5 Clear Signs An Aquarius Man Misses You (And Tips To Make Him Miss You)

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
Here are clear signs an Aquarius man misses you by a professional relationship astrologer. (+ tips to make him miss you)

Are you trying to make an Aquarius man miss you? Whether you’re trying to win your Aquarius ex back, or win back the attention of the Aquarius who stopped texting you, this article can help you. It explains the key personality traits of an Aquarius, and how you can use these to make them miss you.

How to make an Aquarius man miss you is a question I often get from my readers. These men are just so impossible to understand because they are so hot and cold! An Aquarius man is by nature quite detached, so it is important that you don’t take his actions personally and come to know what the signs an Aquarius man misses you are.

These can be difficult to spot, but with the help of this guide, you will definitely know what to look out for when it comes to your Aquarius man. You will also learn how to make an Aquarius man miss you and find you irresistible.

If this is what you are looking for, then keep on reading to find out how to tell an Aquarius man you miss him and how to get him to miss you in the process!

For those of you that need more precise examples that will make your Aquarian guy crave you, miss you, and think about you, make sure to check my Aquarius Text Magic guide, as it’ll teach you how to do that and finally understand what are his true love buttons.

5 Clear Signs An Aquarius Man Misses You

Knowing if an Aquarius man misses you is one of the most challenging things when it comes to this Air sign. He is so detached that you might feel if you don’t reach out to him that you’ll never hear from him again. 

And this might be the case for some Aquarius men, but this is just a sign that he isn’t actually that interested in you and it might be time for you to move on and find someone who is interested in you.

But, if you’re looking for some clear signs an Aquarius man misses you, then look out for some of these signs:

  • An Aquarius man reaches out to you often.
  • An Aquarius man tells you that he misses you. 
  • An Aquarius man makes plans to see you.
  • An Aquarius man is active on your social media page.
  • An Aquarius man gets jealous when you spend time with other people.

Should You Tell An Aquarius Man You Miss Him?

First, you need to consider why are you missing him in the first place. Is it because you never hear from him or never see him? Well, this might be a strong indication that he doesn’t actually share the same feelings as you… However, it is difficult to know with an Aquarius man because they are in general so unusual.

But, generally, I wouldn’t recommend telling an Aquarius man that you miss him. It is very easy to freak an Aquarius man out when it comes to your feelings and emotions. He might think that you are putting too much pressure on him.

He will detach and this will only hurt your feelings if you aren’t careful, especially if you just started seeing him. If you are in a long-term committed relationship then that is a different story.

You want to make your Aquarius man feel as little pressure from you as possible. Always lean back and let him come to you first.

How To Make an Aquarius Man Miss You — 7 Ways To Make Him Crave You

1. Your Song

You can gently plant a seed for your dear Aquarius man. Tell him what your favorite song is and make sure it’s something he’s likely to hear on the radio. Pick something that’s easy for him to remember.

It would be even better if you pick something by a band he already likes. If an Aquarius man is interested in you; he’ll think of you when he hears this song. He may not admit it to you but his mind will be on you.

If you’ve been dating awhile you can also say something like “This song reminds me of you”. Then every time he hears it, he can’t help but miss you. It will make him smile as well.

This is but one seed you can plant for the Aquarius man. Unlike the Taurus man, he’s actually one that WILL miss you if he’s truly interested in you.

There are plenty of ways to get an Aquarius man to miss you. Let’s continue!

2. Perfume Squirts

If he goes wild about a certain scent that you wear, be sure you carry a bottle with you so that when he goes to use the restroom, you can spray his sofa or bed with it.

Of course, if he hasn’t taken you to his place yet; find something of his you can spray some of your scents on such as his car, his jacket, etc. Whatever it is that you can get access to, spray it up.

Don’t spray a ton of it but just a subtle amount that if he catches a whiff when you are not with him; he’ll smell it and think of you instantly. He may not even realize that it’s the scent that has him thinking of you.

