Every month the planets change signs and affect our relationships. Depending on the planetary movements, you may not always understand the needs and desires of the Aquarius man. However, there are simple things that you can do based on the monthly energy to improve your relationship with the Aquarius man. Find out how to attract an Aquarius man in March 2020.
Attracting an Aquarius Man in March 2020
1. Keep it simple.
You may already know that the way to an Aquarius man’s heart is through his mind. Yes, he enjoys the idea of falling in love, blatant honesty, and those who truly know the meaning of independence.
But with Transit Venus in Taurus highlighting his 4th house of family, home, and security, the Aquarius man may be more turned on by financial freedom, a secure home foundation, and quality time with loved ones than a sensual date downtown.
In astrology, Venus says a lot about what the Aquarius man will want and need out of a relationship. Venus shows what he likes, the way he approaches relationships, the way he gives and receives affection, the type of woman he is attracted to, and his emotional relationship to material possessions and money.
Where Taurus is devoted and constant, Aquarius is detached and open to change, although they are both fixed signs, they are vastly different.
Because of this, Aquarius won’t be attracted to women who are unnecessarily extravagant. Being the bearer of truth, he doesn’t need the fluff, he wants to dive straight in and see what’s underneath.
If you want to attract an Aquarius man in March 2020, then you need to take a calm, cool, and collective approach, especially if he’s already told you what his focus is at this time.
Transit Venus in Taurus can be very possessive and demanding, and he won’t like this. You will need to show him why you are even worth him coming out of the house and having a good time.
The way to do this is through his mind.
If you aren’t aware of his interests, beliefs, and philanthropic causes, then you need to educate yourself; the last thing you ever want to do is bore him.
Another way to take spark interest is to go directly to him. If it’s okay with him, show up at his doorstep with his favorite foods, wine, and he’s bound to unwind.
Just remember to keep things simple. He doesn’t want chaos or complexity. If you bring chaos into his life, he will swiftly retreat. Letting him know that you are interested without overwhelming or annoying him is key.
2. Respect his values.
Although Aquarius men have the reputation of being unconventional, heartless, and emotionally detached lovers (which they can be). They can also be extremely generous, faithful, and tolerant partners who will always make sure that he is there for you, even if it’s on a platonic level.
Above all else, the Aquarius man values independence and self-reliance. He is not the man who will ever make you choose his happiness over your own; he wants you to be happy no matter what.
With the Sun in Pisces highlighting his second house of values, income, and personal possessions until March 18, he may be more creative, affectionate, and self-aware than normal.
Being a fixed air sign, the Aquarius man is always looking for new ways to acquire more education and understanding for the world around him. Pisces encourages him with this by helping him to be more humanitarian and open to serving others.
For the Aquarius man, respect is an action, not a word. Luckily for you, he will always give his Lovers the rundown of what he does and does not appreciate, and it’ll be left up to you to listen.
If you do listen and respect his values, then you have an opportunity few get the luxury of experiencing; he will willingly let you inside his heart, soul, and mind — a rare sighting for the Aquarius man.
Even with the Sun in Pisces bringing more emotions to the surface than the Aquarius man would like, you should still use March 2020 as an opportunity to get to know him for who he is at his core, and not just his strong mind and values.
3. Take things slow. Let him open up to you.
In astrology, Mercury says a lot about how the Aquarius man processes, receives and sends information on an internal and external level. Mercury shows us things like how he expresses his emotions, how he processes thoughts, how he perceives life, and what he wants to communicate to the world at the current moment.
With Transit Mercury completing its retrograde cycle in Pisces and Aquarius on March 9, Aquarius men are more sensitive, vulnerable, and shockingly expressive than normal.
It’s safe to say that the Aquarius man seems colder than he is warm, but that’s just a defensive illusion.
What few may understand is that the Aquarius man does feel emotion; he just naturally represses them.
Although you will want to take this personal, don’t. Lashing out and responding emotionally will only trigger him to crawl deeper inside himself. If you want to know how he feels about you, then let him open up. He will tell you when he’s sure.
At the beginning of March, when Mercury is still retrograde in his sign, he may seem more focused on his past and his future than his present, but this will pass.
