Do You Make These Mistakes with an Aquarius Man?

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Do You Make These Mistakes with an Aquarius Man?

The quality of air gives the Aquarius man, his aura of an easy to be with the type of guy, his uplifting energy and the pioneering ideas which can turn the life into a really exciting and never-ending adventure.

It seems like nothing could go wrong with him, but wait a minute, because there are some behaviors which are sure to turn him off. Let us see the common mistakes you can make with the Aquarius man:

You Are a Materialistic Girl

This is one of the mistakes with an Aquarius man. We live in the material world and of course that you should have some plans and take some action steps to ensure your future. You can’t live through philosophy and you can’t surely pay your bills pondering about social injustice and equality.

However, there is nothing more repulsive to an Aquarius man than the idea of a sugar baby. You can build your life like an affluent woman beside the Aquarius guy, but you have to pay attention not to cross the fine line between the style and sugaring for sure.

If your life’s craving is to have the latest designer’s handbag, take your Instagram photos on a yacht, or stay at 5-star hotels exclusively, then this man is not the best option for you.

And even if you are convinced he is, Aquarius guy will pull back no doubt. This is the type of an astrological sign who loves the latest gadgets, communication, marketing, and globalism.

On the other side, Aquarius man is against elitist types of people and he despises those who are showing off with their wealth, properties or exclusive social network. Try to be a common girl if you want to win his heart.

You Are Too Attached to Your Home, Family or Mother

Mistakes with an Aquarius Man

There is really nothing wrong with the idea of having strong family roots and support. On the other side, the sign of Cancer makes the sixth house for the sign of Aquarius, and this is the area of his life which is dedicated to duties, daily obligations and health.

It’s exceptionally exhausting for him to even think about the family issues all the time, not to mention his aversion toward big family gatherings.

Maybe it’s totally normal for you to call your mother throughout the whole day asking her how she’s been, how to make that cake, what to do with some sensitive laundry or simply chitchat.

But this type of life is extremely exhausting for an Aquarius man and if you feel the need to contact your family and especially mother all the time, try to sustain from that while you are with him. The same applies to those types of women who are too attached to their homes.

Yes, a home is a sacred place and it should look tidy and with style. However, if you belong to the devoted housewife category, then you shouldn’t seek the love of the Aquarius man, because he needs to be with the one who is willing and ready to pack her bags in two minutes and fly on the other side of this planet.

Your Rules Are Strict And You criticize a Lot

This is one of the mistakes with the Aquarius man. Men, in the majority of cases, long to be with the woman who has a set of standards and there is nothing wrong with that basic rule. On the other side, if you tend to be nit-picky all the time and guard your strict daily schedule, those traits will pull him back from you. Aquarius guy loves the sense of freedom, innovation and pioneering and at this point, your worlds might not merge in a proper way.

For instance, if your daily menu is based on some special types of foods, he might be able to cope with that for a few days the most. However, after that time frame, he will take someone else to dinner, because he craves for variety and the fusion style will suit him the most.

The same applies to the girls with the strict working rules and time, or those who are addicted to the “no matter what” exercise regime. Don’t waste yours and surely don’t waste his time if you are not ready to “free flow”.

You Are Too Deep

Any woman is deep with her emotions in the eyes of men. In the case of Aquarius guy, this can be truly scary if you start to show some of the Scorpio types of behavior. No, he won’t like your black lipstick or the lacy gloves, because he will have the impression of a never-ending Halloween party while he is with you. And the same will go for your dark or too serious appearance.

You need to have the smile on your face and you surely need to look at your life through the bright hues if you want to keep the Aquarius man.

Also, try to sustain from any types of mystery conversations, keep your Tarot cards stories for your female friends, don’t offer to him to watch the horror movies together, medieval legends or something too heavy, because he will get bored.

You Calculate Too Much in Your Life

Mistakes with an Aquarius Man

Of course, the smart woman will use her brain to get the life she wants. This type of a woman will carefully choose the man with whom she’s going to spend her life with, she will also invest her time smartly into a proper education and career and end up rich, respected and supported by her family. And this is all fine. Except for one thing, Aquarius man doesn’t fall for this type of woman.

Conclusion

All the principals stated above are ok with him, but he needs the strong woman to live some high ideals by her side. He needs to fight for a moral cause, social injustice or environmental issues. So, if you are not ready to give the major part of your life for those causes, then try to find someone else.

Did you make these mistakes with the Aquarius man?

Share your story (or situation) with our community in the comment section below (don’t worry, it’s anonymous).