You surely had moments when a passenger leaves that same perfume scent as your guy, and you feel like he’s there. That particular scent might even activate those butterflies in your stomach, so why not use it as your tactic? It will definitely make your Aquarius miss you and think of you.

3. Be Yourself

In order to get your Aquarius man to miss you; be yourself. Don’t try to chase after him or send him endless texts. He will not take well to being chased. Remember that he’s a slow mover.

That means that he will want to take his time. You constantly trying to remind him of you or your existence will only irritate him and he may decide to let go of you.

If he’s already into you, he will miss you no matter what you do or do not do. The thing to remember is that the seeds planted that I mentioned, are very subtle. They’re not “here I am!” types of things.

If he likes you; he knows you’re there and trying to force yourself into his head isn’t going to work well. This is why I mentioned that if you spray your scent, do it lightly not in abundance.

4. Be Simple

Aquarius men want to take their time and make sure that they’re with the right person before they settle down. So when he’s not with you and you want to make him think of you, just relax.

Instead of sending him a bunch of texts; send him one simple one saying “Thinking of you” and then leave it at that until he responds. He may not respond right away. In fact, he may way hours or a day before he responds.

He wants to see if you’re going to still be there when he does finally get back to you. He also wants to see how you’re going to react to it. If you react like a jealous person or someone impatient, he’ll deem you as not being right for him.

Learn more about what an Aquarius man likes and dislikes in a woman here <<

5. Ask For Advice

If you want to talk to him without it seeming like you’re hounding him; ask him for advice about something going on in your life. This will allow him to do something he likes and help you at the same time.

He isn’t one to want to rescue damsels in distress but he does like giving advice. He’s normally really good at giving away ideas that can be effective. This will get him talking to you without seeming like you’re coming on strong.

You can text him something like “What do you think about this” and give him your issue. Again, he may not get back to you right away but when he does, he’ll be sure to give you some sound words of wisdom.

He will see that you’re interested in the intellect he can provide you and won’t see it as an intrusion nor will he see it as you chasing him. It will, however, get him thinking about you.

Here’s a mind hack that makes an Aquarius man text you first <<

6. Give Him Time And Space

For an Aquarius guy to miss you; he has to be apart from you. That means that it’s actually better for you to allow him to have time to himself. He’s a lover of his free time anyway so the more you give him, the happier he’ll be.

Think about it, if you’re together all the time or texting all the time; you never find time to miss one another. If you spend time apart and spend a day or two without texting or calling; you’ll miss each other.

Believe me when I tell you; the Aquarius man will miss you even if he doesn’t verbalize it. He isn’t the type to continuously reaffirm his feelings for you. If you’re the stable partner he seeks, you already know this.

Give him a reason to miss you! I’m not saying you should ignore him or dodge him. However, if you text him and he forgets to text you back, don’t ride him about it. He’ll see you as clingy or needy.

Aquarius men do not like clingy or needy women. This is important for you to know; you’ll need to respect his need for personal freedom. You’ll need to trust that he will do the right thing.

By having trust in him and letting him slip now and then when he forgets to call, you’ll find loyal and lasting love.

7. Be His Friend

An Aquarius man can freak out quickly if he feels that there is too much pressure on him to perform romantically. He likes to take things slow, so one of the best ways to get an Aquarius man to miss you is to act like his friend. 

This will instantly take the pressure off him and will make him wonder why you aren’t chasing him. This is why leaning back is always so important, especially with an Aquarius man.

When you mirror his behaviour he will start wondering what is going on and why you aren’t all over him all of the time. Show him that you are a chilled woman who won’t pressure him into anything he wouldn’t want. 

To get an Aquarius man to miss you, you need to be super casual, live your own life, and not focus on him too much. This can easily overwhelm him and make him feel like there is too much pressure on him to be something he might not necessarily be.

