Aquarius men can be a bit skittish about love. How can you make him fall without him feeling pressured? By asking the right questions!
Aquarius men can be hard to get. They take a long time to trust and feel comfortable with someone. They don’t like to rush, and when they do, they regret it and want to backtrack to something slower if they can.
If you are trying to win the heart of an Aquarius man, you need to talk to him the right way and ask him the right questions. Keep reading to learn my top five questions that make an Aquarius man fall in love!
5 Questions That Make an Aquarius Man Fall in Love
1. “Where is your favorite place to travel to?”
The Aquarius man needs to know that you are up for adventure. Knowing you are willing to travel and go see new places will excite him. Most Aquarius guys love to travel and do things that make them feel alive.
In getting to know your Aquarius guy, this is one of the top questions you need to ask because it will help you understand what he likes to do for fun and what types of places he likes to go to when he can.
It will help you to look into those places and things so that you can figure out how to squeeze yourself into a possible trip with him in the future. This especially works when he realizes you are totally interested in being his traveling companion.
He loves a spontaneous woman who will surprise him and catch him off guard. Asking him this will put a smile on his face. He will be thrilled that you are actually interested in knowing his most favorite places.
This may lead to good stories he has about having gone to those places or how much he wants to go to places he hasn’t yet been. And it opens up opportunities for long discussions that will make him feel comfortable with you.
Give it a try, and I think you’ll be rather surprised by the response you get from him — especially if you share places you’ve been and experiences you’ve had as well.
2. “Do you mind if I go out with my friends tonight?”
This may seem like an odd question. But it’s not about asking for permission. This is about being considerate and letting him know your plans.
An Aquarius guy doesn’t want to control you — in fact, he’ll be happy you’re going to do something outside of your relationship with him. He wants you to have a life of your own.
He wants you to spend time with your friends, family, or by yourself. It allows him to do the same thing, so it’s a win/win situation. Giving him his personal freedom is absolutely crucial, as is taking your own.
No, not all Aquarius men want a lot of free time to themselves, but many of them do. It depends on what else may be in their chart to determine whether they are the type to be together often or the type to be together moderately.
But they do appreciate when their lady has a life of her own except in very rare cases. At that point, stand your ground, and if he can’t handle it, then he’s not the one. The right Aquarius man will fall madly in love with the independent woman with her own life.
3. “What would you most like to know about me?”
While you shouldn’t tell him everything about you up front, you should allow him to pick out something that absolutely intrigues him about you and talk about it.
He definitely has questions. All Aquarius men do.
If he isn’t asking you any, then you need to prompt him; otherwise he cannot get to know you and will lose interest. You have to keep that interest and get him to fall for you by making sure he knows important things about you.
Be sure to ask him questions about himself as well. You need to know him, and you need to know what you can use to reel him in better. Knowing each other inside and out helps develop a strong bond and the love you really want.
4. “What is your deepest desire in life?”
For your Aquarius man to know you really care about him or are even falling in love with him, he needs to feel like you care about and support his dreams.
Ask him about what makes him most passionate in life. What drives him? What makes him feel alive? These are the things that he wants to tell you about but waits for you to ask.
He doesn’t want to tell you too much because he’s a bit of a private person and he has to trust in order to open up. That being said, you can actually get him to start opening up to you by asking him these questions.
So why not dig just a little bit? He may in turn ask you the same thing, so be prepared.
If he doesn’t, offer it up anyway. He wants to know — he may just need a nudge!
5. “What are your thoughts on…”
The Aquarius man wants to talk, and he’s most open to talking when you ask him something like this. You can ask about the news, what’s going on with the world, his thoughts on movies, music, etc.
Whatever you find exciting about him, ask him more on the topic. He will be excited that you are digging in. It shows your dedication and effort.
This will help him to see you as a loving, giving, and supportive woman who will always be there for him. This is what he wants!
Remember, this man wants to relate to a woman on a very cerebral level.
Pro tip: He also loves women who are unique, so don’t be afraid to dress differently than everyone else.
Let your unique self shine with your Aquarius guy. He will absolutely love you for it. The more original you are in your questioning, the more curious he’ll be about you!
These are all very easy questions to ask and will delight your wonderful Aquarius man. It’s not wrong to probe his mind. This is especially true when you know he’s full of interesting knowledge — as most Aquarians are!
Be yourself and show him who you truly are, and don’t wait for him to tell you things or ask you questions. Get in there and saddle up! Talk to him.
Simply ask him about things that are important to him, and he should respond.
If he didn’t find you amazing, then he wouldn’t be dating you. Just remember that. Aquarius is rather picky, so when he starts seeing someone, it’s because he really enjoys her and sees something special.
He loves your beauty both inside and out. He also loves how you treat him and who you are when you’re with him.
Did you get an Aquarius man to fall in love with you? Or do you have go-to questions for a new partner? Share your story or questions in the comment section below (don’t worry, it’s anonymous). I’d love to hear from you!
Wishing you all the luck of the universe.
Your friend and relationship astrologer,