Are you interested in getting it together with an Aquarius man but wonder if he’ll be worth it? Perhaps you’re dating one that you haven’t yet had intimacy with. So, are Aquarius men great lovers? Here are some things to keep in mind.
Sex or No Sex
Aquarius men can be amazing lovers in bed whether they’re in love or they’re just having a good time. They’re experimental and they are a whole lot of kink in the sheets.
In love, of course, he will become more open and the passion could certainly grow between him and the woman he decides to settle down. Just make no mistake, his ability to woo you and make you feel sexy isn’t the same thing as love.
What I mean is, if you’re getting sexually involved with an Aquarius man, be sure you know what your boundaries are. He has no problem with having a “friend with benefits”.
He’ll assume you’re alright with it as well unless you are upfront with your own intention with him. Letting him know you want more than friendship will be a key to whether or not he’ll consider settling down with you.
Naturally, if you’re just in for playing around, the Aquarius man will make an amazing partner in the bedroom. He’ll dazzle you between the sheets and could possibly be the best partner you’ve ever had.
If there are any positions, toys, or different things you’d like to try in bed, the adventurous and sexy Aquarius man will be happy to oblige you. Whether you’re in a relationship or not, this guy is hot stuff.
Now knowing that he’s a sensual man in and out of bed, your next question would possibly be whether or not he’s partner material. The answer is – yes!
This man absolutely has the capacity to be an amazing life partner. It will take an incredible woman to capture his attention. The next thing you need to figure out is if you’re that woman.
He’s looking for a woman who is a tiger in the sack, independent, strong, sassy, and can relate to him on a deep intellectual level. He’s a freedom guy so he will want lots of time to be himself and be by himself.
This is nothing unusual and as long as you can be the woman that he comes home to, you’ll have a partner for life. Make sure that you keep excitement brewing between the two of you to keep his interest only on you.
I’m not saying he’ll leave if you don’t but you may come across problems with him as far as keeping his attention. He wants to always try new things, go new places, and talk about exciting new events.
Aqua man thinks outside the box when it comes to most things in life which means he’s very different than most other men. He doesn’t think like the mainstream types of men.
Love and Marriage
Some women write to me asking if it’s possible for an Aquarius man to ever marry. Of course, it’s possible! It’s not only possible but it’s very likely to happen when he finds the right woman.
It may seem as though the Aquarius man is rather callous or cold at times but just like anyone else, he is capable of settling down with the right person. True, it takes one heck of a woman to capture him but it can be done.
If you’re that right woman for him, you should have no concern whether or not he’ll come around and be the wonderful doting husband and possible father to your future children.
He’s just as able to fall as madly in love as anyone else. It just takes someone who will live up to the expectations he has in a possible partner. He does have a few and the right woman has to meet these.
Are they impossible with expectations? They may seem that way but in all honesty, they are amazing expectations in terms of finding what he wants in a partner. Everyone has needs and so does he.
A Few Things to Learn
Just like anyone else, the Aquarius man needs to learn certain things in order to achieve his life goals. This is even applicable in love as well. With relationships, he has to learn how to effectively communicate.
Aquarius isn’t good with feelings and isn’t good at expressing how they feel on a national level. This is something they have to learn over time and possibly through various relationships.
When he does find the right person to settle down with, he will have to learn how to tell his lady love how he feels, why he feels it, what he wants, and what he needs. He’ll also need to learn to listen as well.
If he does all the talking and not enough listening, he’ll find that he cannot properly connect with someone who is well worth his time. Luckily he’s intelligent enough to be able to learn what he needs to get what he wants.
As a partner to an Aquarius man, you may need to step up your game as well. If you aren’t sure how he feels, if he loves you, if he wants a future with you, ask him!
I have many clients that are terrified of rocking the boat with their Aquarius men but if you never talk to him then you’re not building a normal healthy relationship. Communication is a must.
So next time you’re trying to figure out what is going on in his head; ask him. If he doesn’t tell you then he’s not ready to open up. You may have to wait a while to let things develop more.
Remember that a successful loving relationship with an Aquarius man is something that has to be built over time. It may take a while but it can be done and he CAN settle down.