Is An Aquarius Man Fighting His Feelings For You? 7 Signs To Look At

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
Are you involved with an Aquarius man, and not sure where you stand with him? Wondering is your Aquarius man fighting his feelings? Here's how to tell...

Hello, my gorgeous angels! I hope you are all doing amazingly well on your journeys and finding it easier and easier to navigate the world of dating and figuring out is an Aquarius man fighting his feelings for you or not! I am sure all your newfound Astrological knowledge is definitely paying off!

You all must know by now how strange and unorthodox Aquarius men can be when it comes to expressing their feelings. An Aquarius man fighting his feelings is definitely something quite common, this is simply what they do because emotions tend to really confuse them.

These guys are very logical and analytical, often trying to make sense of their own emotions rather than fully embracing them. They will often try to think their emotions away as they are much more comfortable in the realm of logic and reason.

This makes it quite tricky to gauge if an Aquarius man even likes you or not, right? So how do you know where you stand with him? So, is an Aquarius man fighting his feelings for you? Keep reading to find out…

Why Do Aquarius Men Hide Their Emotions?

Based on research about emotion suppression, masking emotions can deeply impact physical and emotional health. Here are some interesting points that may help you understand him a bit better and find out why an Aquarius man may be hiding his feelings.

What you need to understand about an Aquarius man is that they value their independence and freedom above all else. They are often afraid that expressing their emotions will make them vulnerable or dependent on someone else. 

They also tend to be quite guarded when it comes to their feelings, as they fear being hurt or rejected. It is much easier for them to have friendships than it is for them to get emotionally involved in a romantic relationship. 

It stresses them out too much and makes them feel locked in a cage that restricts their freedom. However, an Aquarius man’s heart isn’t made entirely of steel and they are definitely capable of developing deep feelings for someone. 

However, an Aquarius man denying feelings is definitely not unheard of, let’s explore more…

7 Signs That An Aquarius Man Is Fighting His Feelings For You

He Keeps His Distance

If an Aquarius man is fighting his feelings for you, one of the signs to look for is that he keeps his distance. It will feel like he is avoiding you at all costs and making a conscious effort to create space between the two of you.

This behavior may stem from his fear of becoming too emotionally invested or vulnerable. This is not something he is used to, and this can freak him out seriously. The pressure to conform to traditional masculine norms has led many Aquarius men to believe that showing vulnerability is a sign of weakness.

As a result, Aquarius men may resort to distancing themselves emotionally in order to uphold a facade of strength and self-reliance. This is his defense mechanism to try to stay strong and independent, even if it means suppressing his true feelings for you.

He Acts Indifferent Or Aloof

Another sign that an Aquarius man may be fighting his feelings for you is if he acts indifferent or aloof towards you. He may have been very invested in you at one stage of the relationship, but suddenly starts to act distant and uninterested. 

He can go from really hot, to icy cold. This could be his way of protecting himself from being hurt or rejected, but he may also just feel really uncomfortable actually having feelings for someone. This can be incredibly difficult for him to admit. 

He likes to be emotionally detached as this makes him feel in control and avoids the possibility of getting hurt.

He Avoids Deep Conversations

Although an Aquarius man is quite intellectual and likes to have interesting conversations. Sometimes they tend to avoid really deep and emotional conversations as this makes them feel uncomfortable and vulnerable. 

When an Aquarius man fighting his feelings for you, he may avoid having deep conversations that involve emotions or personal connection. This can be a way for him to keep his emotional guard up and prevent himself from getting too close to you. 

The Aquarius man may steer conversations towards more impersonal topics, such as current events or intellectual discussions, rather than delving into personal matters. He is doing this purposely to create distance and maintain his emotional boundaries.

He Becomes Distracted Or Preoccupied

If an Aquarius man fighting his feelings for you, he may become easily distracted or preoccupied. This could manifest as him being constantly busy with work or other activities, always having an excuse for not being able to spend time with you or he may keep interactions with you brief and superficial. 

Whenever you talk to him you will quickly notice that his head feels like it is elsewhere and he is not fully present in the conversation. It may feel like he is constantly looking for an exit or a way to escape from the situation. 

He does this as a way to avoid confronting his feelings and the potential vulnerability that comes with them. It is very easy for him to distract himself and numb out than deal with what he is feeling for you.

He Gives Mixed Signals

An Aquarius man fighting feelings for you may give mixed signals. You will notice that one minute he is hot and affectionate towards you, showing signs of interest and attraction, and the next minute he is cold and distant. 

The signals he gives you will be very confusing and you won’t know where you stand with him which will make you feel frustrated and uncertain about his true feelings. An Aquarius man may send mixed signals through his actions or words, leaving you unsure of how he truly feels. 

This can lead to a lot of anxiety and stress in your relationship with him, as you try to decipher his true intentions and feelings. When you want clarity from him, he may avoid giving direct answers or providing vague responses.

