Why Is My Aquarius Man Ignoring Me? What Can I Do?

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Why Is My Aquarius Man Ignoring Me? What Can I Do?

Why is my Aquarius man ignoring me all of a sudden? If you’re wondering this, then your Aquarius guy has probably suddenly gone very quiet, not returning your phone calls or texts, maybe even not returning your emails? If an aquarius man ignores you does that mean he is testing you? There may be a reason he’s gone quiet and it’s important not to panic.

Why an Aquarius Man Ignores You…

The hardest thing about dating an Aquarius man is trying to figure out why he occasionally goes silent. I’ve touched on this topic before but I still keep getting emails from women wondering what it is they did wrong.

Yet still you wonder “why is my Aquarius man ignoring me all the sudden?”… There are things you should think over and see if it’s the case with him or not.

Sometimes the simplest answer is that he’s very busy and when he gets time, he’ll respond to you. If you’re bugging him calling or texting frequently, he may back off to let you know he needs some space.

Rather than tell you he needs it, he’ll just take it. This can leave a woman confused for sure if he’s been hot to trot then suddenly not. As far as being done with you, that may take a bit more time and effort to find out.

Aquarius isn’t forthcoming sometimes, especially if he doesn’t know for sure. He may have thought it over and figured out he needs to think about the two of you a bit more before he invests any more energy into it.

Yes, he can go cold if he’s having second thoughts or cold feet. It doesn’t always mean he is done, however. Try not to assume anything and don’t overreact until you are able to get information from him directly.

Coldness can be from moodiness, boredom with you, feels overwhelmed, isn’t sure if you’re the one, or knows you’re not the one but isn’t yet ready to completely give in yet.

Reasons An Aquarius Man Is Ignoring You

1. He is Unaware

You may ask yourself sometimes, Aquarius man ignoring me? If the Aquarius man you’re interested in doesn’t know you like him; he’ll simply just blow you off in ignorance. He isn’t the most astute men even if he is highly intellectual.

He’s the type of guy that is literal. Unless he knows you like him or finds him interesting; he’ll simply ignore you because he doesn’t know any better. This is that typical “duh” thing that many men experience.

This isn’t just the Aquarius man either! Many men of various signs just “don’t see it” when a woman is into them. So he’s not the only one that may be ignorant of what is going on around him.

That being said, this is one reason why he may not be paying attention to you. Just the lack of knowledge that you may be into him isn’t there for him so he simply doesn’t pay attention.

To get him to notice you or pay attention; you’ll need to do something to get his attention as if to say “hello! I’m here”. Once he does notice you, you can then use some other tactics to let him know you’re interested.

2. He’s Really Mad

If you are already dating an Aquarius man and he’s ignoring you, there is that possibility that you did something that crossed a line for him and so in retribution he’s giving you the silent treatment.

Often times an Aquarius man has to get his thoughts together before he’ll sit and discuss it with you. If you’ve just had a big blow-up, argument, or he’s found out something you’ve done and is now pissed off; that’s why Aquarius man ignores you.

While the Aquarius man can sometimes spew things that are angry and mean; he doesn’t always mean it at the time. So if he can possibly help it, he’d rather go spend time alone and figure it out for himself then come back to it.

If he doesn’t come back then he’s resolved that you were definitely in the wrong and he is correct in his assessment that he should move on. In that case,  you may not ever hear from him again.

It truly will depend on what happened between the two of you prior to him not paying attention to you anymore. Only you could possibly know what you may have done to make him that angry.

3. He’s Just Not That Into You

Another reason you may ask why Aquarius man is ignoring me? Most Aquarius men will just come out and tell you if they’re not interested in you and for what reason. However, there are some that will not have the gumption to approach you and tell you.

Feeling that you are too fragile or emotional, could cause him to avoid trying to talk to you about his feelings or that he wants out. This would cause him to shut down and walk away completely without telling you anything.

It really depends on the individual in how he handles this situation. Some handle it with ease and some just get squeamish. Their moon sign or ascendant sign may play a role in how they feel about letting someone down easy.

Some will just cut you off completely and you’ll never see or hear them ever again. If they live across town; then it’s easy for them to disappear.

4. He’s Legitimately Busy

Aquarius men are all about achieving their success in their career. If not a career, they’re working hard at trying to build their future empire. Some will have one job that they work overtime at and some have multiple jobs.

Depending on their circumstances; they want to be sure that they will have plenty of money to live their dreams and retire on. This is a big priority for them. They may sadly sometimes not keep in touch as they should.

Sometimes they blow off phone calls and texts. They mean to call you back or text you back but they just totally forget in their busy lives. In other words, he may not be blowing you off on purpose.

If he’s busy working on a project or on doing a bunch of overtime; you may want to cut him some slack. It could be a temporary thing. However, When an Aquarius man ignores you, you may want to sit down and talk to him.

Working as hard as doing constantly over time, he may be trying to pay off a debt, build up a nest egg, or a variety of other things. It may be a good idea for you to know why he’s doing it.

