The Sun enters Aquarius on the 19th of January. Combined with the recent New Moon and Solar Eclipse in compatible and harmonious Sagittarius on December 14th, this is a very positive month for the Aquarius man.
We always feel more in tune with our true selves during our birthday month, so if your potential mate is born in January he will be feeling in high spirits and full of zest and inspirations. Being the first month of the year, therefore a ‘number 1’ month in Numerology, new beginnings are on the agenda.
Let’s look at the best ways to attract this guy in January.
How To Attract An Aquarius Man In January 2021
1. Be Quirky And Unique
Aquarius characteristics and qualities are amplified from the 19th of January. Aquarius is ruled by Uranus, the planet of awakening and transformation, aka ‘conscious rebellion and originality.’ This is the most peculiar and original star sign who loves the weird, wonderful and wacky.
Metaphysics and esoteric subjects, creative genius, imagination and open-mindedness are all associated with the Aquarius sun sign, and if you want to attract this man you will need to be open-minded – at the very least!
Show your ‘odd’ and weird side, but don’t overdo it- be yourself and be peculiar in an intellectual and intelligent way. Colorful, charismatic and fun personalities favor well with Aquarius, even more so when the Sun is in their own sign. Converse about a range of subjects, anything that comes to mind, and do so with the awareness that this man loves music, art and nature.
Aquarius is associated with the sublime, the ability to transcend the physical realm through music, art and evolved states of consciousness. Due to the ‘shadow’ (dark/negative) trait of Aquarius being emotional aloofness, you may want to consider putting on some blissful and euphoric music and simply chilling with him.
This man loves to relax and unwind, and showing him that you are happy to simply ‘be’ in his company without demanding too much from him will score major points.
2. Don’t Be Overly Emotional Or Needy
Looking at the Aquarius sign’s compatibility may be a good way to find out what to do and what not to. Aquarius is compatible with Aries, Leo and Sagittarius (the fire signs) and Gemini, Libra and other Aquarius’. Ultimately, they don’t favor well with emotional or needy signs, like Cancer or Pisces.
This Aquarius man is capable of depth, although this does grow over time and with familiarity; but during the getting to know each other stage, any displays of deep emotions or affections will be responded to with rejection.
Don’t take it personally, and certainly don’t change your true character (many men love depth and intimacy, like Taurus, Cancer, Scorpio, and Pisces!). Just be mindful that such levels of emotional depth scare him, he will literally withdraw and retreat.
3. Show Him Your Different Dimensions
Contrary to the last point, Venus is in Capricorn all January which implies he will be more open to depth and intimacy than usual. Capricorn is an earth sign representing structure, security, commitment and physical foundations.
Venus, of course, is the planet of love, romance, beauty and sensuality – sexuality and luxury/pleasure too. Don’t go in full force, but do show him there is a part of you that is open to commitment and something long-term with substance.
Aquarius sign is one of the most community oriented of the Zodiac signs. Humanitarianism, altruism, empathy, and genuine care and concern for the planet and the humans and animals that reside are great topics to discuss. The way you show your openness to commitment and connection with longevity can be done in synergy with the core Aquarius qualities and personality traits.
This man wants a life partner who shares his interests, values and passions. There is a sense of mission and service with this guy, many people born into this star sign become charity workers or work in humanitarian aid, animal welfare, environmentalism or social and support work. If you can appeal to his empathic and altruistic side you will automatically be considered as someone worthy of soulmate potential.
4. Show A Sense Of Humor!
One thing many people don’t know about the Aquarius personality is that they can actually be quite shy and sensitive. He comes across as confident and charming, yet deep down there are issues in self-esteem and the ability to connect with others. This is largely due to being emotionally detached, aloof and socially indifferent at times.
So, laughing at his jokes is essential to catch his interest. His ability to feel a spark stems from feeling a connection on the mental and intellectual planes. If you resonate with his sense of humor, you are compatible; this is the way he views companionship.
Wit and laughter in addition to seeing past his sullenness are wins. His moments of moodiness or withdrawal are him secretly making sense of his emotions and inner feelings, but without wanting to show it.
The key with the Aquarius man in January is to be sensitive to his needs and insecurities without letting on that you can see into his soul. Be compassionate and kind while keeping things positive and light!
5. Kink And Bizarre Fantasies Are Turn Ons For Aquarius Man
This is one of the kinkiest men of the Zodiac – sexual fantasies and exploring sensuality in a wild and liberated way are common with Aquarius men. They are romantic when they want to be, but they are not fearful of fantasies and whips, chains and sex toys! Kinkiness is integral to their nature.
Don’t be shy of incorporating some dark humor or 18+ topics into your conversation. Stimulate their mind without seducing their body, and let them know how open you are to sex and intimacy. You don’t have to diminish your class or self-respect to attract him or to be in tune with your sexuality. Seeing things like this further adds to your sense of compatibility in his eye.
Finally, when the Sun is in Capricorn until the 18th you may want to tone down the ‘kink’ and connect with him on a romantic level. He will be feeling more in tune with his emotions and sensuality during this time, therefore more romantic and in touch with his body and instincts. Make subtle and small gestures and keep romance and affection to a minimum.
Final Thoughts & Key Astrological Transits
From January 19th, the Sun is in this guy’s own sign. Aquarius season means a focus on communication and intellectual connection, conversing about a range of topics and keeping things upbeat and light-hearted.
There is a lot of ‘color’ associated with the Aquarius mind; intellect and self-expression are strong and an upbeat approach is favored over deep emotional bonds.
Spirituality and philosophy are great topics to discuss all month whilst his humanitarian side really shines in the later part of January. All in all, this is a wonderful month for fresh starts and new connections. He is feeling flirty, friendly and creative.
Be sure to check out the Aquarius man secrets to find out more!
And let me know which of these tips you found most helpful to score your Aquarius guy. The comments are totally anonymous!
Wishing you love and light on your journey.
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,