How to make an Aquarius man miss you is a question I often get from my readers. These men are just so impossible to understand because they are so hot and cold!
An Aquarius man is by nature quite detached, so it is important that you don’t take his actions personally and come to know what the signs an Aquarius man misses you are.
These can be difficult to spot, but with the help of this guide, you will definitely know what to look out for when it comes to your Aquarius man. You will also learn how to make an Aquarius man miss you and find you irresistible.
If this is what you are looking for, then keep on reading to find out how to tell an Aquarius man you miss him and how to get him to miss you in the process!
How To Make an Aquarius Man Miss You – 7 Ways To Make Him Crave You
1. Your Song
You can gently plant a seed for your dear Aquarius man. Tell him what your favorite song is and make sure it’s something he’s likely to hear on the radio. Pick something that’s easy for him to remember.
It would be even better if you pick something by a band he already likes. If he’s interested in you; he’ll think of you when he hears this song. He may not admit it to you but his mind will be on you.
If you’ve been dating awhile you can also say something like “this song reminds me of you”. Then every time he hears it, he can’t help but miss you. It will make him smile as well.
This is but one seed you can plant for the Aquarius man. Unlike the Taurus man, he’s actually one that WILL miss you if he’s truly interested in you.
There are plenty of ways you can get an Aquarius man to miss you. Let’s continue!
2. Perfume Squirts
If he goes wild about a certain scent that you wear, be sure you carry a bottle with you so that when he goes to use the restroom, you can spray his sofa or bed with it.
Of course, if he hasn’t taken you to his place yet; find something of his you can spray some of your scents on such as his car, his jacket, etc. Whatever it is that you can get access to, spray it up.
Don’t spray a ton of it but just a subtle amount that if he catches a whiff when you are not with him; he’ll smell it and think of you instantly. He may not even realize that it’s the scent that has him thinking of you.
You surely had moments when a passenger leaves that same perfume scent as your guy, and you feel like he’s there. That particular scent might even activate those butterflies in your stomach, so why not use it as your tactic? It will definitely make your Aquarius miss you and think of you.
3. Be Yourself
In order to get your Aquarius man to miss you; be yourself. Don’t try to chase after him or send him endless texts. He will not take well to being chased. Remember that he’s a slow mover.
That means that he will want to take his time. You constantly trying to remind him of you or your existence will only irritate him and he may decide to let go of you.
If he’s already into you, he will miss you no matter what you do or do not do. The thing to remember is that seeds planted that I mentioned, are very subtle. They’re not “here I am!” types of things.
If he likes you; he knows you’re there and trying to force yourself into his head isn’t going to work well. This is why I mentioned that if you spray your scent, do it lightly not in abundance.
4. Be Simple
Aquarius men want to take their time and make sure that they’re with the right person before they settle down. So when he’s not with you and you want to make him think of you, just relax.
Instead of sending him a bunch of texts; send him one simple one saying “thinking of you” and then leave it at that until he responds. He may not respond right away. In fact, he may way hours or a day before he responds.
He wants to see if you’re going to still be there when he does finally get back to you. He also wants to see how you’re going to react to it. If you react like a jealous person or someone impatient, he’ll deem you as not being right for him.
Learn more about how to text Aquarius man here.
5. Ask For Advice
If you want to talk to him without it seeming like you’re hounding him; ask him for advice about something going on in your life. This will allow him to do something he likes and help you at the same time.
He isn’t one to want to rescue damsels in distress but he does like giving advice. He’s normally really good at giving away ideas that can be effective. This will get him talking to you without seeming like you’re coming on strong.
You can text him something like “what do you think about this” and give him your issue. Again, he may not get back to you right away but when he does, he’ll be sure to give you some sound words of wisdom.
He will see that you’re interested in the intellect he can provide you and won’t see it as an intrusion nor will he see it as you chasing him. It will, however, get him thinking about you.
6. Give Him Time And Space
For an Aquarius guy to miss you; he has to be apart from you. That means that it’s actually better for you to allow him to have time to himself. He’s a lover of his free time anyway so the more you give him, the happier he’ll be.