Check out the video below to get some more helpful tips on how to make an Aquarius man miss you:

FAQ On Aquarius Man Missing You

There are some common questions that might come up for you on your quest to find out if an Aquarius man is missing you. Hopefully, this should help ease any of the anxiety you might have if you want to know if an Aquarius man is missing you:

When An Aquarius Man Says He Misses Me — Should I Trust Him?

An Aquarius man is very clear in communication, so when he says he misses you, you should trust him. Aquarius men have no time for playing games or messing people around, so when he tells you that he misses you, he really does.

It also means that your Aquarius man likes you because he is being vulnerable to you. You can always trust an Aquarius man and his honesty. Sometimes his honesty can even become a bit much!

Will An Aquarius Man Tell You He Misses You? Or Is He Too Proud To Do It?

Don’t hold your breath to hear from an Aquarius man if he misses you. This guy can easily detach from his emotions because he gets so overwhelmed when he has intense feelings. He might tell you, but he might not, it all depends on the individual. 

You might even find that when you reach out to him that he sounds pretty excited and happy to hear from you. Which will confuse you of course. He’s a strange guy and you are going to have to get used to his quirks. 

Everything with an Aquarius man is very unconventional and out of the ordinary. If you’re looking for stability, then you are definitely barking up the wrong tree.

You may also want to readDark Side Of An Aquarius Man (9 Aquarius Man Negative Personality Traits)

How To Make An Aquarius Man Crave Your Texts…

It can be so frustrating to send your Aquarius man a text message and see “seen”… But then have no reply for hours or maybe even days.

Why in the world would he do this?

You might start feeling anxious or wondering if he even cares at ALL!

Unfortunately, a lot of dating advice written for men in general just WON’T work with an Aquarius. They are wired a bit differently than men of other zodiac signs.

And if you treat your Aquarius man the same as other men, you might lose him forever.

There are so many dating coaches that tell you exactly what to do when you text your man… And what NOT to do.

Unfortunately, their advice can REALLY backfire with an Aquarius.

And there are three specific mistakes you NEVER want to make when texting your Aquarius <<

I don’t want you to drive him away… Especially when it can be incredibly easy to capture his heart through text messages…

If you know what you are doing!

Don’t worry! I’ve got your back!

When you know EXACTLY what to text him… and what to NEVER text him… He will be putty in your hands. And he’ll make sure to reply to you quickly and lovingly.

Go check out the three insanely effective text messages that no Aquarius man can resist now so you keep him in your life forever <<



About Author

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

10 thoughts on “5 Clear Signs An Aquarius Man Misses You (And Tips To Make Him Miss You)

  1. I’m an Aquarius and I just wanted to say that this is incredibly accurate. I’m digging a Leo rn and I have a feeling she might have read this haha

