Walking away from an Aquarius man is often a topic my clients ask me about. These guys are elusive and it is difficult to read what they are thinking or get them to want you back. They are the masters of hot and cold, unfortunately.
But what would actually happen if you did the no contact rule with Aquarius man? Does it work is it one of those things that might backfire in your face? Well, I have come to realize that everything with an Aquarius man is quite unpredictable.
You might think that ignoring an Aquarius man will get him right back to you, and yes, this can sometimes work, but sometimes it doesn’t either. You never know with an Aquarius man, and that is the problem.
Leaving an Aquarius man alone may actually be the best thing you can do for yourself, and yes, he may come back, but at least you have gotten away from his hot and cold behavior and can open up new doors and opportunities for yourself.
Are you thinking about leaving an Aquarius man alone? Then you have definitely come to the right place. Keep on reading to find out if walking away from an Aquarius man is the right thing for you to do!
Leaving An Aquarius Man Alone
When thinking about leaving an Aquarius man alone, many thoughts may pop up into your head. Like will he come back and does giving him space actually work? You’ve probably read all the Astrology articles that say that Aquarius men are very independent and need a lot of space.
And yes, this is very true, an Aquarius man needs a partner who can give him the freedom he so desperately desires. However, it is important to remember that Aquarius men actually struggle to form strong emotional connections with people.
And if you give him space before he has connected with you on an emotional level, it could backfire for you as you are likely to never hear from him again. But most women who are in relationships with Aquarius men know that it is a good thing to leave him alone from time to time. This makes the relationship much stronger.
Do Aquarius Men Like To Be Left Alone?
These guys love to be left alone as their space and freedom are very important to them. They get claustrophobic otherwise and feel like they need to run away when someone clings to them too tightly.
No Contact Rule With An Aquarius Man — Does Walking Away From An Aquarius Man Actually Get Him Back?
Going no contact with an Aquarius man can be very helpful in making him yours again. He is the type of guy that is used to women chasing after him as he is the master of no contact and ghosting.
So if you pull this on him he might find it very surprising and leave him feeling confused. This is good as I can guarantee that this guy has likely left a string of broken heart behind him because of his hot and cold tendencies.
He is the type of man who wants all of his freedom and independence when it suits him, and the comfort of a relationship when it suits him as well. He can be a little inconsistent, but at least he is consistent in his inconsistency.
Doing the opposite of what he expects from you may definitely intrigue him. You’ll stand out from other women in his life if you just keep your cool and be a little aloof. He won’t expect this. So try walking away from him and see what happens.
This is a great way for you to practice restraint and patience, but also to keep your self respect in tact. Let him come to you and see what happens!
Here’s more on how to talk to an Aquarius man — dos and don’ts <<
What Happens When You Block An Aquarius Man — The Possible Outcomes Of Ignoring An Aquarius Man
He Doesn’t Care
When you walk away from an Aquarius man, you should do it with as much dignity and self-respect as possible. I don’t advise my ladies to block men as this just shows the guy how much of an affect he has on her.
You may not realize it but by blocking him you are giving him power in his mind. If you want to walk away from him, you must do it silently. Just go quiet and ignore him for a while. Remember, Aquarius men hate drama, and he will view you blocking him as being quite dramatic.
This makes him not care about it all and makes him group you into how he expects every woman to react to him. Stand out from the crowd by not showing him how much he affects you.
If you would like to look out for the signs about Aquarius man intentions about you, check out here <<
He Becomes Intrigued
If you ignore an Aquarius man, you might actually drive him quite crazy because he is the one who is usually used to ignoring women. As soon as the Aquarius man gets the ick, he wants to run away and disappear.
However, if you act elusive and cool yourself, he may become more intrigued because it is the thing he least expects from you. He thinks that you are going to chase him around and cling to him like no other.
But actually, if you just step back, then it takes the pressure off both of you and makes him more willing to come to you in the first place.
You Become Free To Pursue Other People
If you ignore an Aquarius man, you may actually come to the realization yourself that he isn’t the right guy for you as being with someone shouldn’t be so hard. This means you get the freedom to let go of him and pursue other people.
This may not be what you actually want, but it may be what you come to learn you deserve. Getting some space from him will probably make you realize that you should be treated much better than you have been.
This creates the space in your life for the Universe to bring you the perfect partner in your life. You can walk away and see new and exciting things develop in your life and soon you will forget this Aquarius man even existed in the first place.
How To Walk Away From An Aquarius Man Effectively?
Get Some Space By Ignoring Him
The age-old tale is when you’re interested in someone is to flirt with them and then ignore them so that they come chasing you. With Aquarius, this CAN work depending on the guy himself.
If you’ve tried the being nice method and it’s not working well for you, perhaps if you tell him how you feel about him or the situation then wait several days without contact to see what he does.
In some cases, the guy realizes he really messed up and will start trying to chase you in order to get your adoration back into his world. Aquarius men like to test potential partners to see what they’re made of.
Showing him that you won’t take any guff shows him how strong and independent you really are. That in itself will be a huge turn on and so when you ignore him, he may come running back for some more.
If he’s been ignoring you, blowing you off, or breaking plans, it may be time to speak up and then leave him alone. He needs to realize what he truly did and that you won’t stand for it.
