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7 Reasons Why Your Aquarius Man Pulls A Disappearing Act

Just when you think you have him figured out, he does something that totally throws you back off. You’re left wondering what is going on and why he’s this way. Here’s why your Aquarius man pulls a disappearing act and what to do about it:

1. He Disappears Unannounced

With all the clients I talk to; I’ve heard more than once that Aquarius men like to pull disappearing acts from time to time. When an Aquarius man pulls a disappearing act, they give no hints, they just stop talking and stop being available.

Why do they do this? There are a few reasons why he may clam up or pull back when he’s in a relationship. Here are the top reasons:

2. He No Longer Feels Free

Man sitting alone and thinking

If an Aquarius man feels his freedom has been taken or encroached on, he will TAKE it back. That can sometimes mean cutting a partner off from texting, calling, or spending time together.

That doesn’t mean he wants to break up necessarily but in essence, he’s trying to teach his partner how to treat him. That means he wants more freedom. He’s willing to show you how he’ll take it if you don’t ease up.

3. He Feels His Partner is Too Clingy or Needy

Aquarius men love independent women that do not need to be attached at the hip with him at all times. If he senses that you’ve taken to wanting to be with him all the time or obsess about him; he’ll be ready to back up or out depending on how bad he may think it is.

This would cause him to go radio silent thus eventually ending the relationship.

4. He Feels Incompatible

Sometimes if an Aquarius man decides the partner he’s with just isn’t the right fit for him; he’ll pull back to think it over some more. Unfortunately, this seems to the partner that he’s cold and has possibly broken it off. Sometimes that is true and sometimes it isn’t. He has to take inventory to figure out if this person is the one or if he should give it up.

5. Doesn’t Answer to Anyone

Beautiful young couple is having a quarrel while sitting on sofa at home - How to tell when an Aquarius man is done with you


Aquarius feels like his own man and will go through great lengths to prove it. He literally feels he should never have to explain himself or tell his partner what he’s doing, when, or with whom.

He thinks that what he does is his business and as long as his partner knows he will be back, there shouldn’t be an issue. This doesn’t sit well with most partners but he will push the limits to see how true the supposed partner is. That’s how he determines if she’s a keeper or not.

All in All; none of these seem like very good reasons for him to pull a disappearing act. Unfortunately, this is how they think and how they operate.

If you’re involved with an Aquarius or want to become involved with one, realize that he could pull a disappearing act from time to time. Try not to overreact. If you do, he’ll set this as a reason to argue or break it off.

Go about your business and do your own thing. He’ll then focus less on trying to prove any point to you and more on enjoying the partnership. He’s like a big kid that doesn’t want to be told what to do by anyone.

6. Different Ways of Communicating

The Aquarius man is set apart from most other men. He doesn’t think the way they do nor does he talk like anyone else. Aquarius man is a bit unique. He has a very detached approach typically.

This can make a partner feel as though he’s being cold or keeping her at “arm’s length”. He really isn’t trying to be a hard-ass really, he just wants to be sure too much emotion isn’t thrown into the mix.

Emotions can tarnish true communication in his mind. He feels you should be able to sit and discuss things without having any sort of feeling behind it, even if you’re talking about something that you feel deeply about.

The best approach with this guy when it’s time to talk is to do it in an intellectual way instead of feeling your way through. Learn to somewhat detach so that you don’t react, cry, yell, or become visibly shaken.

When he sees you’re too emotionally charged, he may very well shut down thus not be hearing or comprehending what you’re telling him. Aqua guy may even get offended when it comes down to it.

7. He Gets Bored Easily

Sad couple sitting on bed - How to tell when an Aquarius man is done with you

Above all else, Aquarius men want to have fun. They not only want the right partner but they want that partner to be their best friend. Yes, he does want time alone but when he’s not alone, he wants his bestie at his side.

Be sure that you and the Aquarius you’re with or want to be with have plenty in common. He’s not one that likes to be with someone opposite unless he’s trying to experiment out of curiosity.

Otherwise, he wants to be with someone who can keep up with him and have as much fun as possible in life. He also thinks in terms of “right now” so he’s not the most patient of people.

Keep in mind that he lives for today. The past is already gone and the future hasn’t yet been dictated so enjoy what time you have today at this moment. That’s how you get to his heart.

Once you do get to his heart; he’ll absolutely make sure you know how he feels and what he wants with you. His objective is to find “the one” and no one else will do.

Show him you’re the one. Be his best friend, his lover, and the one who understands when he wants freedom or alone time. Your Aquarius man to pulls the disappearing act?  Being well rounded will help you succeed in making sure you understand him better.


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Wishing you all the luck of the universe

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach

5 thoughts on “7 Reasons Why Your Aquarius Man Pulls A Disappearing Act

  1. I’ve been dating an Aquarius man for about 7 months. He is currently on a disappearing act we only spoke once about him not being able to make it to an event. He said he was gonna call to talk about it but it was just a text instead. Before he disappeared he said don’t get mad if he takes a while to respond due to work. I don’t understand what’s going on

  2. Dear Lana , I am an Aquarius , send him a text asking him if there’s anything you might have said or done that has gotten on his wrong side just for the sake of clarity . At first he might say nothing at all but give him some time you will be shocked at what he might say when he points it out . He might not want to hurt you which is why he isn’t saying anything . But if you ask he will on his own

    1. Hi Tay!

      It’s true he doesn’t want to hurt someone but he also withholds the truth because he feels that most people aren’t ready to hear it. He will just hold it in until someone actually asks then he’ll tell them. This is absolutely a normal Aquarius thing which I’m sure you understand if you are also Aquarius. Thank you for your input as an Aquarius though. I really do value and appreciate you chiming in. Blessings to you!

  3. Good luck. These men tend to disappear when their feelings are hurt over the most innocuous comments or constructive criticism. In other words they are famous for their passive aggressive tantrums. I wouldn’t count on growing old with any man who falls under this sign. It’s better to deal with a man who isn’t so easily hurt and can man up and work things out without running away.

    1. Hi Sheri!

      Well, yes they can disappear if they are upset but that doesn’t mean they’ll stay in hiding particularly if they are in love. I know Aquarius men who have met their “life partner” and are doing quite well. You cannot write them all off because of a few bad eggs. All Aquarius men are not exactly the same. It really works better to know their chart work up to know how stable or unstable they are. Check out my series “Aquarius Man Secrets”.

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