If you’re struggling with how to get the closest possible emotional, physical, and spiritual connection with an Aquarius man, I strongly recommend checking out my 30-Day Love Challenge With an Aquarius Man. It will set you on the right path with your Aquarius man.

He Avoids Physical Intimacy

One of the biggest signs an Aquarius man fighting his feelings for you is that he avoids physical intimacy. He may be hesitant to engage in physical affection, such as hugging, holding hands, or kissing. And when it comes to sex, you can forget about it. 

He will try to avoid this at all costs and may come up with various excuses or reasons to avoid intimate moments. This can be a result of his fear of emotional vulnerability and getting too close to someone. 

Being in a romantic relationship can feel very overwhelming for an Aquarius man due to their fear of losing their independence and individuality. It is the part of himself he holds most tightly to, and allowing someone else into that space can be terrifying for him.

He Disappears Or Goes MIA

Another sign that an Aquarius man is fighting his feelings for you is when he starts disappearing or going MIA. An Aquarius man is probably the guy to have invented ghosting in the first place. When he is struggling with his feelings, he may withdraw from communication and disappear for periods of time without any explanation. 

This can be incredibly frustrating and hurtful, as it leaves you feeling confused and rejected. When an Aquarius man does this it often means he has checked out and trying to find other things to distract himself with, rather than facing his feelings head-on. 

This pattern of disappearing and reappearing can be a defense mechanism for an Aquarius man to avoid getting too close and potentially getting hurt, but that shouldn’t excuse this bad behavior.

You may also want to read: Aquarius Man Disappears And Comes Back — Now What?

How To Get An Aquarius Man To Admit His Feelings

If you want an Aquarius man to admit his feelings for you, it’s important to approach the situation with patience and understanding. Romantic relationships are really challenging for Aquarius men due to their fear of losing independence and vulnerability. 

They may have a difficult time acknowledging or expressing their true feelings, even if they are deeply attracted to you. This is why you need to relax and be patient with him, perhaps approach him as a friend first to build a strong foundation of trust and emotional connection. 

This also takes the pressure off him and allows him to feel more comfortable opening up. It is important to create a safe and non-judgmental environment where he feels free to express himself without fear of losing his independence.

You may also want to check my recent blog post on how to get an Aquarius man to open up emotionally.

FAQs On Aquarius Man Denying His Feelings

Why Is Aquarius So Emotionally Distant?

Aquarius men tend to be emotionally distant because they value their independence and individuality, but also because they are highly logical and rational in their thinking. Emotions can be pretty difficult for them to grasp. This is why they tend to be so aloof and detached. It is just easier for them not to feel too emotionally invested in people.

Here’s how to deal with an Aquarius man who is distancing himself.

Should I Express My Feelings To An Aquarius Man?

When you want to reveal your feelings to an Aquarius man, it is important to approach it carefully as he can quickly get the ick and want to disappear. One approach is to indirectly express your feelings through actions and gestures rather than directly stating them. 

It can be difficult for an Aquarius man to respond directly to words of love or affection, but he may be more receptive to your feelings if you demonstrate them through your actions and behavior.

This can take the pressure off and create a more comfortable environment for him to reciprocate those feelings. But take things slow with him and allow him the space to process his own emotions.

How Do You Know If An Aquarius Man Likes You But Is Hiding It?

It can be challenging to know if an Aquarius man likes you but is hiding it, as they are known for being emotionally reserved. But that doesn’t mean an Aquarius man doesn’t feel anything for you. 

When he hides his feelings he will probably display some subtle signs of attraction. Like still want to spend time with you and engage in intellectual conversations. He may also reach out to you to try and find out how you are doing. 

If there is a constant back and forth of communication, and he makes an effort to keep you in his life, it could be a sign that he likes you but is hesitant to express his feelings directly.

Is Your Aquarius Man (Still) Avoiding Commitment?

Does your Aquarius man pull away or get quiet when you’ve just had a deep emotional connection? Does he seem to disappear just when you thought he was getting closer? Have you felt confused by his hot and cold behavior?

If so, then he might have an avoidant attachment style.

He could be Dismissive Avoidant and completely terrified of commitment… Or he could be Fearful Avoidant and REALLY want commitment, but get scared when he feels himself getting closer to you.

If he has either one of these attachment styles, you’re going to end up feeling extremely confused at times.

And both are caused by childhood trauma.

When you can see the scared little boy inside him that had to shut down his feelings if he’s dismissive avoidant… Or have a parent not provide his needs consistently if he’s fearful avoidant…

It can make it easier to have empathy and compassion for his confusing and frustrating behavior. 

But that won’t fix it.

And while advice on attachment styles can be helpful…

What you really need to stop this frustrating hot and cold cycle is to understand him better.

Thankfully, there is a simple system to TRULY understand how he ticks based on his astrology. It will stop him from pulling back when you begin feeling closer. And it will accomplish this in only 30 days.

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So no more crying yourself to sleep when your Aquarius man pulls back… No more feeling incredibly confused. And no more wondering what in the heck is going on with him.

Even if he has an avoidant attachment style…

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About Author

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

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