Have you been with an Aquarius man for a while but would like to take the next step in getting married but he’s dragging his feet? There are hoops you probably will need to jump through to get him to take that plunge. If you’re ready, keep reading for more information on how to get an Aquarius man to marry you.
Show Your Worth
Aquarius men love their freedom, and it takes someone extraordinary for them to be able to give some of that up and share their lives with someone else. They want a partner, but they want the RIGHT partner. So, show your worth if you want an Aquarius man to marry you.
This makes them take a great deal of time to decide whether or not someone is suitable for marriage and commitment to life. I will admit that Aquarius men typically know fairly quickly if someone will be worth their time.
However, for them to know whether or not that this will be someone that will last; is going to take them lots of time meaning years. If you’re trying to push them into marriage earlier than the bare minimum of 2 years, you’re probably going to fail.
Aquarius men do not like to be pushed, so if you want to get an Aquarius man to marry you, be patient. They are very independent and will not allow someone to tell them what to do, how to do it, and in what timing to do it in. Therefore approaching him head-on about marriage probably isn’t the best plan.
In fact, you’re going to want to plant seeds in his mind instead of trying to tackle it head-on. One of the biggest things you can do with an Aquarius man is to show him why you’d be a great wife to him.
Perhaps you can do so by acting as though you are already married. Naturally, this only works if you’ve been with him for 2 or more years first. Maybe living together is a better next step if you’re not already.
This allows him to see what you’re like up close and personal. Living separately, he still has lots of free time to himself. When he lives with someone; he loses some of that and can then figure out if his partner is worth that step or not.
Talk About the Future
It’s always a great idea to approach your plans and goals for yourself. It shows him you are ambitious and you don’t need him to help you with it. You can do it all on your own.
It doesn’t mean he won’t help, but he’s after to help you if he sees you can do it on your own. He will want to make it easier for you when or where he can.
When you’re discussing your plans, you can also bring up the fact that someday you’d like to settle down, have kids, etc. You’ll see quickly how he feels about that.
Either he’ll get uncomfortable, or he’ll ask you questions about it. If he says nothing, ask him what he sees himself doing for the next several years if he has any desire to want what you want.
Aquarius is known for being blunt and telling the truth when you ask them questions so be prepared that he may tell you he doesn’t want marriage, wants to wait, or isn’t ready.
You’ll know where you stand and if there is a chance he will want to marry you someday or if you’d be better off giving up to find someone who wants what you want.
Aquarius is strong-minded, and he won’t do anything he doesn’t want. That being said; if you intellectually get on his level and are talking about goals, passions, and aspirations; he may surprise you and pop the question in the future.
There is no way to know how long or how short the process may be as every Aquarius man is different. Plant those seeds though, and you may see some growth.
When He Agrees
If or when he agrees he’d like to marry; you will need to keep showing him why you’re the perfect person for him. You’ll also need to be gracious for all he does for you.
Be loving, be grateful, be honest, and be loyal. These are things he’s looking for in his match for life. If you are living together, you have a better chance of getting him to see that it would be a good thing.
Don’t Pressure Him
If you’re not yet living together, you should try suggesting this as the next step in your relationship. Again, I would wait until you’ve had 2 or more years with him. Anything sooner, he will not take it seriously.
If he feels any sign of pressure; he may cut you off and tell you he isn’t ready. You do not want ever to make him feel like he needs to hurry up. He won’t take to it well, and you’ll end up broken-hearted.
That being said; know you’re in this for the long haul if you want to be with him. You’re going to have to wait him out and have a great deal of patience. He’s one of the hardest signs to get to commit.
Once he does commit, it’s even harder to get him to take the next step in the commitment. When you do, though, it’s smooth sailing from there! Enjoy it and embrace the love you have.
Once an Aquarius does take the plunge; he means it, and he will do everything in his power to make it last forever. Many Aquarius men marry for life. If they fail, they may not marry again.
Though as I mentioned; it really will depend on the guy himself. He may have a rising sign or a moon that makes him more emotionally open and able to commit again.
If he’s already been hurt; look for walls he will have in place for a while. Work with him, and in time he’ll pull them down and let you in… for good!
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Wishing you all the luck of the universe
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,