In Love With A Married Aquarius Man: What Will Happen?

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In Love With A Married Aquarius Man: What Will Happen?

Are you currently messing around with or dating a married Aquarius man? Are you hoping he’ll leave his wife and deepen his commitment to you? Here’s what you need to know if you’re in love with a married Aquarius man.

If an Aquarius Man is Married

What is the first order of importance about this scenario is that when he’s telling you that he’s not happy in his marriage, she’s awful, he wants to leave her, etc; he is most likely not being truthful with you.

Many men who are the type to have an affair are not actually all that unhappy in their marriage. They make it out to be that they’re a victim of a horrible marriage when in fact; everyone else believes they’re really happy.

Aquarius men normally wait a really long time before they marry anyway because they do not want to share their free time with someone unless they feel the person is really worth it.

There are some that get married and then realize that the person they are with is controlling or doesn’t give them enough free time so they’ll seek out ways to have time to themselves or to indulge.

In that case; he’s seeking his personal freedom in the wrong way. However, he wants to remind himself that he’s still a free man when clearly he isn’t really all that free.

When any man; even Aquarius tells you that he’s in a loveless or unhappy marriage; be very leery of him. This is often a HUGE red flag.

Something else to remember is that if he’s willing to cheat on his wife to be with you; he’s going to do the same thing to you if he ever does leave her to be with you.

If You’re Married and Messing Around with the Aquarius Man

Couple flirting at work

Aquarius men have standards but sometimes waive them if they think they’re going to be able to have fun without strings. It makes it easier to maintain their freedom while having fun doing it.

You may find that the Aquarius man may have no trouble having an affair with a married woman. He’ll keep it up until he himself is ready to finally settle down. At that point, he’s not going to choose the affair.

He’s going to look for someone completely new. Don’t ever believe that one day your affair is going to turn into something long-lasting and wonderful with the Aquarius man that is cheating his wife with you.

If you truly want to find the love of your life and feel that your husband isn’t the right one; you should take care of yourself and make your own life a priority. Once you get things in order; you can then move forward.

Remember that your happiness is something you have to cultivate for yourself rather than relying on someone else. Aquarius man is a great guy for the right woman for sure but if you want him; you should probably leave your unhappy situation first.

It would be better for you to be the woman he chooses because you’re available and ready for him when he himself is ready. Having an affair with him while you’re still married will secure you NOTHING.

Also, he’s not likely to open up to you very easily while you’re married. He figures he can have what he wants from you and doesn’t have to give anything back to you in return so why would he open up?

Be Careful!

Depending on the Aquarius man’s circumstances; you need to be very careful that you don’t hurt anyone in the process of falling in love with him. He may have children that could be impacted by an affair or divorce.

Aquarius can be a promiscuous man and if he can easily cheat on his wife with you or is able to have an affair with a married woman; he can also easily have an affair while he is being with you.

These are all things to consider when you are deciding whether or not you should engage in a relationship with a married Aquarius or if you’re the one that’s married wanting a single Aquarius man.

No one is judging you here but I am trying to help you see what the reality is with the Aquarius guy so that there are no surprises with how things go. All in all, it’s probably best not to mess around with him.

Look at things logically and know that this man isn’t morally upstanding like a Virgo or Taurus. Even Aries has a bit of a moral code he tries to follow. Those men definitely will not commit to someone they are having a fling with; if they even allow a fling.

If all you really want is a good time with no muss no fuss then the Aquarius man may be a good fit. Just keep in mind that if you decide later on that you want more, he’s likely not to give it to you.

Of course, if he does; just remember how it was with you and know that he’ll do it again with someone else later on. Aquarius doesn’t like to commit easily. He won’t commit to the “other woman”.

When You’re Already in a Relationship with a Married Aquarius

Happy couple in a relationship

Try considering the tips I’ve given you in this article. Once you see the bigger picture; you may realize that you should probably exit your affair and work on your own path.

If you are not happy in your own marriage work on that. If the Aquarius is married, you may as well assume he’s not going to leave his wife and if he does, you’re not the one. He’ll move on.

Stick all these things together and they all add up to a bad road for you to be on. It may help you to learn more about Aquarius man though.


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Wishing you all the luck of the universe

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach

  • Married 12 yrs Aquarius man, we have seperated due to his affairs, he has been with one for about 6mos. Can I get him back? We get together about 3 times a mo. Talk and laugh and it is a secret but he expresses that he might want to reconcile in the future am I wasting my time

    • HI Jill!

      Well, it sounds like the two of you need to meet up and discuss it. I would say though that you need to tell him if you get back together, there cannot be any affairs. Unless you’re alright with him doing that sort of thing. If not then you need to make sure it’s about you two only. You can probably work through it but you both have to dedicate yourself to it. You might benefit from checking out my book “Aquarius Man Secrets”.