Doing it for a positive purpose may benefit you later on as well if you stick it out with him. Besides; if you’re with him, he’s likely expecting you to be the same way with your time.

Most Aquarius men want a woman who can match them and be just as driven as they are. They don’t like to settle for women who have no drive and are totally ok with a boring life without money.

He’s always striving for more and wants a partner who will also feel this way. It gives him security and makes him feel as though they’re both working toward something instead of just existing.

Just existing isn’t acceptable to an Aquarius man. If you’ve been doing lots of laying around watching TV; he may be starting to change his mind about you. If you want to know why he’s acting the way he is, look at your own behavior.

Are you lining up with his goals? Does he know you like him? Did you make him angry? Is he really super busy and just forgetful? These are the questions you need to ask.

If you can answer yourself honestly, you’ll get the answer you truly need.

Patience is Required

Deal with an Aquarius Man That Is Distancing Himself

As hard as it may be, you’re going to have to relax and let go. You cannot control an Aquarius or his thoughts. You also cannot control his actions. He is a strong individual who doesn’t want to be dictated to.

I often get emails from women asking me what they can do to get him to do something or to get him to feel a certain way. The answer is, there isn’t anything you can do. He has to want you and that has to be his choice.

I know it’s hard to hear that but you need to know the truth. Manipulation will not work with Aquarius men. Like Virgo, they’re very keen and know when you’re being sincere or not.

If he feels you’re manipulating him, he will drop you like a hot cake for sure. He wants a partner who will have patience enough to let things grow in a natural way and in natural time rather than trying to rush him.

Trying to rush him will absolutely get him to ignore you or back off for a while. It doesn’t mean he’ll be gone forever. When you panic after a few unanswered texts; you’re making yourself upset.

If an Aquarius man ignores you does that mean he is testing you? It could be that he is and he wants to see if you actually do have the patience it requires being with him. If he is testing you then you should show him you can handle it.

He Hates When Someone Pushes Him

Trust me when I tell you that he detaches enough that it’s not going to faze him to leave you alone for a while. He knows what he wants and there is no changing that.

To truly get the Aquarius man’s attention, you’re going to have to calm down and have patience. Stop obsessing over your phone and whether or not he’s contacted you. The expectation on him will backfire.

When he wants to talk to you or spend time with you, he’ll certainly let you know. If he wants time to himself or some space, let him have it. It will do you no good to try to jerk that out from beneath him.

Be that independent woman he was attracted to in the first place. Be busy and don’t worry so much whether or not he’s going to return your phone call, email, or texts.

Believe that all will be well no matter what happens. Remember it’s only YOU that can make you happy. It’s not his responsibility and no one should have that sort of pressure put on them.

Make Time for Yourself

When an Aquarius man ignores you, go ahead and look into your own life. Spend time with your friends or family. Have fun. Put your phone away if you need to or leave it at home.

Stressing over whether or not he’s going to reach out will not help you achieve the desired results. Pining for him will give off energy that he will receive and decide you’re too needy.

Remember that he wants a woman who is strong and does her own thing. It will turn him on to know you’re busy and not worried about where he is, why he hasn’t reached out, or what he’s doing.

The less you pine over him, the more intrigued he’ll be. You can shoot him a quick text saying “I’m busy doing stuff but wanted to say hi and hope you’re doing well”. He’ll lift an eyebrow and wonder what you’re up to.

He may respond at that moment but even if he doesn’t, when he wants you, he’ll reach out. What’s the worst that happens? He decides not to contact you again? If you learn how to truly make yourself happy, it won’t matter.

I’m not saying that you should give up on your Aquarius guy so don’t get me wrong. I want you to live a long happy life filled with love. However, remember that we teach people how to treat us.

When an Aquarius man ignores you, shrug your shoulders and go about your business. If it’s a test to see how loyal you are or how patient you are, you’ll win the prize. If not, he may back out.

What to do when Aquarius man ignores your texts?

The best way to handle it when the Aquarius man isn’t returning your texts or giving any sort of response is to act as though it doesn’t bother you. Don’t text him again for awhile.

Bombarding him will only make him feel pressured and annoyed. Also it makes him feel you are clingy which will just make him lose interest in you entirely.

When an Aquarius man ignores you, sometimes it’s best to just leave him be and let him gather his thoughts. Perhaps your missing presence via text or social media will cool him off and actually miss you.

What to do When Aquarius Man Ignores You

Make yourself unavailable. It’s really not nice when he’s ignoring you so why buy into it and make yourself upset? It’s not worth it. Besides, he’s winning and has the upper hand when you’re trying so hard and he’s blowing you off.

It’s easier to make a statement by not saying another word. If he’s not answering your calls, not returning your texts, not interacting with you, and not asking you out then it’s time to put the brakes on!

You are important and if he cannot see that then it’s time to make sure that YOU yourself know that. Be good to yourself. In fact if you keep reading, I have more tips on what you can do to treat your soul with love.

