How To Talk Dirty To An Aquarius Man

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
How to talk dirty to an Aquarius man starts with his mind. Here are the words and texts that fire his imagination and drive him wild.
Knowing how to talk dirty to an Aquarius man is a skill that every woman needs to learn if she is interested in making the Aquarius man wild for her. The Aquarius man in bed is an experience that can’t be missed! Talking dirty to an Aquarius man can feel a little intimidating, especially knowing that he is such an intellectual and his mind is his strongest quality. The Aquarius man operates solely in the mind as he is a purely logical and rational being. The pressure is definitely on! Do you want to learn how to talk dirty to an Aquarius man? Then you have definitely come to the right place. Keep on reading to find out exactly what to say to an Aquarius man to drive him crazy with desire!

In my years as a relationship astrologer, I have taught countless women how to unlock the sensual side of an Aquarius man, and the secret always surprises them. With this sign, seduction begins in the mind long before it reaches the body. In my survey of more than 2,600 women involved with Aquarius men, the quality they mentioned adoring most, above everything else, was his intelligence, and that same intelligence is the doorway to his desire. If you want the exact phrases that turn on his logical, imaginative mind, my Aquarius Dirty Phrases guide gives them to you word for word.

Aquarius Man In Bed – What Does He Like In Bed?

An Aquarius man in bed is wild! Experience and exploration are just some of the words to describe what he is like in bed. This guy can be pretty kinky and will do absolutely anything at least once because he is so open-minded. Seriously, anything goes! His favorite kind of woman is one who is open to at least discussing some of his wildest ideas. If you have an open mind and a willingness to try, then you have the right ingredients to be with an Aquarius man in bed.

How To Seduce An Aquarius Man With Words

Obviously, before you can lure him to the bedroom or elsewhere for some kinky fun, you’ll need to get his mind turned on. Aquarius man is cerebral so get dirty and explicit with him. You’ll need to do it in a way that appeals to what he likes. If you don’t know what that is yet, you can make some suggestions and see how he responds. Look at his facial expressions and look at how his body reacts. It shouldn’t be too hard to figure out what excites him. You can suggest positions, experimentation, etc. This allows you to figure out what you can work with when you do successfully get him to romp in the hay with you. You can even whip out a book about sexual positions to flip through with him and ask him what appeals to him. He’ll be turned on you went through the effort and that you’re trying to figure out which will best please him. Just talking and thinking about it will get his motor running and you can be assured he’ll be quite ready when it’s finally time to get your groove on. Remember, the brain first because that will get to him the most effectively! Here’s how to talk dirty to an Aquarius man:

How To Talk Dirty To An Aquarius Man

Express Your Fantasies

You don’t always have to say specific things to the Aquarius man to drive him crazy, in fact, all you really need is to describe to your Aquarius man what you desire. Knowing what fantasies drive you crazy will definitely get your Aquarius man going. An Aquarius man wants to hear about all the things you desire to do in the bedroom. He wants to know what you would like to experience and what drives you crazy. The weirder your ideas are, the more you are likely to drive him crazy. Tell him what it is you want him to do to you. Don’t be afraid to express exactly what this is as the Aquarius man is really turned on by your imagination and he is not one to judge what it is you want. You have the freedom to be yourself with him. Hearing what you desire is Aquarius man favorite way to “talk dirty.” Knowing what is going on in your mind is all he truly needs to turn him on.

Ask Him What His Fantasies Are

The Aquarius man is always looking for a willing participant to explore his fantasies with. He is used to women running off when he reveals how wild and kinky he can be so he tends to vet women quite well before he expresses his desires. Why don’t you beat him to it and curiously ask him what it is he desires the most in the bedroom. Be sure to make this a safe space for him because he has likely had experiences of women judging him for what he desires. Be non-judgemental and act with curiousity. And of course, showing a bit of curiousity will definitely do the trick in making him see that you are actually excited and not scared of what he is telling you. A little bit of positivity will go a long way in getting your Aquarius man excited, but it will also get him to trust you. Read next: 11 Questions To Ask An Aquarius Man To Spark His Interest

