How can you possibly tell that an Aquarius man is serious about you? These men are so confusing, that even I have to wrap my brain around them sometimes. And this is coming from a very experienced relationship Astrologer.
It isn’t always the easiest to tell if an Aquarius man is serious about you. He is so aloof and cool and likes to go about his life at his own pace. No one else is ever going to rush him into doing anything he doesn’t want to.
He plays by his own rules, and no one else’s. But I am sure you are curious to know if your Aquarius man is in love with you and if he is taking this relationship as seriously as you are.
If you’re looking to find out the signs an Aquarius man is serious about you, you have come to the right place. Keep on reading to find out more.
3 Surefire Signs An Aquarius Man Is Falling For You
1. He’s More Attentive
The Aquarius man is one who loves his freedom and time. If he’s willing to start giving you some of it; it is a clear sign an Aquarius man is serious about you. He will start to text you, call you, or spend face time with you.
You’ll notice that he starts to ask you more personal questions about your life and what your goals or dreams are. These types of questions help him figure out if you’re someone with whom he could have a lucrative future.
He will go out of his way to try to be around you more. While he’s mining for information; try not to give away too much. The idea is to get him intrigued so he can enjoy the mystery of getting to know you.
Telling him too much upfront will either turn your Aquarius man off or scare him away — neither of which you want to happen. An Aquarius takes his time to fall in love and tries to figure out if you can be someone who will match him.
2. His Curiosity In You Increases
Aside from just spending time with you and sharing his life, he will also want to know more about you and who you are. He wants to know that your inner core values will match his.
If he goes this far, it is clear that your Aquarius man is falling for you or is very close to letting go and fully loving you. Either way, this is a telltale sign of an Aquarius man in love. Lots of questions about you and your life mean he’s genuinely in it for the right reasons.
Another sign an Aquarius man is falling for you; he’ll try to figure out your likes, dislikes, inner desires, dreams, and hopes that are important to him. He wants to make sure that you’re someone who strives to achieve your goals.
3. Grand Gestures Of An Aquarius Man Falling In Love
Aside from him paying more attention to you; you’ll probably notice an increase in his romantic ways with you. He could start bringing you your favorite flowers, taking you to excellent restaurants, bringing you chocolate, etc.
When you start to get love letters, romantic texts, or seductive conversations, your Aquarius man is probably falling in love with you. Watch his actions more than anything else. They’re very telling.
It takes an Aquarius man a long time to get to this point, though. He loves his freedom, he loves to play with various people, and likes to have fun. He sees commitment as a considerable ordeal.
Only when he feels he’s found the person he thinks is worth it; will he give up his freedom and settle down. In doing this; his inner romantic side comes out, and he will give you the world.
You may also want to read: Aquarius Man In Love Behavior (What Is An Aquarius’ Love Language?)
Watch this video to get more insights into the signs an Aquarius man is falling for you:
How To Know If An Aquarius Man Is Serious About You (8 Obvious Signs)
Knowing all of the previously said, you’re probably wondering how to know if an Aquarius man is serious about you as well. I’ve got more completely tasty tips, so keep on reading!
4. He Tells You How He Feels With Honesty
Aquarius men are truthful most of the time. They may not give up the information without you asking, but if you do, you better be prepared for the cold hard truth. Whether that means he loves you or he’s not that into you, he’ll let you know.
Typically though; if an Aquarius man is in love with you, he’ll likely tell you. If not directly “I’m falling for you” then he may say it in other ways like “I’m into you hardcore” or something similar.
Once he’s really in love with you, he’ll fully commit to you. If this happens, there is no way that you won’t know. He will, at that point, make it very clear, “I love you.”
5. He Is Caring For Your Needs
This is the man who will be the one to bring you dinner if you’re not feeling too well. He has no problem making you dinner at your place either. When Aquarius man loves you he will worry that you’re not feeling good.
The Aquarius will be the guy that will take your temperature, and wait on your hand and foot to make sure that you’re on the healing path. He’s your manservant because he loves you and wants you to be well.
A man who will go above and beyond for his lady love is a man who is in love with his queen. If your Aquarius man is taking care of you, he loves you look for more signs an Aquarius man is falling for you. There are many!
6. When An Aquarius Man Commits
An Aquarius man will not commit until he’s positive that you’re the one. If he does jump in too quick, he’ll freak out at some point and maybe back out unceremoniously.
That means that if he looks back and realizes that he moved too quickly, he will freak out on a mental level. This will make him reconsider everything, and it could make him know you’re not the one.
Whatever you do; do not rush an Aquarius man. If you take your time and let him do this at his pace, he’ll fall for you and then finally commit. When he commits to you, he means it. It’s definitely one of the signs an Aquarius man is falling for you.