Wishing you all the luck of the universe

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer, Anna Kovach



47 thoughts on “Do You Make These Mistakes with an Aquarius Man?

  1. My Aquarius guy is a Cancer rising, Scorpio in the 5th house, with a Capricorn stellium. So I felt like this article did not apply to him At all. He is a homebody very attached to family, he is ambitious and strict about his routine, and he seems to love my heavy Scorpio energy.

  2. I’ve made all of these mistakes with my Aquarius guy. He also helped me realize this mistakes while I was blinded to them

  3. In most ways my guy fits the Aquarius traits, but these ones mostly didn’t apply to him. I’m a cancer with a lot of past trauma plus borderline personality, and while I know my emotional side is too much for him (we almost speak a different language) he has stuck by me through very horrible times for 16 years. I think circumstances and upbringing can hugely affect our base traits

    1. Hi Jess!

      Yes, rising signs and moon signs can greatly impact any sign’s personality. Not all Aquarius men are going to be the same due to this but they will have some very similar qualities. Indeed upbringing can make an impact as well. You are correct and I’m glad he’s standing by your side sweetheart. I wish you both all the very best.

  4. I am a Leo and the man I love is an Aquarius. We broke up a month ago after being together for a year because it got too serious for him too fast (in terms of physical intimacy). I just want to know if there’s a way to work it out and get back together? We’ve talked a little bit over the past month and he says he can not do a relationship at this point in time

    1. Hi S!

      You can try by regaining your friendship and starting from there. Perhaps with time, things will heal, things will change and perhaps grow from there. If you rushed him before then taking it nice and slow will help him feel more comfortable with you. Give that a try! I hope it works for you.

  5. I have a very intense connection with my Aquarius. Physically, it’s magic and transcendent. But that’s when we’re together. He has no inclination to merge our lives and I am constantly initiating any time together. Around his schedule of course. He’s damaged from past relationships. But I just don’t think I have it in me to wait it out and prove myself. The magic is there, and I know I’ll be hurt when it ends. But I don’t see where it can go?

    1. Hi A!

      It can go somewhere if you have patience with him. Aquarius men are in no rush to merge lives. They really love their own life and aren’t willing to share that with someone until they know for absolute sure that they’re the right one. That takes time. If you can’t wait him out then you’re going to have to think of moving on and finding someone else who is on the same page and will want to move at the pace you’re ready for. Otherwise think about whether or not he’s worth it.

  6. Im a Taurus and been seeing this Aquarius guy for a few months. We just click do well he is amazing. But I do feel like I have made these mistakes however he still around. He has mentioned marriage and the possibility of us being serious. However he’s been single for so long and has single man tendencies. Like looking at other women, not complimenting me, or holding my hand when we walking, he also always split the bill or i have to pay for everything, he just not romantically or expressive of his love. But he claims to care about me, appreciate me and not wanting to lose me. But these things are a issue for me…which is why im hesitant of us being in a committed relationship…is he able to change and how of should i just let him go??

    1. Hi Mayra!

      Things may change with time sweetheart but there is no fast tracking and he has to actually want to change. If he doesn’t then there isn’t much you can do to get him to. Aquarius men don’t want to be changed. They want to be themselves and is typically why they are in no hurry to commit. Honestly he’s not giving you his best which may mean he’s just not ready. Either you’re going to have to be patient or you should let go and move forward with your life. There may be someone else far better than him out there.

    2. Mayra, as an Aquarius man I usually click well with Taurus females. One problem I have with them though is that they have unspoken rules for their idea of a perfect relationship or what love is to them. You do have to tell your Aquarius what you want, he’s not a mind reader even if he is intuitive, the Taurus is so stoic at times that he can’t read your inner most desires and you will not get what you want from him. In regards to splitting the bill or you paying for it all, Aquarius men are very freedom loving so they assume that you want equality or want to be an independent woman so they let you do those things not knowing that it upsets you. If any man mentions marriage or being serious that’s a good sign. He doesn’t make any move on you physically because he respects boundaries and you come off as not open to a romantic physical advance by him. He may fear rejection, so he won’t make a move until you do then he’ll take the lead from there, he just needs a green light, so he knows that something physical is wanted and OK by you. I hope this helps.

  7. Hi evry mistake u spoke abt here is nt my type. Only mistake tht may match tht too kind off will be the emotional one. As i often lay my emotions out vry clearly nd also get annoyed bcoz of his confused state. My is a vry complicated relationship of its type. Plz mail if u can help me in my complications….