Send Him Naughty Texts Throughout The Day

One thing to really remember about the Aquarius man is that he is most definitely a fan of delayed gratification. This is a man who gets off on the build up and anticipation of what is about to happen. Honestly, his mind is his most important erogenous zone, so if he can hold on to a story or fantasy throughout the day then you are definitely going to drive him crazy with passion. You should send him a text to tell him how much you want him in the morning. By the time he sees you in the evening, he will be mad with desire for you. Tell him how much you want him, send him a naughty picture, and describe one of your fantasies to him. The good thing about an Aquarius man is that anything goes! So don’t be too afraid of saying the wrong thing. He can get into it all. Check here for the perfect flirty texts for your Aquarius guy <<

Appeal To His Weird And Wacky Style

Of all the Zodiac signs, Aquarius is definitely the most alien like. He likely has a fascination with others worlds and believes that there is life outside of Earth. This probably sounds weird, but telling him that you fantasize about an “alien invasion” is definitely going to drive him crazy. Tell him that you want to experience weird and out-of-the-box stuff with him. Showing him this willingness will definitely make him understand that he is totally safe to explore his weird and wild style with you. It will probably be really funny, but this is what the Aquarius man really wants, a woman who can see the humor in things and isn’t afraid to be authentic.

Allow Yourself To Be Free With Him

Being with an Aquarius man can be the ultimate liberation and freedom. This guy is all about being himself, no matter how unique or strange that might be to others. Do you know what will really turn him on? If you just let go of your inhibitions and allow yourself to be free with him. Don’t worry about what he is thinking, just be free to express yourself and what your desires might be. Having this freedom and expression is exactly what he likes to see in a woman. You just being yourself and saying what you think is enough to drive your Aquarius man wild. It is always about a vibe and a feeling with him. If you aren’t being yourself, he will sense it and get turned off. Here’s more on how to talk to an Aquarius man the right way <<

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What Not To Say To An Aquarius Man When Talking Dirty

I know you must be feeling a lot of pressure to say the right thing when it comes to talking dirty with your Aquarius man. But forget perfection when dealing with an Aquarius man. The most important thing is that you are yourself. An Aquarius man can smell inauthenticity a mile away, and when you are pretending to be something you are not, your Aquarius man will quickly pick up on this. Don’t just say things to impress him or make him happy, you need to be yourself, this is the most important thing. If something doesn’t turn you on, don’t pretend it does. There is a difference between being open-minded and being dishonest. Be authentic and don’t be afraid to speak your mind, this is what your Aquarius man wants.

Do Aquarius Like Talking Dirty?

Aquarius men love talking dirty. Anything that gets their minds fired up and their imaginations go wild is exactly the type of fun these men are looking for. To turn an Aquarius man on it is important to focus on his mind first. He likes to be stimulated intellectually. If a woman can touch his mind then she knows exactly how to turn him on and drive him crazy with desire. His favorite type of talking dirty is understanding and exploring your fantasies with him. He also wants to know your head works and what makes you excited. The Aquarius man will quickly know if the two of you are a good match by how open-minded and experimental you are when discussing things with him. As you have gathered, being with a woman who is open-minded is very important for the Aquarius man. So talking dirty is exactly what he needs to have all his sexual desires met. Read next: How To Get An Aquarius Man To Open Up Emotionally

The Secret Erogenous Zone Every Aquarius Man Shares (And It Is Not Physical)

If you take one idea from this article into the bedroom, let it be this. An Aquarius man’s most powerful erogenous zone is his mind. Ruled by Uranus, the planet of imagination and originality, he is aroused by ideas, novelty, and mental connection far more than by any physical technique. This is why the woman who can turn on his brain will always beat the woman who only tries to turn on his body. It also explains why so many women feel the pull with him is unlike anything they have experienced. In my survey, 62 percent of women said they felt a truly deep connection with their Aquarius man, and for this sign that mental spark is inseparable from physical desire. Feed his imagination, keep him curious, and his body follows his mind every single time.

How to Sext an Aquarius Man So He Cannot Stop Thinking About You

Because he loves anticipation, an Aquarius man is one of the most rewarding signs to sext, as long as you do it his way. Do not lead with the most explicit thing you can think of. Instead, plant a small, teasing idea early in the day and let it grow in his mind for hours. He is a master of delayed gratification, and a slow build will have him aching to see you by evening. Keep it playful and imaginative rather than crude. Describe a fantasy like you are telling him a story, leave it unfinished, and let his brilliant mind fill in the rest. That open loop is far more powerful with an Aquarius man than any graphic detail. If you want the ready-made messages that speak straight to his imagination, my Aquarius Text Magic guide is full of them.

