to be the one to call the shots! In fact, if you keep him wanting more, that’s the way to win his heart! Dress to kill, but never let him unwrap his package right away!
Here are my best tips on how to dress for the Aquarius man in your life, gathered from my experience as a relationship astrologer.
In my years as a relationship astrologer helping thousands of women with Aquarius men, I want to begin with something reassuring: drawing in an Aquarius man is far less about the perfect outfit than most advice suggests. Yes, how you present yourself matters, and I will share exactly what appeals to his eye. But what truly magnetizes this Uranus-ruled sign runs deeper than fabric and color, and once you understand it, attracting him gets much simpler.
Here is what the research shows. In our survey of women involved with Aquarius men, the quality mentioned most often as what drew them and held them was his intelligence and the meeting of minds, not appearance. The same is true in reverse: he is captivated by a woman who engages his mind. For the complete map of what makes an Aquarius man take notice, my full Aquarius Man Secrets program lays it out.
What Colors Attracts An Aquarius Man?
Aquarius men’s fashion sense is constantly changing. They love their lady to wear light colors, but they are not afraid to wear dark and bold colors with the right outfit.
So what color attracts an Aquarius man? The answer is simple: red. It is one of their signature colors. This is known to be a color that attracts attention, and you do want to draw his eye straight to you and no one else!
The archetypal “lady in a red dress” is totally his thing! Whether it’s a tight-fitting power office dress, a flowing red maxi dress, or a gorgeous red blouse, it doesn’t matter. You might even just want to splash some red on your lips, because that works, too!
Make red your color to wear, even if you’ve never thought of it before. Try out some different shades and be a little bit daring, why don’t you? Apart from red, Aquarius men also like blue, turquoise, and violet.
How To Dress For An Aquarius Man — Tips, Tricks & More
1. A Classy & Independent Look
When you’re trying to draw an Aquarius man into your world, you’re going to want to show him how very independent you are. Dress classy and different from the norm.
He prefers a woman who is confident in wearing something daring, unlike all the models on the runway. He doesn’t care about a woman wearing whatever another woman is wearing. Fashion isn’t his thing.
The zanier or more exotic you can look, the better. Show him your own style! Naturally, if you do tend to wear today’s fashion, he won’t expect you to change it, but he may not notice you as easily.
Looking classy is the other part of attracting him. He can look at half-naked women anywhere. Leaving something to the imagination is far more exciting to him. He is also more interested in your brain than he is in your body.
I’m not saying he doesn’t appreciate the female form, but I am saying he will want to get to know you for who you truly are because that is what matters to him when finding a mate.
Wearing blue will get his attention, especially bright, electric, or sapphire blue. These are his colors, so he’ll naturally be drawn to them.
2. Wearing Stones
You could possibly try appealing to him by wearing his birthstones. One of them is Amethyst. This is a healing stone that many Reiki practitioners like to use. They’re also very beautiful with their purple color.
His other stones are Aquamarine and, of course, Opal. You might try to find out which stone he prefers out of them all. Perhaps you can find a piece of jewelry that has his favorite in it and gift it to him.
All stones have metaphysical qualities and as such, they may help you to coax an Aquarius man to you. Find out which of the three may be the best in attracting love. You may be able to charge them with energy to help you in the process as well.
3. Heavenly Scent
Just like any man, this guy loves certain scents above all others. If you’re trying to impress him, you may try something like Vanilla. It’s soft and warm which is something he can appreciate.
He also digs fruity types of smells. This could include apple, lemon, lime, orange, or strawberry. There are many types of fruit smells you can purchase. You can also either wear them or burn them in an oil diffuser for the air.
Wear it or use it as a room freshener that will set the mood. Also, another option is a warm cedar. It’s an earthy scent that is very inviting. It says “yes please make yourself comfortable darling”.
You may also want to read: How To Ask An Aquarius Man Out
Few More Tips On What To Wear To Attract An Aquarius Man
4. Feed Him
He is still a man which means that to get to his heart, you can start with his stomach. He loves exotic cuisines and things that are different. That being said, it’s important to bring him delicious treats. This answers your question about how to attract an Aquarius man.
