Signs An Aquarius Man Likes You: Know If He's Interested

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5 Signs An Aquarius Man Likes You: Know If He’s Interested

The chances of getting an Aquarius man to make the first move towards a romantic relationship are pretty slim, so go for it and hope for the best. Even if he’s sending you mixed signals, there are some basic signs an Aquarius man is interested. Keep reading to find out exactly how to tell if an Aquarius man likes you.

Signs An Aquarius Man Likes You

1. Shows he Cares with Sweet Gestures

Aquarius men are kind people, but they go the extra mile when they’re in the presence of someone they like. Aquarius men aren’t drawn to love as much or as often as any other sign, so when they make time for you in particular, something must be going on.

If he is extraordinarily nice to you and he doesn’t expect anything in return, make your move. These types of men aren’t very outwardly emotional, so they probably won’t tell you how they feel right off the bat. You’ll have to drag it out of him, and even then it might not work. As long as he’s caring for you, your odds are favorable.

Aquarius man will take steps to make you feel wanted or cared for such as sending you gifts, sending a heartfelt text message or he will call more often that he normally would do with anyone else.

He may want to pull your chair out, order for you, or give you flower when you two go out to eat. He will be fairly sweet because he wants you to know he’s interested in getting to know you. When Aquarius man shows a caring personality, this is one of the signs Aquarius man likes you.

2. One on One

Signs An Aquarius Man Likes You

Aquarius men are some of the most social people in the world and for them to want to hang out with just one person must mean that that one person is particularly special. While you’re having your one-on-one time, do something fun and exciting.

Don’t expect to jump right into a passion-filled boat of romance just because he’s showing interest in you. Aquarius men like to keep things open and be easy-going, so start out as friends, and you’ll eventually get to the romance part of your relationship.

When Aquarius man has a crush on you for a while, give him something back. They are notorious thinkers, and if you don’t react, or don’t react well, he’ll think he did something wrong, and the nice gestures will most likely stop.

Go out with him and have fun, this way you’ll get close without getting too close, and that’s exactly what he wants at the beginning of a relationship.

Alone time is exactly the right way to get to know each other and building something really special for the future. Take your time and enjoy your Aquarius man.

3. Communication

Don’t be surprised when an Aquarius man talks for hours on end, they can talk about nothing until their lips fall off, but they always enjoy sharing their opinions.  It’s when they start talking to you about meaningful stuff that matters.

Their deepest thoughts are for their mind only, but if they care about you and want to get close to you, they will share their innermost thoughts with you. This puts everything on the line in their eyes.

All they’re thinking is what will happen if they share these things with you and you just brush it off, or even worse, what if you don’t care about what they have to think or say. They’re putting their trust in your hands, so react wisely.

Talking to you and sharing great conversation is how an Aquarius man acts when he likes you. Enjoy his intellect and great topics. You of course, should always show him your witty intellect as well. He’ll appreciate it greatly.  

Tell him about yourself, tell him about your life, and things that are important to you. You can share your values and interests to help him get to know who you are and it will help determine if the Aquarius man digs you.

4. 20 Questions

Signs An Aquarius Man Likes You

When he starts asking you personal questions or questions that will let him see into who you really are, that’s when you know he’s really into you.  Aquarians love to gain knowledge on the people they’re surrounded by, but if he asks these questions while it’s just you two in a room, you know he’s smitten.

Be prepared to answer anything that comes out of his mouth, though. If he wants to get to know you, you need your best answers ready for him so you two can eventually have a relationship based off of the truth.

A little mystery is never a bad thing, especially when dealing with an Aquarius. Aquarius men will sit and ponder for hours trying to think of the answers to the questions you evaded. 

This is an indicator of how much he wants you. If he’s willing to go to you personally and ask you, you have to understand that he wants your attention.

While you want to tell him important things, you should hold back a little bit about yourself. Give him just tidbits of things so that you’ll have more to discuss next time you talk or are together. It gives him something to think about and look forward to next time. Remember that this is just one of the other signs Aquarius man likes you.

5. Trust

Trust can be hard for Aquarius men. They tend to keep to themselves and not share much with others. If they let you in, that means you matter to them. Letting him into your personal life can be overbearing, but don’t wait for him to tell you all his secrets first.

Doing this can result in him feeling like he’s being used, and nobody likes that feeling. Give and take is very important in any relationship and even more so when a relationship involves an Aquarius. Pushing him even when you don’t mean to can lead to something ugly going down, so know your boundaries before you share absolutely everything with each other.

