How To Deal with Aquarius Man in a Relationship – Know What He Wants!

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How To Deal with Aquarius Man in a Relationship – Know What He Wants!

Aquarians are generally pretty tricky to understand. Aquarius men can be extremely distant, and it’s hard to tell what they’re thinking. It’s probably a good thing to do to learn how to deal with an Aquarius man in a relationship.

These Astrological facts will let you know what’s going on in his head and teach you exactly how to deal with an Aquarius man in a relationship. From the absolute basics of who they are to their deepest thoughts of what they want to gain from a relationship. Keep reading and find out what Aquarius man wants from a relationship.

The Basics

what Aquarius man wants from a relationship

Aquarius men are incredibly energetic, open-minded, and outgoing. They’re mischievous and childish, and always looking for a good time.

They’ll want to be with someone who is similar to them in these aspects of life. It’s not to say that they want to date a clone of themselves, just someone who is interested in what they enjoy doing. This is a key thing when it comes to what an Aquarius man wants from a relationship.

When dating an Aquarius man, try not to compliment him too much. Of course, everyone likes a compliment now and again, but an Aquarius man can sometimes take too many compliments as a sign of obsession, and they’re not typically into that sort of stuff.

Aquarians, do love to be loved, though. If you can casually bring up one of their favorite things to do, they’ll go on and on talking about it. If you make an Aquarius man happy, he’ll always remember you.

Their True Colors

what Aquarius man wants from a relationship

Aquarians are extremely open-minded people. If you’re into something they’re not, they won’t shame you for it; they’ll accept it and ask you to tell them more about it.

They love learning new things. They have unique views that make them seem fascinating to everyone around them.

Aquarius men can come across as distant and cold sometimes, but this is just because they’re deep thinkers. They’re more into the big picture, rather than the details.

Everyone knows that no one is perfect. Aquarians are not an exception. They like to test people to see their reaction. They don’t do this out of spite; they just love to see what their abilities are. They want to know what they’re capable of, and they won’t stop trying to figure out just what that is.

3 Key Points for a Relationship with Aquarius Man

There are things you need to keep in mind when it comes to the Aquarius man when you’re in a relationship with him…

  1.  He takes a while to get comfortable with someone so be patient. Don’t try to rush him or pressure him in any way no matter how frustrated you become.
  2.  Aquarius man wants solitude from time to time. Give him the time he requires or he’ll take it without notice and you’ll think he’s ghosted you.
  3.  Be open to spontaneous activities. Aquarius doesn’t like routine too much and likes to remain open to what adventures he can have. With him you’ll never be bored!

What They Want From a Relationship

what Aquarius man wants from a relationship

Aquarius men are usually attracted to people who have a vibrant glow around them all the time. They want to be with someone who loves life and loves to explore. Coming into a new relationship with an Aquarius man is the best time to truly get to know each other and try new things that you wouldn’t have tried without them before.

Aquarius men tend to be detached at the beginning of a relationship. Their S.O. may be questioning if they’re not interested in them anymore, but that’s not the reason in most cases. Aquarius men are very independent -so independent that they need time alone just to be able to function.

An Aquarius man will look for someone to spend his life with, but later in life. In their early years of adulthood, they’ll want to have fun and explore all their options.

Aquarius men aren’t known to be the dad of the group. They’re fun-loving, adventurous, and all-around great guys, but they’re not ready to be serious with someone until they’ve done everything they wanted to do.

They are definitely the type of people that thinks being in a committed relationship or family will ruin their life. You would think that with all the knowledge they harbor, they’d know that this isn’t true.

Being close to someone in a romantic way will be a new adventure for him. Aquarius men will never tell you if they’re scared, but they might be scared coming into something new and big like this. They will thrive off a relationship, especially if it’s a good one.

How to Compliment an Aquarius Man

Naturally you want to get into the mind and heart of the Aquarius man if you have what he wants in a woman. To do this, do your best to compliment him and make him feel special.

Tell him what a great guy he is, how funny and amazing he is to be with, perhaps even how he makes you feel when you’re in his presence. Aquarius man will eat it up and make him feel as though you care.

When he figures out that you truly understand what a catch he is, he’s going to feel more comfortable being around you and may try to show you who he really is that much more going forward.

He’ll want to hear more from you and feedback definitely gives him a clue what you think of him as well as what you want. Make sure you rake up those brownie points with Aquarius man by paying him homage.


To sum it up, the type of people an Aquarius man would typically go for are people that are similar to them, but also have a secret, mysterious side to them.

This will give the Aquarius an air of excitement in the relationship, and it’ll keep him interested. Be subtle, be flirty, and be adventurous.

You will pull him in, and he’ll stay with you if you two have a good time together. Aquarius men are easy to catch and easy to love. Once you fall in love with an Aquarius man, no one will compare.

