How to Attract an Aquarius Man and Slowly Seduce Him

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
Learn the correct way on how to attract an Aquarius man, seduce him and keep him quite easily when you truly understand where he is coming from.

When you’re single and ready to mingle, and you find yourself a nice Aquarius man, all you have to do is a few simple things to impress him, and he’ll be wrapped around your finger. Do you wonder how to attract an Aquarius man? All you really can do is follow these tips and be yourself.

Be Friends First

How To Attract An Aquarius Man

Aquarius men do not fall in love quickly or easily. They are water signs, which means they tend to be fleeting. Aquarians don’t love commitment, but they love to have a large group of friends around them. This is the first thing that you have to remember when it comes to how to attract an Aquarius man.

If you can be friends with an Aquarius man before you date him, your future relationship will be one of the best ones out there. If you’re not friends with him first, you’ll try to get to know him, obviously, but with romance in the air, he’ll think you’re clingy, and that is the last thing they want in a person.

These men usually judge a book by its cover, so if you two are friends first, he’ll have the chance to get to know you and allow a gap in your friendship for love.

Aquarius men are free spirits and precise people. If you’re a bit of a mess and you’re ready to jump into a relationship, you probably won’t have all that much luck with an Aquarius man.

Aquarians will keep their good friends for life, and the bond they share will be on a new level of support and love.

Aquarius men don’t do too well in relationships because they are such incredibly deep thinkers and they’ll get lost in their thoughts and can go off the reservoir for days on end and the communication lines will go down.

In the early stages of a relationship, the other person may see this as the Aquarius blowing them off, but it’s quite the opposite.

Colors of Attraction

If you’re on a date with an Aquarius man, try wearing something turquoise. May it be the color or the stone, the creative expression of the color green and the rationality of the color blue will appeal to him.

Be Original

How To Attract An Aquarius Man

Aquarius men are creative and intellectual, and honestly, if he wants to go out with you, you must be these things as well.

Be yourself when you two are together, and he will see you for whom you indeed are. No good can come from a relationship built on dishonesty.

Be Independent

These men love to be free and independent, and they’ll enjoy a relationship with someone just like them in this aspect of their lives. Aquarians, in general, aren’t too big on emotions or expression, so being too intense or desperate will not appeal to him in any way, shape, or form.

Let him realize that you’re casual and easy-going. This will allow him to relax around you, and this will benefit you. Any presence of stress or drama will get your Aquarius man running.

Have Fun

How To Attract An Aquarius Man

A happy relationship is a good relationship in an Aquarius man’s world. They’re not the type to update their relationship status immediately (or at all) or put labels on anything.

He feels that your relationship is just that- yours; no one else’s to peer into. Enjoy each other and try not to be negative around each other. Constant negativity in a relationship will set you both up for a loss.

Being light and happy when you’re together will make him want to be with you more and more. Aquarius men always want to be around what makes them the most comfortable. This is another good point to why it’s better to be friends before you get into a relationship together.


Aquarians love to talk. They’ll talk about anything in the world if you can have a good conversation about it.

They are open books, too, so anything you want to know, you could ask and they’ll probably let you know.

Debating with them would give them a thrill and a rush of adrenaline. They love hearing other peoples’ opinions and learning about how other people see the world and the differences you and him share.

Be Creative

To get an Aquarius man’s attention, do something creative that he can’t help but notice. If you play music, offer him a lesson, if you write, let him read something you’ve written.

Anything you do that is even slightly creative, he will be drawn to it. Aquarians love to try to be creative, and most of the time they succeed at their goal, but many can’t even if they try, so get creative when you’re together, and you’ll always have good memories together.

Getting an Aquarius man’s attention isn’t too hard, but keeping him is a whole other story.


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Wishing you all the luck of the universe

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach

About Author

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

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