He will likely enjoy healthy types of foods with flair. It wouldn’t be at all surprising if he wants to indulge in something with spicy peppers. Indian food or Thai may be a good choice.
It’s preferable if you cook for him but it’s still acceptable if you take him to a nice restaurant with a really amazing atmosphere. The food has to be top notch as he always wants the best.
Cheeseburgers and Fries are alright but he’d rather have Vietnamese cuisine. He can eat regular stuff anytime. Dazzle him with some sushi that you’ve hand rolled. Perhaps serve him some Saki while you’re cooking.
The man loves food and the more exciting you can make it, the more you’ll get his attention and perhaps more of his time in the future. If you’re able to secure a date with him, this will impress him on a very deep level.
5. Alluring Herbs
Believe it or not, each sign has herbs that can be used, consumed, or burned to create an ideal environment of comfort. For Aquarius, catnip is ironically one of those herbs.
Perhaps you could have some catnip grass growing in your place. He also may be partial to Chamomile. Maybe when you have him over, you could make him a nice cup of tea with either.
If you can find incense that is made with either, you could try burning it in the background and see how he responds to it. Of course, you’ll need to find out if he’s allergic to smoke or not.
You could also impress him with some nice floral arrangements made with Orchids or Skull Cups. These are the flowers that are native to the Aquarius. He’ll likely enjoy them.
6. Be Curious
The Aquarius guy really digs women with brains. What good is a sexy body if she isn’t smart and witty? To him, he wants the whole package. If he had to pick, he would prefer intelligence.
If you’re going for it, you’re going to need to show him just how smart you are. Find out what he likes, and learn everything you can about it. That way, you have content to contribute to a conversation he may start.
Better yet is when you know he likes something and you start the conversation about it. Letting him know you went through the effort to get to know him better will turn him on and excite his mind.
Smarts will win this guy over every single time. Wearing some glasses may help the cause. Be the naughty teacher type who looks smart but is very sexy. He’ll get into it and want more.
Here’s more about what an Aquarius man likes and dislikes in a woman.
What To Wear On A First Date With An Aquarius Man?
Before you choose your outfit for a first date with an Aquarius man, please keep in mind his confident and energetic personality.
You can choose to be fashionable and trendy, but you can also wear something unique and unconventional so that he is aware that you pay close attention to your looks and modern lifestyle.
While it is important to dress nicely, what matters most is to feel comfortable and be yourself, because Aquarius will sense if you are pretending and trying to camouflage your tension, so show your genuine personality and creativity.
Aquarius loves culture and class, so tasteful and appropriate clothes always work best, as opposed to provocative and overly revealing outfits, which will always capture an Aquarius man’s attention. Radiate confidence. Put effort into your presentation and physical appearance, but make sure you are relaxed and content.
Why Personality Draws an Aquarius Man More Than Any Outfit
If you take one thing from this article, let it be this. An Aquarius man is drawn to a mind long before he is drawn to a hemline. Ruled by Uranus and belonging to the element of air, he lives in the realm of ideas, and the woman who fascinates him is the one who can meet him there. A striking outfit might earn a glance, but a striking thought earns his attention, and attention is where everything with this sign begins.
This is wonderful news, because it means you do not have to become someone else to attract him. You simply have to let the most interesting, curious, independent version of yourself come through. Share your unusual passions, voice your real opinions, show him the parts of you that are a little bit different, because different is exactly what an air sign finds beautiful. The dressing tips in this article work best not as a costume but as an expression of a woman who already knows she is interesting. For more on the specific qualities he cannot resist, see my guide on what kind of women an Aquarius man likes.
The Kind of First Impression That Makes an Aquarius Man Curious
First impressions with an Aquarius man are not about dazzling him, they are about intriguing him. This sign is not swept away by an over-the-top display, in fact too much effort to impress can put him off. What draws him in is a woman who seems comfortable in her own skin, a little bit mysterious, and clearly living a full and interesting life of her own. He wants to feel that you are not there to win his approval, but that you might, just might, be worth his curiosity.
