May is a magnetic and charismatic month with a few different energies in store. There are many ways you can catch his eye and certain things you should also avoid. Overall, this is a great month to understand the Aquarius man better, connect with him on a sincere and mature level, and find common ground. Read on to discover the best ways to do so!
How To Attract An Aquarius Man In May 2021
1. Respect His Need For Space
Firstly, the Taurus energy is making him retreat and introspect a little. Aquarius is emotionally detached anyway, and a month where the ruling sign is not as compatible or harmonious pushes him into a self-protecting space. He needs some space, in other words.
Taurus is sensual, feminine, receptive, and magnetic, and the Aquarius guy doesn’t always know how to handle this. He is masculine and extroverted in nature – electric too. While the Sun is in Taurus, he is feeling slightly uncomfortable and certainly less free to be himself. Let energy flow as and when it’s needed.
Assuming you are in a social gathering, that is… He is very perceptive therefore he may feel more inclined to observe and perceive. The Aquarius man has a brilliant mind, he is extremely bright with amazing skills in observation and analysis. He is virtually always connected to his higher mind which includes higher reasoning, problem-solving, and analyzing everything.
Your best way to attract his attention is to play on his need for a psychological bond. While he is in need of his space, Taurus season makes him more attracted to a magnetic type of intellectual and mental bond. Think in terms of telepathy and extrasensory or supernatural forms of psychological and intellectual union.
You can really win him by showing him you are both intelligent and spiritually perceptive and evolved. You should have something a little ‘extra,’ a little bit of “oomph” and stunning charisma about you. If you don’t, at least project the image that you do!
2. Believe In Yourself
Although he may seem quiet and more silent than chatty, he is still looking for a woman with confidence. His perceptive and observational skills are on point making him able to read you like a book.
In fact, he is so wise and ‘on it’ this month that not much can get by him. He will see and think out your desires, beliefs, body language, tone of voice, intelligence, emotional maturity, and everything above and in between. Confidence and self-esteem without resorting to arrogance or self-righteousness are key factors in your level of attractiveness this May.
There are many gaps for subtle energy and impressions to seep through… Taurus is already established as a feminine and magnetic earth sign. This signifies there is a lot of receptive energy in the air. There is power in silence! The best thing you could do is to focus on yourself, in a healthy way, and reflect on the social image and persona you wish to project.
Set your tone and vibe, in other words. Aquarius will pick up on it and you should know he is looking for an independent, self-assured, and self-expressively confident woman.
3. Suggest You’re A Free-Spirit
The Sagittarius Full Moon and Lunar Eclipse on the 26th brings some amazing energy into the mix. Aquarius is already open-minded, individualistic, and idealistic as it is, and the Sagittarius Moon and Eclipse amplifies these qualities. Free-spiritedness wouldn’t be received badly.
Now, this isn’t implying to be immature or so flirty that you come across as unfaithful or promiscuous, just let him know at some point – even just once – that you possess the “free-spirit DNA” strand. (Okay, we know there isn’t actually a DNA strand called this, but everything is frequency and vibration, right…?!)
Show him you’re independent and self-sovereign, and open to a good time. Aquarius is so fun-loving, flirty and playful too. They have a lot of energy and passion for life. The Sag Eclipse is highlighting two specific areas for him: his need for play and light vibes, and his idealistic and visionary self.
Let conversation flow when you’re connecting on an intellectual or psychological level. This ‘tip’ is specifically true for the latter half of the month, from the 20th when the Sun enters Gemini thus making it Gemini season. Earlier in May he may need some space to reflect and observe, but when Gemini season hits, he comes alive once more.
Feel and share in the excitement, talk about the universe and planets, the cycles of the Moon and Sun , and esoteric and spiritual themes. Seek to expand his mind and spirit by refreshing your own wisdom and knowledge basis. Converse about magic and the spiritual life force that flows through every living thing…
4. Let Him Know You’re Ambitious
And, don’t be scared to let slip that you have an ambitious side. Share your plans for the future. Tell him about your goals and aspiration, or your long-term plans and business ideas. This man is deeply attracted to energy and optimism, so ambitious and drive tell him that you have passion.
Learn from this month’s Lunar Eclipse sign too. The Archer, ‘aka’ Sagittarius, possesses vision and a sense of purpose. This sign likes to dream big and see the large picture, to connect to their higher and future self for abundance, prosperity, and success in the future. The Archer literally shoots his arrow to aim for better and higher things.
Many Aquarians make excellent actors, musicians, speakers, entertainers, and so forth. Depending on this specific Aquarius’ career and personal path, there is bound to be some form of connection available. Let your knowledge, strengths, and talents shine.
5. Romance Can Make You Or Break You…
Now is the perfect time to research your compatibility. If you know anything about Astrology already, you will know that Taurus (the current season, until the 19th May) is incredibly romantic and sensual. Earth and water signs tend to be. Yet, Aquarius isn’t so much, and he is further aloof when it comes to emotions and depth of intimacy.
If romance is essential to you, then you will definitely be feeling the vibes of the month. This means that you hold the power, so it’s up to you to master the art of giving and receiving, magnetism and electricity, and emotional connection with intellectual vibing.
The level of affection and softness you show can literally make you or break you! Fine-tuning your intuition will help you greatly this month, as will learning how to observe and read people and situations the way Aquarius can. Never sacrifice yourself to please a man, however do be mindful and conscious of the balance required to make him interested in you.
Final Thoughts & Key Astrological Transits
My Aquarius Man Secrets will unveil more on what you need to know for success in love. The Lunar Eclipse and Full Moon in fiery and compatible Sagittarius is a great start to a new connection and potential relationship.
You can also find a few key moments of attraction in the first half of the month, when the Sun is in magnetic and yin (passive/introverted) Taurus. It’s all about quality over quantity at this time, therefore let your inner brilliance shine! Be yourself.
Wishing you light, love, and all the luck in the Universe on your journey!
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,