    1. Hi Neha!

      It sounds like you two may have communication problems. You two need to open up and be really clear with each other what you want and where you see things going. Getting it all out on the table so you two can be on the same page will give you a good idea of where things are headed. If you two don’t open up you will never solve the problems you have and one of you will end up exiting the relationship. Be careful and be honest both with him and with yourself. I wish you all the best!

  8. Is he coming back , he told me to give him peace and work on myself but didnt give me anwser about us… so yesterday we had huge fight… and he said i didnt learn anything … we are 7 years together but we ware apart for 2 .. is he coming back or is serious its over

    1. And now we are together 9 months we wore before 4 monts on this two years aprat we had a lot if fights … he says im truing to posses him … i was really working on muself he doesnt give me chance to prove to him he just saying wait i need peace but nothing for sure now we are not in that stage no more

      1. My aquarius man is a scammer.i’ve tryed to leaf him, but he wont let me go.he’s telling time after time, and day after day that he really does love me.he doesn’t ask money only love, and that i’m staying in his life.he won’t let go.i would like to know, is this real love or not.i’m a canser.

        1. Hi Lizzy!

          I would tell him that if he truly loves you and wants to be with you forever then he needs to prove it to you so that you are certain. As a Cancer you want some security so it makes sense you need that from him. Tell him that. You need to feel secure with him so you can trust that he will actually love you and isn’t using you. You may want to read more information in my book “Aquarius Man Secrets” to further help you.

  9. And now we are together 9 months we wore before 4 monts on this two years aprat we had a lot if fights … he says im truing to posses him … i was really working on muself he doesnt give me chance to prove to him he just saying wait i need peace but nothing for sure now we are not in that stage no more

    1. Hi Viktorija!

      It sounds like time and some space is necessary for the two of you. If he’s feeling overwhelmed and you two fight a lot then you two need a break so that you can get peace of mind and figure out if he’s even the right one for you or not. He needs to figure that same thing out. You may want to read more information in my book “Aquarius Man Secrets” to further help you.

  10. Mine has been catering to me. Making fun dates, and being very loveable and passionate. He has told me multiple times he enjoys my company and wants to move forward and have clear communications. I’m scared of his ( sign) but he is wonderful, successful. I’m not pushing for anything faster, going with the flow and being transparent and patient. He has introduced me to many of his friends. I’m just living his attention and don’t wanna ruin this. I have not made the mistakes listed. I’m a common, smart, loving, nurturing gal. I’m very honest. My skills are, hard work( restaurant manager working bartender, domestic skills, clean, organized and health minded. Very spontaneous as well.

    1. Hi Terry!

      It sounds like he’s showing you all the best Aquarius has to offer which means he thinks you are something special otherwise he wouldn’t be that way with you. Keep going with the flow and let nature take it’s course. This may be a successful union between you. You may want to read more information in my book “Aquarius Man Secrets” to further help you.

  11. As long as I dont try to fence him in in any way, he always comes back but after 15 years.. ww may be closer but it literally seems to take forever because I am anxiety attached and we have major set backs every time I try to define anything.. he’s incredible alot if the time and our family life w our son and his other kids together is so fun and.. he does try to please me but as a leo sun scorpio moon and he’s sag moon i have had to grow in innumerable ways and I’m still not sure how this will go as I’m romantic and emotional and deep and want to b pampered.. we may end up in a Fwb type situation or open relationship or idk.. I’m a loyal one man woman but.. I’m breaking down all the who inside me to discover who we really are and practice unconditional love.. I come on too strong sexually emotionally etc but… we have a deep amazing bond too… I know he will be near.. I know he loves me in his way… but I struggle w control and boundaries codependency relationship panic … I’m surprised I’ve been able to grow and come as far w him as I have… I’ve been able to transform myself more than I really realize. I’m much more in control of my emotions and I know my self more now because of him and the way he is in the world.. such a journey… I think I’ll talk to other men to build my abundance and self esteem and work on my goals and make him a smaller part of my life to get balance..

    1. Hi Lydia!

      The only two people that can define what you two are is the two of you. Unconditional love doesn’t necessarily mean selling out and letting him have an open relationship. You are who you are and if you aren’t comfortable with that then you shouldn’t do it just to make him happy. Either you guys find a meeting point between you or you have to move on. He cannot keep taking off like he does then coming back. He needs to crap or get off the pot honey. You may want to read more information in my book “Aquarius Man Secrets” to further help you.