Instead of forcing him to be more romantic and affectionate, be his friend. Ask him if he needs anything or how you can help.
Aquarius rules the house of friendship, so relationships always feel more natural when a strong friendship is the foundation of your love.
Even though friendship is not what you essentially want, it’s what he needs at this time. With Venus in his 4th house of Home and the Sun and Mercury in his 2nd house of values and personal income, responsibility is on his mind, and he doesn’t need or want the extra stress.
So take things slow. Take a step-by-step approach and build things organically with patience and time. Things will start to move forward when the Sun moves into Aries on March 18.
Unlike other air signs, Aquarius is not in a rush. He is more self-disciplined and focused than his air counterparts Gemini and Libra. This energy is even more intensified in March 2020.
4. Give Aquarius space to heal and reflect.
For the Aquarius man, a relationship is more than just a title or commitment. For him, love is constant action, something that must be watered again or again, or it will naturally take its course.
With Transit Mars in Capricorn highlighting his twelfth house of ending, seclusion, loss, and solitude until March 30, the Aquarius man may be taking his healing, rest, and reflection more seriously.
In astrology, Mars represents how the Aquarius man desires affection, sex, and how he will respond to the expectations set by his Venus. With Mars in a cardinal earth sign like Capricorn, he will want more consistency, recognition, and reliability in the area of his life that Mars is transiting.
With Mars settling into his ending sector, he may not be too intrigued to start a new romance; he would rather pour back into himself.
But that doesn’t mean you can’t let him know you’re interested. But you don’t want to feel like you’re stalking him either.
So what do you do if you still want to communicate and spend time with him? You let him know. But don’t be disappointed or lash out if it wasn’t the time you were expecting.
If you are already in a relationship with the Aquarius man, March 2020 is the perfect time to get away and unwind. However, after a period of hard work and grit, he may not be as open to your sexual advances, so if he says not tonight, let it go.
Mars in Capricorn in his twelfth house makes him feel limited and confined, he won’t feel like he can study or share on the level that he’s accustomed to.
This may seem trivial to you, but security and independence is everything for the Aquarius man, so be understanding and let him heal in whatever capacity he needs to.
If he truly cares for you, you’ll be the first call he makes when he’s ready to come back out and play in April when Mars moves into his sign and first house of self.
If you really want to attract an Aquarius man in March 2020, you need to prioritize his independence. It’s the only way he knows how to love.
Take a moment and reflect on all the ways that you will attract an Aquarius Man in March 2020. What in this article helped you most? I’d love to know!
Let me know in the comment section below.
Your friend and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach
I’ve been with an aquarius man for 6 years. We had one break up for about a month. I didn’t like how he was treating me, so I walked. He really opened up to me after that. He can be very blunt at times. He helps me with stuff I can’t do myself. We are best friends. I think that is why we are still together.
Hi Mary Beth!
That is fantastic to hear. If you two are best friends then becoming very close lovers is also a beautiful thing. You two are building a bond and you’re understanding him on a level no one else can. I’m happy to hear that you’re getting it all nailed out for the two of you. I wish you all the best! If you’d like to know more about Aquarius man, you may want to read my book “Aquarius Man Secrets” for more helpful information.
Hi Ann. Im a capeicorn, and divorced from a 30year not good marriage with a pisces last year. Finale made the move to stop, and i am so happy. Since then, i have Met 4 aquaeious men on different friendship levels /attraktion levels, and what tou write about aquaeious just hits the right points for every one.
And – they are all Four men, that i find it so easy to communicate with and get attracted to.
The three first were mostly practise in communicating in s Way that suite me as Well. This 4th one, is a former “lover/flirt” from 20 years ago, and i really hope, we still might find the right Way. So thank you for your march prediktions. We Will meet up first time on march 10th.
Kind regards Marianne Kjær nissen, Denmark
Hi Marianne kjær nissen
It sure sounds like you’re attracting Aquarius for a reason since you’re in contact with 4 of them. I would bet in your chart, you have something that requires Aquarius or another air sign. Either way, keep doing what you are and I wish you all the very best. If you’d like to know more about Aquarius man, you may want to read my book “Aquarius Man Secrets” for more helpful information.