Romance isn’t something most Aquarius men do, but when they decide to try it out, it rarely goes wrong. Get to know each other and be happy. That’s all any Aquarius can ask for.

Mixed Signals from Aquarius Man

If he’s sending you mixed signals and you are still not sure whether he really likes you or not, then you need to know more about why he would be this way. You may be dealing with the hot and cold Aquarius man.

It’s not an exact science but sometimes the Aquarius man blows hot and cold leaving a woman totally confused. There are things you can do and signs to look out for. Keep your eyes open for red flags and make sure you’re not ignoring your gut instincts.

If you can tell he really likes you but is confused or unsure then he may just be dragging his feet. Give him your time and patience as things can surely heal and press forward when the time is right. When you can tell how an Aquarius man acts when he likes you then trust that.

Just remember to always be patient and take your time. There is no real need to hurry. Sometimes the best relationships with Aquarius man come from taking it nice and easy.

What You Should Do Now

If you are serious about getting this Aquarius man to fall deeply in love with you,  you should do two things:

  1. First, leave a comment on this post with the biggest challenge you are currently facing with your Aquarius man.
  2. Take my Aquarius man relationship compatibility quiz here.

For every person who first leaves a comment and completes the quiz, I will receive an email notification. Then, I will send you my “30 dirty little secrets about the Aquarius man” special report (a kind of roadmap to gain clarity and guidance about your relationship), Plus – I will personally respond to your comment (so make sure to enter your correct email when posting a comment about your challenge).

24 thoughts on “5 Signs An Aquarius Man Likes You: Know If He’s Interested

  1. My hubby is Aquarius and I’m pisces n we make thee most power full couple ever we have 2boys which is a Tauris n Scorpio bt we love thm 2bits n love each other jst so mch n we have been 2gther for 10 years nw n married for 9 years bt wat ur book said bout Aquarius is true its all on point

    1. Im a pisces dating a aquarius man he is very difficult to understand we been going string for a year but wont open up be has told me he loved me once n never said it again i just dont get on min we are close then turn around he is a cold hearted person

      1. I am in a similar situation only I’ve been dating this man off and on for 7 years. He has told me he loves me once and never again, as he has gotten older he has mature a lot and respects me more. We were teenagers when we met.

  2. I will never touch a psycho aquarius man not with a ten foot pole.

    I dated an aqua man, did not think we were good match so cut it short after just few dates, he got angry. Four years later he calls and begs for second chance. He came on so strong he overwhelmed me, showered me in dinners, gifts and pressured me super hard to move in after only two months.

    I was dumb and followed his lead. As soon as I was under his roof, he came home in nasty moods, questioned me rudely and one day when we were cleaning up his house just said “I dont think this is going to work”. He wouldnt talk or work through the problem and grab some booze and just ran away.

    Aquarius tend to have mental problems. The men are little babies at heart who gossip about others & act cold to hide their emotions. All they care about is money, brag and hide in their job.

    This aquarius was hoarding, trash, old worn out objects, junk appliances and we had started cleaning it all out. He had drove two full truck loads of garbage away before he just freaked out from being seperated from the junk and trash he was used to.

    I was horrified I had moved out of my home, sold my furniture & trusted this fool who was throwing in the towel at our first disagreement. I had only moved clothes and cosmetics in with him so gathered my things and ended up leaving within 2 hours because I realized quickly there is no living with a hoarder not to mention his younger roomate he said he would have move out then didnt. Plus 3 dogs.

    Horrible guy, I had to go live with a friend and it strained the friendship. I was a basket case after what he put me through. I cleaned his pig stye house until I was weary as hell and then had heavy emotional grief to deal with.

    It took me a whole year to regain my life to a reasonable degree. I am scared to trust anyone now.


    1. I have known my aquarius since the 7th grade I’m older by 2 years 41 to his Soon To be 39 we lost contact for 20 plus years well we meet again and I tell him he still owes me a kiss and boy he gave it to me let’s just say Im pregnant and now he is closed off but I can tell he is excited to be having a baby his first but he no longer calls or responds like Im mean nothing to him we went from wild great sex and perfection to not a damn thing but pregnant and sad missing buddy

  3. Cannot go based solely on a person’s sun sign..your moon sign is your inner self and you have your rising and different specific houses as well to each individual person

  4. I enjoyed this insight and the clean yet caring style it’s written in. I’m in accord with the above comments about moon sign & ascendant ( as well as the rest of the chart) being important indicators of character. Sun signs are important but only go so far.