  12. Hi Anna, I recently told an aquarius man. That I liked him. And he told me I am not interested. That crushed me. I sent him a dm through Instagram and told him how I felt that I was shy to tell him. Also I listed that he was intelligent, go getter and a cool person to be around with. I can describe myself that I am a simple female. I do like to have fun. He even told me he have fun with me. We never went out, he is a barber and he does facials and he also does my eyebrows. In the time we have fun talking and then when he finishes I pay him and leave. I want to get to know him outside the shop. But when I told him I liked him. Not even a friendship he offered. I am still crazy about him. But I still want more or even friends were we can build. What should I do?

    1. @Aureya, this means like it means to all men, that he is not interested right now, it doesn’t mean that he won’t be in the future. Try not to try so hard to impress him, be more natural around him and he’ll see you less as just a friend and may develop genuine feelings for you that are romantic. I think that his intuition is seeing you come off as desperate and that turns off any man. Hope this helps.

    2. Hi Aureya!

      It sounds like he’s good with being friends with you at this time but isn’t looking to be in a relationship with you. There may be something he just doesn’t feel compatible with in you. It doesn’t mean that something is wrong. Sometimes people we like just don’t like us back. It happens. Stay friends, maybe once he gets to know you further, he might change his mind but don’t hang on too much honey. You may want to read more information in my book “Aquarius Man Secrets” to further help you.

  13. hi anna my Aquarius man is very intelligent and a go geter he was very love at the beginning of the relationship but now he seems to be cool and not show much affection he don’t say much in are Tex message .he does everything like he’s single .i sometimes fell like we are not in a relationship

    1. Hi yolabda!

      You need to tell him exactly how you feel. Aquarius men aren’t the most proficient or enthusiastic text messengers. They get busy with their lives and don’t want to text important stuff via the phone. They would rather talk about anything of importance via face to face. Try keeping your texts light and don’t expect responses or long responses. You may want to read more information in my book “Aquarius Man Secrets” to further help you.

  14. what should I do he always busy because he always working it’s like he have no time for me we reley go out he don’t like crowd he dont say much in Tex message and are time together is very short I dont know what he wants .he said he love me but he dont say it much

    1. Hi Iashell!

      Very simple. Tell him you’d like a bit more time or effort with texting when he’s too busy to spend time with you. If you don’t speak up then things will not change. Don’t be afraid to communicate with him openly honey. You may want to read more information in my book “Aquarius Man Secrets” to further help you.

  15. I think I did one of mistake… I mostly calculate things in life… and sometimes I bet he act so awkward, so I stop from it. However, whenever I kinda mentioned things about babies and having own family. He sometimes ignored itㅡ or maybe he was just listening?! But yeah, maybe I’m too focus on future…

    1. Hi Lee!

      Well then you need to be open and honest with him about what you want. If you two are not on the same page then he may not be the best match. You won’t know for sure though until you fully talk things out with him. You may want to read more information in my book “Aquarius Man Secrets” to further help you.

  16. I need help I am a Sagittarius woman and extremely generous and I sometimes get worried that he will take me for a ride are aquarius man like that would he do that to me and abuse my kindness

    1. @Batabile, Aquarius men are very loyal and usually direct and very blunt if you have a logical conversation about your concerns with him. I wouldn’t worry too much about it. Aquarius men are humanitarian, kind and can be gentle. If your kindness is genuine he’ll honor that, if it’s just to get something he’ll feel played himself and detect a lack of genuine kindness and will likely not pursue you. Never pretend to be submissive around an Aquarius man, if it seems like acting he’ll most likely get disgusted and pull away from you and trust will be harder to earn from him. Hope this helps.

    2. Hi Batabile!

      I don’t think you’d get taken for a ride honey. As long as you two are honest with each other and open, you should be able to trust in what he tells you. Look for other red flags. If there aren’t any then there is no real reason to worry honey. Relax! Don’t over think things too much. You may want to read more information in my book “Aquarius Man Secrets” to further help you.