Hello Anna, I’m a Sagittarius I’ve been getting to know an Aquarius man since the end of October. In the beginning things were great and he would always say things to me like “ you’re so amazing, where did you come from I can’t believe you’re real “ etc.. he even opened up to me many times about things that he felt emotionally in his personal life that troubled him. One day he just went ghost when he came back he confessed that he really likes me and doesn’t want to ruin what we have but he’s invested in someone else at the moment. I told him it was fine that he’s single and so am I so I’m not trying to forcefully time him down. I thought things were Fine until he continued to go ghost then come back almost every two weeks when this would happen I won’t lie I would dump my emotions into him which I’m sure scared him away at times. But he would say it was okay he likes when I express myself but then he would ignore me when I tried to confront him. We went to high school together but never really spoke then, ever since we’ve come into contact again we’ve spent time together once. He’s very confusing with him emotions one moment he says he can’t believe how great out connection is then the next he’ll say that he can’t really go further emotionally because we haven’t really spent much one on one time together. But every time I offer to see him he’s unresponsive, recently he agreed to see me for his birthday when the day came he ignored me and when I tried to confront him about it he’s ignores what I say and comes up with an excuse. I really like him and when he is responsive the chemistry is incredible but I feel he’s being really unfair and everything he says he hates like selfishness, hypocrisy, not meeting people half way are alll the things he does to me. I tried to confront him again yesterday because he just ghosted me again I might’ve come on too strong so I told him I’d fall back because I don’t want him to feel like I’m drilling him ( probably too late for that) I’m not a prideful person I have no problem admitting my flaws I know I do come off too strong with my emotions sometimes but I just want him to be more honest and clear with his intentions. But he’s being really stubborn and I can’t tell if it’s time for me to give up. Your guidance would be much appreciated
Hi Kiana!
It sounds like your Aquarius isn’t really sure what the heck he wants and until he figures it out, he’s going to keep going back and forth like this. You’re going to have to tell him to crap or get off the pot with you. Either he chooses you and you can build something over time OR he can cut you loose so you can move on with your life and find someone who wants what you do. If you’d like to know more about Aquarius man, you may want to read my book “Aquarius Man Secrets” for more helpful information.
I really liked all the tips given in this article. Actually an aquarius man is about space, taking life into more practically and avoid being admissible to his feelings. So, I will surely be following these tips in the coming month to win him over.
Hi Tania!
It’s great you take these tips seriously. Aquarius man just like to let things flow naturally. He doesn’t like to be rushed and yes, he loves space. Communication is important too because without, things fall apart. Remember that! If you’d like to know more about Aquarius man, you may want to read my book “Aquarius Man Secrets” for more helpful information.
Your books, postings, have been spot on in helping a strong, independent Scorpio woman tiptoe through the minefield of an Aquarius man relationship. So far it’s lasted a year, been extraordinarily delightful, and it would probably have been impossible without your guidance. Thank you!
Hi Denise Farris!
Bless your sweet heart! I am so happy to hear that my articles have been helping you with your Aquarius man relationship. That’s important to me and I love to hear that kind of feedback! If you’d like to know more about Aquarius man, you may want to read my book “Aquarius Man Secrets” for more helpful information.
Knowing about his independence and respecting his values. I have experienced all that you say about this man. I understand that the key is silence and having the ability to wait with patience.
Hi Kimberly!
How wonderful! I’m glad you’re heeding the advice. It’s always a better thing to have patience with an Aquarius. They are in no rush and they know what they like. Getting to know him over time is typically the best thing you can do. Thank you for reading my material! If you’d like to know more about Aquarius man, you may want to read my book “Aquarius Man Secrets” for more helpful information.
I wish I could afford your book for Aquarius Man. I have had a relatrelationship with an Aquarius man for 31 years. We have been off an on again at all different stages through out this time.
I know that I have loved him and he has loved me in a way neither of us can describe. He will always have a piece of my heart; however, it was not till very recently I realized that I am in love with him. I do not know if I should share this with him or not. The key to us has always been respect and honesty. To a point i feel if i dont tell him what i have discovered about myself i am lieing to him through omission And it is so hard, because i am so afraid that if I give in fully he will turn away from me or worse yet let me know he does feel he could love me completely.
