When an Aquarius man is done with you, it can feel like one of the most painful experiences. How is it possible that someone who used to love you can turn so heartless and cold? This is an experience I wouldn’t wish on anyone.
Say what you want, but Aquarius men have a certain edge and appeal that makes them really attractive. They’re so different from anyone else and their love can become quite addictive once you first experience it.
This is why it is so painful when your Aquarius man shows signs of being done with you for good. But things with an Aquarius man are never straightforward, just when you think you’re never going to hear from him again, he is likely to pop up and make an appearance again.
Aquarius men are known for being hot and cold, and this might be a sign that your Aquarius man is not over you. But how can you know for sure? Keep on reading to find out if your Aquarius man is gone for good.
When An Aquarius Man Is Done With You
The Aquarius man values freedom and independence. When he is done with you, he may become aloof and distant. He’d rather spend time with himself than with you, especially if he has broken up with you.
When he has worked through his feelings, he may be ready to explore new things and seek thrills elsewhere, because he is intellectually curious and looking for new experiences. However, his plans will not involve you.
He may be struggling with emotional intimacy and having a hard time processing the end of the relationship, so he may seem distant even though he is struggling inside. Pay attention to his behavior. If an Aquarius man is pulling away and seems he is not interested in your life, it means he has moved on.
6 Clear Signs An Aquarius Man Is Over You
1. He Spends Less Time With You
The Aquarius man already treasures his freedom. As such, he will do whatever he can to have the time alone that he requires. When he’s not into you anymore, he will pull back that much more.
He’ll find excuses to not spend time with you. You’ll notice he wants to go be with his friends more, he’ll space off on social networks, and maybe even ignore you on purpose for them.
Check here for the possible reasons why an Aquarius man is ignoring you, and what you can do about it <<
An Aquarius man could make himself scarce in your life very quickly. If he lives with you, then this would mean he would barely be home. He’ll have a million and one things he has to do or wants to do which do not include you.
You’ll feel that he’s not “with” you anymore, as he won’t act as though he wants to spend any quality time with just you. It will feel as though you’re just there and he’s gone.
He’s making you feel as though he’s gone is his ultimate goal if he’s done with you. This way you’ll be forced to move on and break it off with him. He’d rather you break it off with him than the other way around.
I suggest to you that if he’s doing this, then it’s time to let him go. No amount of trying to pull him back is going to make him change his mind.
If you let go and over time you begin talking again, maybe there is a chance but once he pulls back and is more or less gone from your life, you can be sure it’s over.
2. Sex Fades Into The Distance
Aquarius men are very sexual and romantic. When they’re really into you, they cannot keep their hands off you. When they’re done, they’ll barely touch you, if at all.
If you notice a huge decrease in intimacy or even small things like kissing, hugging, and having sweet tenderness, then it’s probably over in his mind. It may not be over in yours but with him, withholding romance and sex is a sure sign that he’s done.
At this point, he could be already sleeping with someone else and getting his “fix” while he’s waiting for you to break it off with him. It’s really crappy, I know, but this is what they tend to do.
Where things were once steamy and amazing, things are now dull and nearly nonexistent. This is a red flag that says he’s no longer interested and wants to move on but doesn’t have the nerve to break it off.
Eventually, if you don’t do it for him, he’ll figure out a way to break up with you but it’s best if you just go ahead and see the red flags for what they are and try to move on.
If you would like to look out for the surefire signs about Aquarius man intentions about you, check out my recent blogpost.
3. He Doesn’t Talk To You
These men typically talk a whole lot to the woman they love and adore. When he starts to pull back and doesn’t talk to you the way he used to, he may be done or may be close to being done.
Most relationships start out very talkative and over the years quiet down a little but they don’t totally just shut off. Aquarius men will stop talking to you about important stuff, and they will stop sharing their innermost feelings.
Whatever he may or may not be feeling, he just isn’t willing to talk to you about it anymore. He’ll either hold it in or he’ll talk to someone else about it. This man totally shuts down around you when he’s done.
It’s really hard not to notice the signs that the Aquarius man gives off when he’s done with a relationship. He’s very cold, callous, and is in his head, totally done. They will start living their new life even if they haven’t ended it with you.
Aquarius men don’t handle breaking up with people very gracefully and try to get the other person to see how bad it really is so that they will do it for them. This could be attributed to their sign but it could also be attributed to a human being feeling incredibly guilty.
Guilt feels less intense if they’re not the one that ends it. It’s not the right thing to do, but sadly, many people handle it that way. For Aquarius, he just completely pulls back from you and creates a stone wall.
He won’t let you penetrate or climb that wall either. He’ll electrify it so you cannot breach the wall and get back into his heart. Effectively when he’s done, he shuts his heart’s door to you.
4. He Acts Cold Towards You
Aquarius men are the humanitarians of the Zodiac and are usually extremely friendly and helpful, but when an Aquarius goes cold towards you, you need to know something is up. If it feels like you are talking to a wall, then you probably are.
His lack of compassion can be quite prevalent because this is something he usually doesn’t struggle with. Sure, he is a little detached at the best of times, but he still maintains his friendly and caring nature.
But if you no longer see any signs of this, then the chances are good that your Aquarius man doesn’t want to deal with you anymore. It is his way of pushing you away because he knows being cold is going to work.
5. He Isn’t Excited To See You
Aquarius men are extremely optimistic. They always carry eternal hope with them whenever they go. They love to live life to the fullest and usually embrace whatever experience comes their way with enthusiasm and excitement.