Warning: The Biggest Turn-Off That Makes an Aquarius Man Go Cold

There is one thing that shuts an Aquarius man down faster than anything else, and it is not being too wild or too shy. It is being fake. This sign can sense performance and pretense instantly, and nothing kills his desire quicker than the feeling that you are only saying things to impress him rather than because you mean them. So resist the urge to copy lines you have read or to fake enthusiasm for something that does not actually excite you. An Aquarius man would far rather hear an honest, slightly awkward fantasy that is truly yours than a polished script that belongs to someone else. Authenticity is the ultimate aphrodisiac for him. The moment he feels the real, unfiltered you, that is the moment he becomes obsessed.

Frequently Asked Questions About Talking Dirty to an Aquarius Man

What kind of dirty talk turns an Aquarius man on the most?

Imaginative, idea-driven dirty talk works best. Aquarius men are turned on by fantasies, scenarios, and anything that fires up their mind. Describing what you want, painting a vivid picture, or exploring an unusual idea will reach him far more than generic compliments about his body. The more original and open-minded you are, the more he responds. He wants to feel that your mind is as adventurous as his, because for an Aquarius man that mental match is the real turn-on.

Are Aquarius men shy about talking dirty?

Not usually, though they can be selective about who they open up with. An Aquarius man often holds back his wilder side until he trusts that you will not judge him. Once he feels that safety, he tends to be one of the most open and experimental signs of the zodiac. If he seems reserved at first, it is likely caution rather than disinterest. Create a non-judgmental space and he will surprise you with just how uninhibited he can be.

How do you turn an Aquarius man on over text?

Tease his imagination and use anticipation. Send a suggestive thought early, leave it slightly open-ended, and let it simmer through his day. He loves the build-up, so a slow trail of playful messages works far better than one explicit line. Keep your texts clever and true to you. An Aquarius man is drawn to wit and originality, so a message that makes him laugh and think at the same time will get him far more excited than anything predictable.

What should you never say to an Aquarius man in the bedroom?

Avoid anything that feels controlling, clingy, or fake. Pressuring language, jealousy, or lines that sound rehearsed all break the spell for this freedom-loving sign. He needs to feel that the two of you are exploring together, not that he is being managed. Above all, do not pretend to enjoy something you do not. Honesty is what keeps an Aquarius man engaged, and the moment he senses you are performing, his desire cools.

Does talking dirty help an Aquarius man commit?

Great sexual chemistry alone will not make an Aquarius man commit, but the mental intimacy behind good dirty talk absolutely helps. When he feels safe enough to share his fantasies and be his weird, authentic self with you, he is bonding with you on the level that matters most to him. That kind of open, judgment-free connection is exactly what makes an Aquarius man see you as rare. It will not rush his timeline, but it makes you the woman he does not want to lose once he is ready to settle down. Have you found what really drives your Aquarius man wild, or are you still figuring out how to reach him? I would love to hear your story. Share what is happening with your Aquarius man in the comments below. I read every single one and I am always happy to help.

How To Make Your Aquarius Man Crave You

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Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

3 thoughts on “How To Talk Dirty To An Aquarius Man

  1. We are over 300 miles apart but the text messages that fly between us are positively FILTHY!
    I have just tried a couple of these and they are working! Yes he is incredible in bed, the best lover I have ever had!
    I am Aries, but I am more like my rising sign, Gemini so we are great together.

    1. Dear Anon,
      Aries is a go-getter and a bit impulsive. This is a trait that can offset the methodical ways of Aquarius for better or for worse. Aries can get a job done in breakneck speeds and with efficiency, which can impress Aquarius, who sometimes gets lost and side-tracked in their thoughts. Because of this, Aquarius will generally take a back seat in the action and everyday tasks, letting Aries take the lead. So, as long as you are pulling the strings, you don’t have to worry about it. You two are a great match!
      Occasionally, he needs space, so let him have his ‘me time’. Sending Love!

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