This means he’s in it for the long haul and is yours! Getting to this point isn’t the easiest, but if you allow things to flow naturally, you’ll be glad you did. This guy only plays when he’s not committed.
He takes commitment very seriously, and as such, he tries to avoid it like the plague until he meets the right partner. Once he reaches the right person; he’ll know it, and it will scare him, but he’ll still go forward with it.
7. He Gives You His Trust
Aquarius men do not like to open up about their personal lives. This means it could take quite a while before he takes you home to meet his family. He isn’t one to bring just anyone home. This takes lots of trust from Aquarius man.
Once he starts doing things that indicate he trusts you, it’s a sign an Aquarius man is falling for you or is already in the throes of love with you. He will open up and start to talk to you about things that are important to him.
If you become his confidant, then he is going to feel safe, secure, and able to continue building a foundation for a long-lasting relationship. When an Aquarius man is serious about you, you’ll notice him talking to you more, texting you more, and investing his time in you as I mentioned in one of the other signs of an Aquarius man in love.
8. Delicious Romantic Whisperings
The Aquarius man knows how to lay it on thick when he wants to draw you in closer. He will go out of his way to be as romantic as possible. He’s the type that will cook you a candlelight dinner.
He will whisper to you all the things you long to hear. In bed, he’ll bring his “A” game to ensure that you enjoy every second you have with him. He will pull out all the stops, rose petals, hot bath, etc.
Getting you to understand that he is devoting all his energy and effort to you is what his goal is. If he is doing this, he’s in love with you or is one of the signs an Aquarius man is falling for you.
The Aquarius man in love will do whatever he can to make sure that you’re happy. He’ll make lots of jokes to make you laugh. He’ll also act like a total clown to show you that life shouldn’t ever be too serious.
He will want to be your everything. However, he will still need to have some of his freedom to thrive. When he’s with you, he’ll shine at making you happy and feeling adored.
Providing you with comic relief isn’t uncommon with these guys. They are often the clown at parties and people really like them. What’s not to like? When an Aquarius man loves you, he wants you to smile for him.
9. Deep-Seated Conversations
The Aquarius man is typically intellectually driven. He will be intrigued to discuss things that are important to him. Not just on a personal level but on an intellectual level.
If he talks enough to teach you about some of the things he’s interested in or is learning about, he’s opening up his heart to you in some way. By talking back to him about these things or the things, you’re passionate about will thrill him.
These signs are all how to know if an Aquarius man loves you. Take a good look at how the Aquarius man is with you and how he treats you. It should be quite easy to figure out where his mind is when it comes to love.
10. They’re Asking You Questions About Love & Dating
An Aquarius has no shame about what they don’t know. They have scientific minds and they think less about what they already know than finding out more about what they don’t.
Aquarians are ruled by Uranus, a planet of boundary-breaking and pushing limits. It’s not the warmest planet, but it is a curious one.
The Aquarius is going to balance out what he doesn’t know about a subject by asking all the right questions to better inform himself… he’ll even do this on the topic of emotional expression!
If he’s asking you about where the best places to go on a date are, how to tell if someone is crushing on you, or how to tell another you’re crushing on them it is because he’s doing field research to fill in the holes in his knowledge.
And if he’s making it very clear that he’s asking how you can tell when someone is crushing on you, then I think it’s a safe bet that he’s not asking for a friend – he wants to know how to get the message across to you!
11. He’s Becoming Softer
Although the primary ruler of Aquarius is humanitarian Uranus, his secondary ruler is Saturn, the planet of restrictions and challenges. This means that despite their approachable first impression, they are actually a pretty tough nut to crack. They can be distant and lack emotion at times.
When someone gets near enough to an Aquarius to warm their heart up, it shows. They seem to better understand empathy and kindness and they’re much easier to emotionally engage with at this time.
If it was only after he became a lot closer to you that he started to divulge emotionally charged confessions, then keep in mind that you could be the one who is triggering him to act more emotionally raw!
This is a good thing because this means the Aquarius is opening up to you… no small feat for aloof Aquarius!
When An Aquarius Man Is Serious About You — Does That Mean He Is Thinking Of Marrying You?
Now that you know the signs of an Aquarius man who is serious about you, what about marriage? I hate to say it, but an Aquarius man isn’t usually the marrying kind, unless, of course, he meets the right lady.
Then he tends to be one of the most committed and loyal partners around. There are a couple of signs he is thinking of taking things to the next level with you, like he is interested in meeting your family or calling you his best friend.
If you are looking for more signs to see if this guy is actually thinking about the future with you, then check out my article about signs an Aquarius man wants to marry you!
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With love and light,
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