    And heavens yes, slow down and observe before moving in w some one 🙂

  5. I am a Gemini/Cancer and my Aquarius man and i clicked right away. We talk on phone, text msg and have a wonderful time when we are together. He always does things from his heart and supports me 100% on all I do.

  6. I m a gemini definitely crushing on an aquarius long distance but not in any hurry for anything really. Our flirtationship is so beautiful even without romance or unnecesarry emotions. We re both intellectual and he introduced me to a realm of gaming that has become a virtual one-on-one hangout. We talk via phonecall and text a lot and he s always ready to help me solve problems and answer questions. He taught me the value of not being a petty person and i m discovering ( 11 months into our friendship) that unemotional does not equal emotionless. Many ppl would find aquarius an annoying smartypants but he makes me quite happy as well as more intelligent. Thanks to this blog for the helpful insights that seem to have helped me comprehend and appreciate this personality

  7. I have been with an aquarius for three weeks. He came on gang busters wanted a commited relationship immediately. I made the mistake of having sex with him the first date he said don’t get mad but I have to go. We have texted almost every day. He calls me on his way back to his house from work. He always has sweet emojis with his texts. Addresses me with my love, honey, or sunshine. The problem is his mother is 93 and he lives with her. I just moved here and live with my sister temporarily. He wants me to get an apartment, I don’t want to be a booty call for him. He contacted me my problem with this is I am 19 years older than him.He is not some young kid he is 57 but never been married. I do like him but don’t know where he thinks this is going. He says age doesn’t matter but it will in a few more years. I don’t look my age now but who knows what the future will bring.

    1. Hi Sharon!

      Alright so avoid any weird awkward situations, you need to be honest with him sweetheart. Tell him exactly what you feel and what you want so there is no confusion. Ask him how he feels and where he sees things headed. Get on the same page so that you know what you will do next. Don’t be afraid to ask him. He’ll tell you!

  8. The biggest challenge I’m facing with the Aquarius man in my live is most part the ‘hot and cold’ stuff. This is going on for little over a year now. There are some things in our situation that make it very difficult for both of us, one of them is an age difference (me being older). I just know he has the same feelings about me as I do about him, although he doesn’t tell me. I see it in his eyes.
    Although when we shared an evening, after that he will go cold and there is absolutely no contact for a while. In the beginning it could get to a month or so without contact, where as for now it’s maximum for 2 weeks. In the beginning I tried to stay in contact with him. Then about a month ago I told him the truth about what I was feeling, and he turned me down. He told me that he don’t want to be in a relationship and if my feelings where that strong he couldn’t go on with it anymore.
    I accepted it and from that moment on I decided to go in no contact. I wasn’t angry with him, just thought ok, when there really is something and I didn’t misjudged what I was seeing, then he wil make contact again.
    And he did, 2 weeks after our last conversation. And again, yesterday when he was over at my place where we were watching a movie together and he stayed for the night. We were laying in each other’s arms in bed, but that was all. I had to go to work early this morning and that’s when he left. And yet again, haven’t heard from him since.
    So is it wise for me to still invest in him and a friendship/relationship or am I better off letting him go?
    He is very stubborn and only every once in a while he will open up emotionally.

  9. I’ve been on a few dates with my Aquarius man and I’m a Capricorn woman in the past 4mos. We’ve known each other for a few years casually as we work for the same company, but in different areas. Mutual friends have told me that he wants to take it slow since we work for the same company. There are times when he initiated the conversation, but majority of the time I’m initiating the conversation or setting up the next date. From some of the stuff that I’ve read of yours it seems he’s a hot & cold Aquarius. I’m trying to be patient, but don’t know if I’m just wasting my time?

  10. I work at the same company where Mr. Aquarious works. We take our lunch hour about the same time with a couple of other people. He is definitely a talker; however, he talks more to them. I listen, and maybe try to say something. I find it a challenge to be part of the conversation, and even try to ask a couple of general questions he can very easily answer.

  11. My Aquarius guy is accustomed to calling me nearly everyday but suddenly this has stopped. I do not believe that I have done anything wrong but it has me wondering. There is this Corona Virus in the country and he called me and told me no contact, no contact and that was the last I heard from him. That was Monday 16th March, 2020. You cannot get the virus through a phone call or text, so what is the problem?
    What do you think?