Think about it, if you’re together all the time or texting all the time; you never find time to miss one another. If you spend time apart and spend a day or two without texting or calling; you’ll miss each other.
Believe me when I tell you; the Aquarius man will miss you even if he doesn’t verbalize it. He isn’t the type to continuously reaffirm his feelings for you. If you’re the stable partner he seeks, you already know this.
Give him a reason to miss you! I’m not saying you should ignore him or dodge him. However, if you text him and he forgets to text you back, don’t ride him about it. He’ll see you as clingy or needy.
Aquarius men do not like clingy or needy women. This is important for you to know; you’ll need to respect his need for personal freedom. You’ll need to trust that he will do the right thing.
By having trust in him and letting him slip now and then when he forgets to call, you’ll find loyal and lasting love.
7. Be His Friend
An Aquarius man can freak out quickly if he feels that there is too much pressure on him to perform romantically. He likes to take things slow, so one of the best ways to get an Aquarius man to miss you is to act like his friend.
This will instantly take the pressure off him and will make him wonder why you aren’t chasing him. This is why leaning back is always so important, especially with an Aquarius man.
When you mirror his behaviour he will start wondering what is going on and why you aren’t all over him all of the time. Show him that you are a chilled woman who won’t pressure him into anything he wouldn’t want.
To get an Aquarius man to miss you, you need to be super casual, live your own life, and not focus on him too much. This can easily overwhelm him and make him feel like there is too much pressure on him to be something he might not necessarily be.
Learn also: What an Aquarius Man Likes in a Woman
5 Strong Signs an Aquarius Man Misses You
Knowing if an Aquarius man misses you is one of the most challenging things when it comes to this Air sign. He is so detached that you might feel if you don’t reach out to him that you’ll never hear from him again.
And this might be the case for some Aquarius men, but this is just a sign that he isn’t actually that interested in you and it might be time for you to move on and find someone who is interested in you.
But, if you’re looking for some strong signs an Aquarius man does miss you then look out for some of these signs:
- An Aquarius man reaches out to you often.
- An Aquarius man tells you that he misses you.
- An Aquarius man makes plans to see you.
- An Aquarius man is active on your social media page.
- An Aquarius man gets jealous when you spend time with other people.
FAQ – Aquarius Man and Missing You
There are some common questions that might come up for you on your quest to find out if an Aquarius man is missing you. Hopefully, this should help ease any of the anxiety you might have if you want to know if an Aquarius man is missing you:
Will an Aquarius Man Tell You He Misses You? Is He Too Proud to do it?
Don’t hold your breath to hear from an Aquarius man if he misses you. This guy can easily detach from his emotions because he gets so overwhelmed when he has intense feelings. He might tell you, but he might not, it all depends on the individual.
You might even find that when you reach out to him that he sounds pretty excited and happy to hear from you. Which will confuse you of course. He’s a strange guy and you are going to have to get used to his quirks.
Everything with an Aquarius man is very unconventional and out of the ordinary. If you’re looking for stability, then you are definitely barking up the wrong tree.
Should You Tell an Aquarius Man You Miss him?
I wouldn’t recommend telling an Aquarius man that you miss him. It is very easy to freak an Aquarius man out when it comes to your feelings and emotions. He might think that you are putting too much pressure on him.
He will detach and this will only hurt your feelings if you aren’t careful, especially if you just started seeing him. If you are in a long-term committed relationship then that is a different story.
You want to make your Aquarius man feel as little pressure from you as possible. Always lean back and let him come to you.
As I have mentioned over and over again, Aquarius men are very difficult and fickle when it comes to love. If they feel like there is too much pressure on them then they freak out so easily.
This is why you need to think things through carefully if you are planning on telling him that you miss him. You need to consider why are you missing him in the first place. Is it because you never hear from him or never see him?
This might be a strong indication that he doesn’t actually share the same feelings as you… However, it is difficult to know with an Aquarius man because they are in general so unusual.
It is a good idea for you to perhaps get to know what Aquarius men are like to understand him more. This can help you to really grasp his essence and what he actually needs from a woman.
Wishing you all the love in the world,
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,