What You Should Do Now

If you are serious about getting this Aquarius man to fall deeply in love with you (and stop ignoring), you should do two things:

  1. First, leave a comment on this post with the biggest challenge you are currently facing with your Aquarius man.
  2. Take my Aquarius man relationship compatibility quiz here.

For every person who first leaves a comment and completes the quiz, I will receive an email notification. Then, I will send you my “30 dirty little secrets about the Aquarius man” special report (a kind of roadmap to gain clarity and guidance about your relationship), Plus – I will personally respond to your comment (so make sure to enter your correct email when posting a comment about your challenge).

13 thoughts on “Why Is My Aquarius Man Ignoring Me? What Can I Do?

  1. My Aquarius man ignores me most times and don’t even reply back, I give him his space and he usually text me and I get happy but I’m tired of the on and off stuff like it’s very annoying I don’t know what to do I mean I told him about but it does not change he just tells me he hate texting or he is busy 🙄

    1. Brandy Holmes, I was dealing with the same thing with my Aquarius.Sometime you have to back up and let them be.Do your own thing. Make yourself happy. Don’t allow him to drive you crazy. Just back up and ignore his text and calls

      1. Hi Stepl,

        I also agree with your thoughts on Brandy’s issue. She can try the aggressive and honest approach or she can act like it’s no biggie and do her own thing. She has to ultimately decide what she will or will not tolerate and either take action or change her mind and do something absolutely different. It’s up to her to figure out what boat she wants to be in. Sometimes ignoring HIM will make him wake up and take action.

    2. I’m Aquarius man I just had complex mind it hard not show it so easy doing work it hard sometime .we different type Aquarius so idk maybe he’s busy try something else sorry if I end your relationship but I’m not good at relationship I alway make mistakes so hard for me to do something perfect I just like being single talk to same one Aquarius different Per each person it hard

    3. Hi Brandy Holmes,

      If you’re totally fed up with him because you told him how you feel yet he keeps doing what he does, you should probably put your foot down and threaten to break it off. Tell him this is very serious for you and if he cannot work at changing things then you two should probably take a different direction. Perhaps that will give him some perspective. If he is truly busy though then there isn’t much that can be changed there other than waiting for him to be less busy. Trust what your gut tells you about it!

  2. Why my Aquarius man still ignoring me almost a week ago he did not respond to my call and messages and a couple days ago he block me in what’s app maybe he annoying me maybe it’s my fault what can I do I’m Scorpio

    1. Hi Mary Jane binamira!

      It sounds like your Aquarius has basically cut ties with you. He figured out the relationship wasn’t working for him and rather than tell you that, he just ghosted you. I’m sorry that he did this to you. You don’t deserve that. It’s probably best you try to move on from him and find someone else that is committed as you are so that you don’t end up in this type of situation again.

  3. Why is my Aquarius man keeps cancelling our appointment in the last minute.. he will ignore me for some months and comes back with one flimsy excuse.. he will start checking on me to know if I’m now with another person.. please why wouldn’t he be serious with our relationship or stop checking if I have given my heart to another person… stagitarius

  4. Currently dating an Aquarius man (I’m a Taurus). He has shown me so much interest..talking to him multiple times a day, sweet text messages, making sure he comes to see me which has been so refreshing because I haven’t dated in a while. All of a sudden nothing…I am soooo confused because we both have been very vocal about out interest in each other. I haven’t reached but I want to.

    1. TaurusGirl – I’m in the exact same boat. I was getting so excited because we are so alike, at least I thought so. Texts and talking and making plans. And then zippity. He’ll respond when I text, but I have to initiate it every time. I’m not chasing. I’m a Taurus girl too, so I’d love to hear the outcome. Mostly love to stop playing games at this stage of life

  5. So there is this guy he is an aquarius and we started our conversation from 15 feb and it was all going good for the next 2 weeks ..but recently he didn’t even texted me back and it has been 10 days
    Like i now he is busy because of an event and all but he watches my stories and like back my posts and all ! And whenever we see each other like in a cafe but with different groups then sometimes i have seen him looking at me ! I just want to know whether he is interested in me or not ! Ps i am a libra in sun and moon in aquarius 😉

  6. I’m a libra woman

    We currently went to our ‘first date’ without us having some expectations. We went to a museum and hit it off quickly. It seemed that we do have a lot of common interests and talked non-stop for 5 hours and even forgot to eat afterwards since it was getting late and we have things to do. I thanked him for the wonderful time and said that I learned a lot since he’s a cerebral man. He then replied that he enjoyed as well and even said we should hang out if I’ll do free diving or hike a mountain. I replied and invited him to a camping experience that would last for 2 days haha but then, I have to back-out since I recently remembered I had prior commitments. He didn’t reply and it has been a while since we last talked, about a month or so–that was our last conversation. What do you think I should do? Do you think we have a chance to spark it all up? Thank you.

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