This is why you need to be really worried when you notice that your Aquarius man seems totally bored when he spends time with you. As if being with you is worse than pulling teeth. When an Aquarius man says he’s bored, then it is usually a really big problem.
Boredom for an Aquarius man is a big no-no and an indicator that he is done with you for good. If you aren’t invoking feelings of excitement for him, then he likely doesn’t see the point in continuing in a relationship with you.
6. He Becomes Really Stubborn
An Aquarius man might be a fixed sign in Astrology, meaning that he is set in his ways and likes to be in control of his life, but unlike other fixed signs, he is actually quite open-minded and likes to learn things from different perspectives.
However, if you notice that your Aquarius man starts becoming rather stubborn and immovable, then you need to take notice of this very telling red flag. This is likely happening because he is done with you and the relationship.
When an Aquarius man refuses to compromise or see reason, then it is very difficult to change his mind. Once he has put his mind to something, then there is basically nothing that will stop him. He is impossible to deal with when he becomes stubborn.
Aquarius Man Disappears After Intimacy — What Should I Do?
There is a tendency for Aquarians to be distant. However, when the Aquarius man is especially distant after intimacy, it can leave you wondering what you have done wrong. As it turns out, once again, you probably didn’t do anything wrong, so don’t worry about that.
Aquarius is ruled by Uranus, and therefore, he is unpredictable and not easy to read. He is prone to rebellion and sudden changes. Although an Aquarius man will still choose to have sex, like most men, he’ll do his best to find some alone time to compensate for the closeness they have endured.
Even if they don’t physically get up and leave you in bed, they may act standoffish, or he may immediately act like he’s asleep if they don’t physically get up and leave you in bed.
Aquarius uses this defense mechanism to make himself feel as if he is in control, even when it is to his detriment. An Aquarius man distant after intimacy is something you might need to get used to, at least for a while…
If an Aquarius man disappears after intimacy, avoid calling him and flooding his inbox with messages. He needs time to reflect on his emotions and thoughts.
However, if his disappearance has made you confused, you should communicate openly about it. Tell him how you feel, be calm, and ask him to explain his behavior. Don’t jump to conclusions and assume the worst!
And what if your Aquarius man disappears and comes back? Check out my recent blog post to find out why an Aquarius man would suddenly disappear when everything seems to be going well.
Will An Aquarius Man Come Back After Ghosting?
It can be really tough to tell if an Aquarius man will come back after ghosting. The thing to remember about him is that he isn’t a very emotional person. He makes decisions based on his mind, not his heart – this complicates things in matters of love.
You can never be sure what he is feeling, and I guess that is because he rarely ever knows either. He is one of those guys that will use all kinds of distractions to get over a relationship like overworking or throwing himself into a new hobby.
Curious about the behavior of Aquarius men after a breakup and the effectiveness of the no-contact rule? Watch this video to find out whether Aquarius men are likely to come back after a breakup, especially when no contact is initiated:
3 Surefire Signs An Aquarius Man Is Not Over You
You might feel really discouraged thinking that your Aquarius man is done with you, but there are a few signs Aquarius man is not over you that you can look out for. I just wish these guys weren’t so complicated and confusing.
So, things to look out for:
1. He is distracting himself through work and hobbies
This could help him get through a challenging situation or a breakup. This way, he can stay focused and away from negative thinking patterns. Once he processes his emotions through something he is passionate about, he could easily go back to you to try to resolve things in a positive way.
However, you must be aware that he should not use hobbies to avoid deeper issues. It is important to clear the way for effective communication. It builds trust and creates long-term bonds.
2. He is partying a lot more than usual
This is how he is blowing off steam from the negative consequences of your relationship. Let him be; he will go wild and then recuperate. Balancing between socializing and being distant is something one needs to achieve. He is having a hard time getting you out of his system.
With such behavior, you can only conclude that your Aquarius man is not over you. He cannot escape from difficult emotions, and this is his way of dealing with this issue. Luckily, this is not typical behavior for an Aquarius man, and it will not last long. Eventually he will go back to your relationship and look for ways to sort things out.
3. He is still keeping in touch and giving you mixed signals
If his actions are different from what he is saying, you must pay close attention to his actions! This is rule number one. When an Aquarius man is treating you with respect and if his attention and affection have been given to you freely, this means he totally wants to win you over.
However, if an Aquarius man is playing a hot and cold game and giving you mixed signals, you can be sure he is contemplating his next move and doesn’t want to move forward from you, but he is not certain whether to become too emotionally invested so he keeps his feelings in check.
The 3-Step Formula To Pull An Aquarius Man Back
It may seem as if all hope is lost with your Aquarius guy, but I have come to realize there is another way to look at it. It is in this version that the Aquarius makes a return.
It’s not a joke, I promise. According to my experience, there are ways to make an Aquarius guy reconsider you as an option if you have the right qualities.
Without a doubt, these are the steps you’re going to want to know if you want to learn more about it.
There is no doubt in my mind that you can get back into the good graces of the Aquarius guy. I can assure you that you are going to want to know everything you can about this.
As a result of the steps that I have in mind, the results have been astonishing. As a matter of fact, I was shocked.
In order to regain the trust of an Aquarius man, there are a few things you need to remember…
I would recommend that you take a look at my method for getting your Aquarius man back if you want to be safe
Wishing you all the luck in the Universe,