      1. Well dating an aquarius isnt really easy if u ignore how this sign acts.
        I searched a lot cos i found him mysterious in the first place.
        Im a scorpio so u know what i mean.
        But after i Learned a lot about this sign im feeling relieved…
        As a scorpio nature u cant understand how someone can be deeply inlove with you and dont reach to talk or how can he send i love yous ans i miss yous all the time without calling or going out frequently.
        Well this is my aquarius he lives in his own head he adores me but on his own way.
        I maybe got emotional once and never again… Cos he adores to see me smiling and laughing and im doing my best to see his smile back.
        I never made any of the other mistakes.
        Even when i wanted to speak out about something that bothers me i reach to him wile smiling… And he listens!
        He is honest… I like that.
        Even if his honesty hurts sometimes but i prefer it this way.
        2 things i noticed:
        _He likes you to be the one who reaches first… You message him first you call first… He likes it this way.
        Even when we talked about it… He always waits.
        _He adores to be cuddled like babies… And adores to hear from you great expressions and compliments… He feels important and when he does he adores you more and become so soulful.

        1. Hi Lara!

          Thank you so much for sharing your experience. I’m glad you were able to figure out what works between you two. I am so happy for you and I wish you a life long love. If you need to know more about this sign, please check out my books. You’ll really dig what I provide.

  17. Anna. I’m an Aquarius male and I have Libra rising and Capricorn moon. In your article about Aquarius men not liking deep women, actually we do, we just don’t like negative people. I happen to like Emo, Goth, Grunge, Punk, Alternative, and metal women. They are deep and dark, I like Halloween too. If there isn’t any negative emotions that ruin my vibe, I’m game for those kinds of women. I prefer pastel goths mostly since there is a lot of bright colors so I agree with you there. I just like weird unique people in general. I like dark humor, and I like people to just be themselves, if that means they show their inner darkness, I’m OK with that. 🙂

    1. Hi James!

      Thank you for writing in and sharing your insight as an Aquarius man. I love it! Yes, like unique women is actually a pretty Aquarius man thing. I know that to be true. I think what I mean by deep is women that are very emotional and thus prone to be moody. As far as what you’re talking about, yes, that is absolutely correct and I couldn’t agree with you more. Thanks again for sharing!

  18. No I didn”t. I feel he seeing somebody else because when he want to leave he make up a excuse about my facebook page. the only thing I’m guilty of is treating him like a man suppose to be treated. I go to work, store, home, church, bible study, and sunday school when we could attend service.

    1. Hi Felicia!

      If you’re doing all the right things and he’s not giving you what you deserve then you probably need to speak up and tell him. Tell him you deserve more of his time and attention. Point out how much you do for him and how much you love doing it. You may want to read more information in my book “Aquarius Man Secrets” to further help you.

  19. I am Taurus and was married to an Aquarius man for 18 years (together 20). We just divorced (his choice) and I did ALL these things. I wish I had known them before. I would like to know if there’s any way to reconcile and not get our old marriage back, but create a new and better one.

    1. Hi Kym!

      I’m so sorry to hear you made all the mistakes that caused things to go awry with your Aquarius. I think that if you’ve changed and realized the errors you made, you can reach out to him and ask him to try again. Tell him you realized all of what you did wrong and you’d like another chance to do it differently. He might give it a try! You may want to read more information in my book “Aquarius Man Secrets” to further help you.

  20. From my persona lexperience of dating an aquarias man, try to give him the best time of his life when he is around. Don’t complain and be negative. Even if you want to complain put it in a positive sentence and you can see results. If you can give him the best date ever, he will plan for more and you wont be disappointed.

    1. Hi ABC!

      Exactly! Being negative turns an Aquarius man off. He loves optimism and hope. Trying to say things more positively works wonders for just about any sign really. Yes, good dates, fun, adventure, and stimulating conversations help win the Aquarius over. You may want to read more information in my book “Aquarius Man Secrets” to further help you.

  21. Well dating an aquarius isnt really easy if u ignore how this sign acts.
    I searched a lot cos i found him mysterious in the first place.
    Im a scorpio so u know what i mean.
    But after i Learned a lot about this sign im feeling relieved…
    As a scorpio nature u cant understand how someone can be deeply inlove with you and dont reach to talk or how can he send i love yous ans i miss yous all the time without calling or going out frequently.
    Well this is my aquarius he lives in his own head he adores me but on his own way.
    I maybe got emotional once and never again… Cos he adores to see me smiling and laughing and im doing my best to see his smile back.
    I never made any of the other mistakes.
    Even when i wanted to speak out about something that bothers me i reach to him wile smiling… And he listens!
    He is honest… I like that.
    Even if his honesty hurts sometimes but i prefer it this way.
    2 things i noticed:
    _He likes you to be the one who reaches first… You message him first you call first… He likes it this way.
    Even when we talked about it… He always waits.
    _He adores to be cuddled like babies… And adores to hear from you great expressions and compliments… He feels important and when he does he adores you more and become so soulful

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