Reading this article makes perfect since. He just came out of a relationship that was not healthy at all. I know he needs to heal from it and I don’t ever want to be second best or be a back up to him. His relationship with this person has greatly effected our friendship and has damaged my trust in him. We both have committed to work on getting back to our free flow because both have expressed a fear that all that has happened in the last 3 months while he was with this other person may have altered our personal relationship beyond repair.
Any guidance can help at this point. At a time when I am finally true to myself and my inner feelings it seems the most dangerous time to give in to my heart. I am so afraid to lose what and who we are and sacred to even hope. If I do not find some type of resolution I know he will sense that something is off in me and he may take it as me hiding something and I would lose him before I could even fight for him.
Hi Heather!
You’re going to have to keep moving forward, keep working at it, have patience, and communicate openly with him. I know sometimes that may seem hard but honesty is the best you can do. When you want to know something about him or how he’s feeling, ask him. He typically won’t say unless you ask. Give it a shot. If you do find the money you may want to get more help. If you’d like to know more about Aquarius man, you may want to read my book “Aquarius Man Secrets” for more helpful information.
Hi, I’m an Aries. I came across an Aquarius man on a online meeting in 2017. As always, every relationship at the beginning is beautiful and amazing, as well as intriguing to get to know this interesting man. We never met IRL, he was always busy, or simply avoid the topic or went radio silence.
This story goes like this: I spotted him when he was among other people, it was like if he stood out crowd, after that, something he said caught my attention so I contacted him through a social media network. To my surprise, he was curious to see me so we had a video-call the day after. I remember he didn’t ask me how I was, he just said “Talk about yourself”. I felt that was kind of rude because in my country, by the way I’m from Latinamerica, we are prone to greet people. Then I thought he could be shy, anxious or something like that so he forgot to say hi. That was the beginning to justify his bad ways to treat me until I fed up with his tough manners, coldness without any reason. From time to time he seemed he was sorry for what he said, he showed up with a story or a picture disconnected from everything.
Time has passed and often I felt I was took for a fool. I have a list of things he did: one day he was here and then he was gone; one day he said I should have assessed myself first instead of him and then he said he wanted a baby; one day he said I don’t trust on him and then he offered me to work for him on a project he had. In the world of sane people if someone doesn’t trust on the other person it doesn’t make any sense on talking about having kids, he said that several times and I didn’t find any explanation so far. Having babies is a serious topic to talk to a woman, it is a topic to talk to face to face rather than through social media. And when I called him to talk I asked him where this relationship was going and the he yelled at me on the phone like a boy trowing a tantrum saying I didn’t trust on him so the conversation took another way and I wasn’t able to talk about having a baby. I had a horrible and dreadful moment, I felt sad and miserable. If that was his goal he had it. Thought several months I asked myself some questions: Is he insane or what? Is he playing games? What does he want? Why he keeps contacting me? Does he enjoy treating bad people?.
Because he tested me, I tested him too: I started to I see him like if he was a jigsaw puzzle so I began to pay attention to his behavior and test him: “What happen if is do, say, this or that: I played the role of the victim, the self-assertive and self-confident person, I ghosted him for weeks as well and he was always coming back. Three weeks ago he offered to work for him again, I asked him if he was going to pay me. Of course he said no, he said he approached me to “collaborate”, I asked myself how can I accept to work or collaborate after treating me so bad? I sill testing him now I make him believe I’m too busy to chat him or collaborate on what he wants. I made up and excuse that I would be busy until April 30th. Honestly, I don’t mind if the feel bad or whatever. I don’t mind either if he is now telling me the truth or he wants to open up or if the regrets doing me horrible things. I don’t know what he wants either. He is such a mystery what makes me curious too. I do find useful this blog and I understand why he builds walls to conceal his emotions.
Hi Mary!
Do not play any more games with him honey. That’s not really healthy nor does it build a strong relationship. The first thing is you two need to meet. Having an online thing really doesn’t do much for people when they aren’t even face to face. Once you do meet up and then you talk online, it’s a bit different. You two need to see if you have actual in person chemistry before you go any further. Once you do meet up, you’ll know whether you should hang on or let go. If you’d like to know more about Aquarius man, you may want to read my book “Aquarius Man Secrets” for more helpful information.