Again, it could be a test to see what you’re made of and if you’re willing to stand up for yourself or if you’re more of a doormat. Aquarius men do not like the doormat type of women. They have no respect for them.
Take Back Your Control
If you have decided to tangle with an Aquarius, you need to be fearless. Allowing him to have control over you or being nervous about how he may react will make you seem weak which isn’t what or who he wants.
He wants an independent woman who doesn’t need anyone but rather chooses her mate wisely. When you find he’s not treating you the way you know you deserve, time to ignore him a bit.
He will either want to know what happened and that you’re not trying to contact him all the time anymore OR he’ll realize what he did and then want to make up with you thus showing you the attention you want from him.
You cannot be afraid to stand up to him nor can you be afraid to tell him what is what. He may not like it but once he thinks about it, he’ll calm down and understand better who you are and what you won’t tolerate.
Aquarius actually is turned on and impressed by a woman who shows him no fear. He may be snippy with his lover but if she shows him the logic in what the truth is, he’ll be more receptive.
Sometimes walking away from an Aquarius man is the only way to get his attention and focus on the relationship. It shows him that you mean business and that he had a better step to it or keep stepping on out.
Be Open To It Not Working Out
There is always a risk in using this technique but hey; if you’ve tried everything else and it’s not working for you; this is a last-ditch effort. Go for it. Do it without fear and know that it may fail but then again, it could succeed.
It may not be an easy thing to pull off but sometimes the risks are worth the gain. If you decide it may be well worth it then go for it! Do it without fear and know that it may fail but then again, it could succeed.
This is a gamble you must be willing to make with Aquarius man. There is that slim chance that he won’t like it or think that you aren’t interested anymore so he ends up moving on.
However, there is an even bigger chance that he’ll really be curious about what brought on this behavior and will at that point, engage to find out from you directly why you’re treating him this way.
I’d say that the contact rule with an Aquarius man works more often than it doesn’t work. With that said, if you’ve tried everything else; this may be a good solution for you to try out. If all fails and he walks away; then he didn’t care enough about you in the first place.
You may also want to read: Clear Signs An Aquarius Man Just Wants To Be Friends
Stand Your Ground
Aquarius men can be difficult to deal with sometimes and when they are; walking away or ignoring them tends to wake them up to the reality of what is going on. Unless he really doesn’t give a flip about you; he’ll wonder what is going on.
It’s like a wake-up call for this guy. It’s like yanking his head out of the clouds and bringing him back to planet earth. An Aquarius man is good at ignoring other people’s needs but when he’s faced with a possible ending when he isn’t ready; he’ll respond.
You need to decide if this Aquarius guy is worth it to you or not. If he is, you can certainly learn more about him thus allowing you to have the upper hand while ignoring an Aquarius man.
FAQ About Ignoring An Aquarius Man
What Does It Mean When An Aquarius Man Blocks You?
Well, it really depends on the situation. If you have been texting him or spamming him with messages then he probably feels quite overwhelmed by your constant contact and needs some space from you.
He may also want nothing to do with you and this is why he has blocked you. Aquarius men can be quite ruthless when they are done with someone so he is just putting all the measures in place to never hear from you again.
It simply means that he wants to move on without you in his life. This is definitely something you need to respect.
Will An Aquarius Man Ignore You If He Likes You?
An Aquarius man isn’t really one to play games, especially not intentionally. But it is also important to remember that an Aquarius man needs a lot of freedom and independence. If it seems like he is ignoring you, he may just be busy.
However, if an Aquarius man likes you he will put in the effort to contact you. He won’t purposely ignore you. If he is ignoring you then chances are he probably doesn’t really feel the same way about you.
Will An Aquarius Man Miss You After No Contact?
The truth is, an Aquarius man has the tendency to move on quite quickly. He is the type of guy who doesn’t really allow himself to get super emotionally involved with just anyone so detaching is really easy for him.
If the two of you had a very strong connection then yes, your Aquarius man will probably miss you. But if it was a very brief encounter with you, then he probably won’t miss you. If he reaches out to you again, then you have your answer but if you never hear from him again then you also have your answer.
Does Your Aquarius Man Have An Avoidant Attachment Style?
Is your Aquarius man pulling away or getting quiet when you’ve just had a deep emotional connection? Does he seem to disappear just when you thought he was getting closer? Have you felt confused by his hot and cold behavior?
If so, then he might have an avoidant attachment style.
He could be Dismissive Avoidant and completely terrified of commitment… Or he could be Fearful Avoidant and REALLY want commitment… But get scared when he feels himself getting closer to you.
If he has either one of these attachment styles, you’re going to end up feeling extremely confused at times. And both are caused by childhood trauma.
When you can see the scared little boy inside him that had to shut down his feelings if he’s Dismissive Avoidant… Or have a parent not provide his needs consistently if he’s Fearful Avoidant…
It can make it easier to have empathy and compassion for his confusing and frustrating behavior.
But that won’t fix it.
And while advice on attachment styles can be helpful…
You really need to understand him better to stop this frustrating hot and cold cycle.
It will stop him from pulling back when you begin feeling closer. And it will accomplish this in only 30 days.
So no more crying yourself to sleep when an Aquarius man pulls back… No more feeling incredibly confused. And no more wondering what in the heck is going on with him… Even if he has an avoidant attachment style.