So the most attractive first impression is a relaxed, confident, authentically-you one. Let there be a little space, a little of the unknown, something that leaves him wanting to learn more rather than feeling he has already seen everything. An Aquarius man is a natural investigator of people, and nothing appeals to him like a woman who is genuinely her own person. Once you have his curiosity, letting him do the pursuing is what deepens it, which I cover in my guide on how to make an Aquarius man chase you.
Your Questions About Attracting an Aquarius Man, Answered
What is an Aquarius man most attracted to?
Above everything else, an Aquarius man is attracted to intelligence and originality. He wants a woman who can hold a real conversation, who thinks for herself, and who brings a fresh perspective he has not heard a hundred times. Independence is a close second, because a woman with her own full life signals that she will respect his need for freedom. Physical attraction matters, but for this sign it tends to grow out of mental and emotional connection rather than existing on its own. Engage his mind and let your individuality show, and you become far more attractive to him than any purely physical approach could make you.
Do looks matter to an Aquarius man?
Looks matter to an Aquarius man, but usually less than they do to many other signs, and rarely in a conventional way. He is often drawn to a distinctive, unique style rather than a cookie-cutter idea of beauty, and he notices a woman who expresses herself through how she presents herself. A confident, original look that reflects a genuine personality will catch his eye far more than a flawless but generic appearance. So by all means dress in a way that makes you feel good and shows who you are, but know that your presence, your mind, and your self-assurance will always do more of the work than your outfit alone.
How do I catch an Aquarius man’s attention?
The surest way to catch an Aquarius man’s attention is to be interesting rather than available. Engage him in conversation about ideas, show genuine curiosity about his unusual interests, and let him glimpse that you have a rich, independent life of your own. Avoid coming on too strong or making it obvious that you are trying to impress him, because both can send this freedom-loving sign into retreat. Think of it as lighting his curiosity and then giving it room to grow. A woman who is warm, intriguing, and unmistakably her own person is the one an Aquarius man cannot stop thinking about.
What kind of woman does an Aquarius man find irresistible?
An Aquarius man finds a woman irresistible when she combines a lively, independent mind with genuine warmth and total comfort in who she is. She is a friend as much as a romantic interest, someone he never tires of talking to, who respects his space yet draws him closer through sheer fascination. She does not need him to feel complete, which paradoxically makes him want to be part of her life all the more. If you want to be sure you are not accidentally doing the things that push him the other way, my guide on what turns an Aquarius man off is worth a read alongside this one.
I would love to hear from you. Have you been trying to draw in an Aquarius man? What has worked, and what has left you guessing? Share your experience in the comments below and I will do my best to help. I read every single one.
If You Listen To Dating Coaches, You Can Lose Your Aquarius Man Forever…
Over the years, I’ve had a lot of my clients send me advice they got from dating coaches. They wanted to know if it would work with their Aquarius man.
And I literally wanted to scream with frustration.
Why???
Because most dating advice definitely will NOT work if you use it with an Aquarius.
You see, Aquarius men are VERY different from men of other signs. And if you use standard dating advice with a Sag, it can backfire.
He might disappear forever and you’ll never hear from him again.
I don’t want that to happen to you. Especially when it is SO easy to draw him to you and get him to connect deeply with your heart.
You just need to know the specific phrases to tell him…
So he’ll NEVER want to lose you. He’ll be wrapped around your finger… And it won’t take him long to put a ring on that finger either.
These phrases are the EXACT thing you need to turn everything around with him.
So… for heaven’s sake… DON’T listen to normal dating coaches! They give out the same advice for ALL men… which is absolutely insane.
Because your wonderful Aquarius is NOT like other men… at ALL.
Click here to find out the specific things your Aquarius man needs to hear to melt his heart <<
Sending you love and light,
Anna Kovach x
I’m an Aquarius man.Yeah the article is 90% similar to me.I liked the color blue when I was a kid,but now I’m more fond of red.So,I like red birth stones.Anything would be okay.But should be deep and dark.Lighter colors don’t catch my eyes that great.I like when someone with red dress.
I love women with glasses,but I hate someone with cat eye glasses.It makes me remember the boring class of that grudgy teacher in my childhood.I love the scent of vanilla and strawberry.I love if my partner feed me(I don’t have till now).I prefer food baked by her.BTW,I’m from India.
Thanks for the article.Stay Safe✌.