  12. Hi, I met this acquarius man during my work ( we work in the same field ) we spent lots of time together talking about everything , and we both felt like talking with a friend as we felt comfortable. He is really caring and I like the fact that he always use we instead of you. We met an other time and it was really nice he bought me some stuff that he knew I liked and I did the same , and he was really interested to know me more . The only thing is that at the beginning he was warmer by text but now he texts me less and he is not so warm.. but I feel like he still cares of me. I hope the next time we will be able to see each other I could understand more

  13. Ich als Löwe passe sehr gut zu meinem Wassermann. Derzeit ist es eine schwierige Phase, da die Beziehung rein sexuell ist und unverbindlich. Ich möchte die Beziehung aus dieser Schublade rausbringen.

  14. Capricorn lady
    I’ve been talking to a Aquarius man though texting and phoning for about 5 weeks now was suppose to meant up but I cancelled our texting as been very on and off as he read something wrong way so stop texting but we sorted that out then I went cold on him just before the virus thing started but I text him to ask if he was ok as o so like him we have been texting every day since but wow his a strange one he can be watching a film so I ask about it and nothing to me it’s weird coz I’ll have my phone in my lap I can still watch tv and text lol I asked him the other day why he doesn’t really open up and he said he doesn’t trust anybody but doesn’t intentionally do it it’s just the way he is I can tell he is insecure about himself as I have had a lot of therapy about myself so I know the signs his very up and down and I’m just not sure I like this as I’m very open and very on the line and I’m not sure this is good for me please help thank you

  15. Hi Anna, I met this man just 2 months ago. And the worst part is that we are in a distant relationship. Our meeting was just an acquaintance. After that he approached and we started talking to each other. Suddenly he has stopped calling, Stopped sending messages. And replies to my messages very often and that too a very limited reply. Cant figure out what is there in his mind. Pls help.

  16. Dealing so much with an Aquarius Hot and Cold. We are Amazing friends and we flirt endlessly. We are more friends overall, but I crush him hard. How do I maneuver this situation because when I feel I’m finally over his confusing signals and move on he smoothly comes back around as if hello nothing has happened like he didn’t just disappear & ghosted me yet, he manages to put a smile on my face & I forget it all!!! He is such an Aquarius Men.

  17. Good morning.
    First, Thank you so much for sharing your blog! I have read a few other pages [okay more than a few] on the Aquarius man and yours captured my attention, as well as inspired me the most.
    I am an Aries woman w/ ASC.- Scorpio and my Bestie is an Aquarius also w/ ASC.-Scorpio. We have known each other for over 12 years with a platonic relationship only. We were not super close in the early years and we drifted apart for a while. I think we would have stayed closer if he wasn’t 15 years older than me. He is 45yo and I am 31yo. Moving forward, we rekindled our friendship in January. of this year and have been in touch every day since then. Our relationship is extremely supportive, fun, sexy, & genuine with one another. It moved very quickly and yes, we took things to another level, not even a month later. However, He is in a committed relationship of 6 years and I have been married for 6 years. Aqua and I are both in a stagnant place with significant others. So times are very confusing for both of us at home but Not once has it been hot and cold with our relationship.
    –Until I sent him a picture of me by mistake that wasn’t intended to go to him and told him that and apologized. I got no response for quite some time. When he came back around I could tell he was hurt. I apologized again and he played it off like it was okay, even though in my gut I know its not..

    and it got me thinking after reading the Trust section in your blog specifically, knowing Boundaries before you share everything and………… What does this mean??
    What boundaries specifically should be discussed?? Do I leave it be or bring it up again to him??

    Any help or insight, any feedback, anything is greatly appreciated !!

    A Huge Thank you to anyone that reads this novel of mine too!! lol

    Best Wishes to All <3

  18. I have a problem,need some help…I think my guy aqua best friend like me, the same as all of the signs above, but I’m so confused with him he keeps on telling me I only like you as a friend nothing more, and I told him…then why did u have to spend time with me and flirt?!? Sometimes his hot other times his cold… My birthday is August 31,1985

    And his birthday is Feb 9, 1994

    Please any advice and help…

    1. Wow I am in the same situation as you, my birthday is 8/19/1974 and his is 2/7/1985. They like older women huh…lol

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