  • Hi I’m Firehiwot. I am aries woman. Before 5 years i am divorced. After 5 years i fall in love with a married Aquarius man. He is not happy with his marriage. So what shall i do? Thank you

    • Hi Firehiwot Bogale!

      If he isn’t happy with his marriage then he needs to get out of it instead of having an affair. If he’s willing to make you his 2nd choice then he’s not really devoted and is juggling the two of you. If he cares for you and wants to be with you then he will exit his marriage and come to you. Don’t accept anything else otherwise you’ll end up being his side chic. You might benefit from checking out my book “Aquarius Man Secrets”.

  • Hi I am Tina. A Sagittarius woman aged 44. I am in an unhappy marriage since the past 2 years.
    I am attracted to an aries man who has been married for over 20 years. He loves his wife and kids. I am not expcting him to leave his family, I have known him since we were teenagers. We last saw each other before we both got married. We met early this year and he told me he had feelings for me when we were still young. We always talk and I always confide to him. Should I have a relationship with him?

    • Hi Tina!

      So if you don’t expect him to leave his family, what do you expect him to do? Are you alright being his side chic? That’s all you’ll get if you have a relationship with him. I hate to say that but it’s true. You’d only be his affair and never have him whole for yourself. It’s up to you but if you want to know more about how Aries man is, you might want to check out my book “Aries Man Secrets”.

  • I was in love with married Aquarius man..ITS not because his kost because he share jus feeling and his subtly act that he show me he is in love with me.there’s a butterfly around…i was in my lowest down life..but my gut telling me that ia something wrong happens…he clearly tell me that be gas wife butbthey where separates by country because of pandemi .
    I was tell him we Will meet again when he grown up and ready ..not becay i di not love him.but i know my worth…
    Just left Faith take ITS job

    • Hi Erma!

      Fantastic to hear you did the right thing. I am so proud of you sweetheart. It’s very important to be supportive to an Aquarius man but if he’s trying to be unfaithful to his wife then he could very well be unfaithful to you as well. He would never put you first and yes, your worth a whole lot more than what he was doing. Keep up the great work and if you want to know more about this sign, try reading my book. Its very insightful.

  • Hi.. im in a relationship with a married Aquarius man. We are actually both married.. the man is my first love and neighbor since childhood. And he felt the same way. During old days we like each other but we have no physical and even communication at all. Because we felt that love secretly to each other. Recently after 20 years we reunited through facebook. We had a regular chats until we opened up about our secret feelings during old days. The love again developed in long distance relationship.. we have great time sharing our experience and sweet messages and through social media and he always calling me. I am working abroad but since pandemic started me and my husband decided that i will go home and settled first to our home country with my daughter. My continues relationship with my aquarius man is progressing.. He also working abroad in different country and he is about to go home this April 2021.. since we plan to meet when he will arrive in our town however.. this past few months i observed that he changed a lot. He is not communicating me anymore like the way he used to be. Even no sweet talks and he called me but not as often as before. He asked me to be friend of his wife and try the services they up to on their current business, and keep our relationship between him and me only. Of course i know that it should be. Now im confuse..i tried to communicate with his wife through social media and inquired about the services they are offering.. we chat casually as if like between client and owner. i am not comfortable with this kind of set up but i did it because i thought it will make him happy. The bas thing is i can see in the messenger that his wife is online and he as well is online but he never send me messages even say hi. He often read my messages also. And it hurts me so much because i know that he is communicating with his wife. While me is hanging around.

    He told me before that i am the missing piece and i felt the same. I am not a happy married woman. I struggled emotionally and mentally. My husband is quiet un romantic person and not even active in sex. I am married with him for 14 years.

    My aquarius man is married to his wife for 13 years. They don’t have their own child except for one they adopted. Since birth.

    What should i do? He is coming home this month of april and i dont know what will happen next. I am thinking to break up with him because i know that he will not leave his wife for me.. and currently i have issies woth my husband as well since he is having an affair with someone unknow.


    • Hi Maya!

      This is a tough situation you are in sweetheart. I think that before you really know what you want in life and love, you need to move on from your marriage. You sounds quite unsettled and like you would like to move on. Do it! Do it for yourself honey. Do what makes you happy. As far as your Aquarius guy, he needs to pick otherwise you will stay as you are for years to come. He’ll hang onto for as long as you allow but as you said, if he won’t leave the wife then there may not be much you can do. You need to choose what is best for YOU. If you talk to him and he still says he won’t leave then you have your answer. Get out of your marriage, be single, and enjoy your life. Though if you would like to know more about Aquarius men, please check out my books on Aquarius Man Secrets.

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