  2. Aquarius female with an Aquarius Male & find this article & others of yours (Anna) to be quite true. I wonder are there many differences between the Male & Female Aquarians? As some of the articles I read about Aquarian men I can relate & identify to myself as well. Whereas other times I think ah nah that’s more just the Aquarian Male. However I feel that because of having the same sunsign some of these articles come naturally to me, as in giving my man space when needed, (as much as I am a social butterfly extrovert I also crave & love my alone solitude time to reflect/have time out/or work on self mind/body/soul) it’s just something we need to do We have deep mentally stimulating or intellectual conversations of interest. He tells me he finds me fascinating and vice versa. (First time we met we were hooked on conversation for ages) Both having mutual things in common from beliefs/values/morals/likes/dislikes/etc. Both of us being naturally friendly with a wide circle of friends from all walks of life world wide & generally caring for humanity and or standing up for rights of people/animals/environment is inherent in our nature. It’s true though that we do feel intense feelings/emotions just can be a bit more guarded at verbalizing/showing them as don’t like to show to much vulnerability & so can keep them under wrap/check instead of stating out loud sometimes due to fear that what we say may not be reciprocated &/or rejected/misunderstood. So instead it can come as an instinctual gut feeling/energetic vibe that is sensed intuitively/telepathically rather than stating the obvious feelings. Which can be hard to read for some people hense not knowing what they are thinking/feeling if not stated as one may need to feel secure verbally. The mental, physical and emotional connection is there, however I would have to agree that the “emotional” definitely takes longer to develop (just over 2yrs we have been involved now) & that the Male Aqua is a lot slower than the female Aqua in regards/terms to commitment &/or expressing their emotions, with them it can come more as a hunch/hints/actions/gestures instead. But if asked then the blunt truth will be stated. I feel the passionate love deeply & definitely the actions speaking louder than words as per say as not as much expressed verbally in a romantic way, although they can catch you off guard & have moments of tenderness & sweetness & if complimented it’s not so much i find to be on beauty/appearance even if you are a catch but more on talents/skills/intelligence & how amazing you are as a person instead mixed in with a bit of kinky sex talk ha ha. But perhaps that is just my situation/experience as an Aqua with another Aqua. I find we just get each other & there is a natural underlying understanding of one anothers unique eccentricities that other signs may not quite understand or think of us as weirdos as our minds are constantly thinking of a million different things at once that even we have to learn to switch off our brains & simply just unwind & relax in sensuality/pleasure/play to be at one with one another in the present moment with massage or sex being at the top of the list for feeling good activities ha ha regrounding energy coming back home as of our minds being up in the air dancing in the clouds/cosmos of time & space in ether ether land ha ha..

    1. Hi Natasha!

      Thank you so much for chiming in with your Aquarius experience and knowledge. I’m glad that you’re doing so well with your Aquarius man. It sounds like you two have the right recipe for romantic success. This is wonderful! Again, I appreciate that you took the time to write in with your experience so other women can read it. I appreciate your feedback as well! I wish you all the luck in the universe sweetheart!

  3. P.S I just realized after i submitted this comment above that i wrote this on the wrong article whoops lol as I read a few in a row.. Think it was personality traits of an Aquarius man I was thinking of..
    Ah well nevermind lol & thank you for your articles I appreciate your writing quality.

  4. I have been married to a Aquarius for 26 years, and all your books have been so helpful, and showing me how to continue and make our union stronger.

    1. Dear Vera,

      Thank you a lot. It’s comments like these that give me a sense of purpose and motivate me to continue sharing insights with women worldwide.

      Again, thank you from the bottom of my heart.


  5. He left home ,August, didnt say a word just didnt came back,left everythimg, walk with his close on and was it,didnt take any money ,doest talk to me since tjem,
    Because we have an argument and He think I hate his sister,dosent mater how many times I told him I not agree with her, does not mean I hate her, we were married for 7 years
    I very confuse I dont know what to do

    1. Hi Liliana,

      Don’t put too much energy into him and don’t go chasing him around as this is one way to scare him off for sure.
      The most important thing you can do is to choose you by showing up in a way that you can respect yourself.
      It can be easy to abandon yourself when you have feelings for someone, but take him off the pedestal and put yourself up there. It is important that you build your own confidence so that situations like this no longer shake you to your core because he will come back eventually if he doesn’t feel pressured.

  6. I’m a Scorpio woman married to an Aquarius man and I’ve had his coldness up to my ears. I want passion, long talks and happiness, and all I get is cool civility. I have waited on this man hand and foot, given him his space, stayed by his side during several life threatening emergencies – several hospitalizations and I am just treated like dirt. He ridicules everything I do for him and as soon as he recovers from his most recent illness, I’m packing him back to England so his grown children can deal with him. I have so much to give to the right man and am not wasting any more time with a loser who doesn’t realize what he has. I have written Aquarius men off my list – they are narcissistic bums.

    1. Dear Pat,
      I am sorry this happened. With such a combination of fixed sign, both Scorpio and Aquarius need to compromise a lot.
      If these two compromise, they could empower each other in ways that might change the world. They want when the other can give them, but they have a hard time unifying these powers. In other words, when compromise is missing, they usually drift apart.
      I hope you will meet a man who will be everything you ever hoped for!

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