What You Should Do Now

If you are serious about getting this Aquarius man to fall deeply in love and DESIRE a relationship with you, you should do two things:

  1. First, leave a comment on this post with the biggest challenge you are currently facing with your Aquarius man.
  2. Take my Aquarius man relationship compatibility quiz here.

For every person who first leaves a comment and completes the quiz, I will receive an email notification. Then, I will send you my “30 dirty little secrets about the Aquarius man” special report (a kind of roadmap to gain clarity and guidance about your relationship), Plus – I will personally respond to your comment (so make sure to enter your correct email when posting a comment about your challenge).

12 thoughts on “How To Deal with Aquarius Man in a Relationship – Know What He Wants!

  1. Not sure where I stand. We have a great time together and then he ‘disappears’ only to pop up again and we just resume. He asks why I don’t contact him but when I do contact him I always feel like I am interrupting him and the conversation are short and a bit abrupt. I am a Libra female (first decan) and he is an Aqua male (second decan). I don’t want to appear clingy or insecure by calling texting too frequently but also don’t want him to think I am not interested by not – trying to find the right balance. Not sure if he’s not sure of me…a bit confused but I am crazy about him – he’s smart, thoughtful and I feel like he does care about me.

    1. Wow Lynn I know exactly how you feel. I’m going through the exact same thing and I feel when I try to tell him how I feel he acts like aloof and ignores it but then subtly flirts with me and hints at things so awkwardly. They’re one of the toughest signs to get through too. Super hard to read but if you don’t over think it the sign is clear. They do require patience I’ve noticed that.

    2. Same situation, Libra in love with an Aqua, got so tired of being confused I asked him if I should move on and he said he understands if I do. We have not apoken in a week and I miss him like crazy!

  2. Wow, ladies I am going through the same thing. One minute taking about future and the next it’s just me texting and I don’t want to come off as a stalker lol

  3. So I’ve been with my aqua love for 10 years and listen it’s been bumpyyyyyy
    .Leo girl here and in the beginning it was funnnn but after the 6 month mark it gets serious for them and some what for them. Sometimes I had to mirror his actions and did exactly what he was doing while at the same time not come on so strong. Aqua man has alot of secrets which makes it even more challenging because they are always calculating the next move. Patience adventure, good mind conversation is what these guys get off on. When he talks about family and likes/dislikes that’s when you know your on the right track to coming his important person in his personal life. This is the sign that is worth it because once they love you, they will be there until the end

  4. Be patient all the tips I’ve read work and things are unfolding into the most awesome time I’ve ever had getting to know someone.

  5. I was dating an Aquarius man for 2 years…we never defined our relationship …very hard to communicate with him and everytime we would get in a argument he would tell me I was being disrespectful and he would get on a dating site…He obviously didn’t want a serious relationship but I ended up falling for him and we were together every weekend for 2 years…I don’t think he was physically messing around on me but yes he would go on the dating site not all the time we were together but specially when we argued. Very immature he was 50 yrs. old…we were doing really good for a while and he wasn’t on the daiting site, reason I know it’s because I had a profile on that dating site also. I would check up on him for the most part….well he had another argument and a couple of days later he was back on the dating site…this time I went crazy and told him off about being on the dating site and other things I had bottled up inside me for a while…He got mad at me because he said I was on the dating site looking for men. I couldn’t understand how he could get mad at me because he was also on there…anyway we have broken up since. We got together for a week and broke up again because he saw me on the dating site, he was checking on me and I was checking up on him…That I guess was the last straw for him…He will not answer any of my text, i have asked him numerous times if we were completely done in so many different ways and he refuses to respond to me…I can’t believe he just wouldn’t tell me we were done that’s all I was asking but nothing….I am devastated because I would never do that to him. I would have said something…I asked him at least 5 times. I thought he blocked me but no he hasn’t so he reads my texts and says nothing…we were dating for 2 years…! How can he treat me like that? Like I meant nothing to him at all…we also had great chemistry..! He is not seeing anyone either so I just can’t believe he just won’t say anything at all, he never had a problem telling me what he thought of me before when he got mad…I don’t know if it hurt him so bad me being on the dating site but that doesn’t make any sense because he was also on there..! That’s just being a selfish hypocrite on his part…I think I’m better off without him but I’m in love with him we had great chemistry and alot of things in common. I miss him like crazy..! I have been miserable for like 2 months…I thought he was mad and would get over it and would text me by now but it hasn’t happened so I’m thinking he has moved on…He has given me the silent treatment before but it only lasted a couple of weeks…! This was more serious of an argument. I’m just miserable…

  6. My biggest problem is trying to figure out if I should tell him how much he has helped me grow as a person and if so then how to say it in a text msg. We work together and are friends with benefits but have talked about possibly becoming more oneday. We only talk at work and the majority of it are in text messages.

  7. Me and my aquarius crush have known each other since Middle School. Its like we always have a thing for each other but we don’t pursue. Except recently we hung out and it was the best time and he said we should so it again and he will message me to hang out, but he hasn’t. how long do i have to wait for this mysterious man.

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