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Are Aquarius Men Jealous? Find Out Here

Getting an Aquarius man jealous is probably one of the most difficult things to master. These men are pretty impossible to manipulate because they can be so aloof and detached. 

It may often feel like an Aquarius man doesn’t have feelings for you because he doesn’t really display his affections that openly. However, it is very important to remember that Aquarius men love their freedom and independence, and they probably just want the same for you – this is why it is very hard to make an Aquarius man jealous. 

But that doesn’t mean it is impossible to do… You just need to know what his trigger points are. Just remember this man doesn’t like mind games and you should be wary of this before embarking on trying to make him jealous.

If you’re interested in learning more about Aquarius men and how they approach jealousy, then this is probably a good starting point. Read this article to find out more.

Are Aquarius Men Jealous?

Out of all the Zodiac signs, Aquarius men are definitely the least jealous of them all. These guys are too focused on their own life to really care what anybody else is doing. 

They believe in freedom and independence above everything else, so why would an Aquarius man ever be jealous? This can make it frustrating for some women because it may feel like your Aquarius man doesn’t care for you when he doesn’t show signs of jealousy. 

Maybe this is a better and healthier kind of love… Who knows? 

Do Aquarius Men Get Jealous Easily

It is almost impossible to make an Aquarius man jealous, of course, it is possible, but it definitely doesn’t happen easily. He just isn’t the possessive and obsessive kind of guy. 

Aquarius wants freedom and independence and he wants the same for you. He wouldn’t want to be with a woman who gets jealous easily as it feels like his freedom is taken away.

The closer and more serious you become with your Aquarius man means that he may start showing signs of jealousy, but this might take months even years to accomplish. 

“Jealousy can be ugly, but understand where it comes from.”

How Do You Know If An Aquarius Man Is Jealous — 4 Subtle Signs

When you’re not entirely sure if he’s just being distant or if he’s upset about something, it might be wise to know what the signs are of him being jealous, so you don’t mistake it with something else.

1. He Becomes Detached And Aloof

In the event that he is jealous of someone or something that has happened in the past, he may remove himself from you for a while.

Obviously, the easiest thing for an Aquarius man to do would be to pull back and take some time away from you, so that he can figure out what is going on in his mind and whether he wants to continue forward with you or not. Let him do this so he can understand he is being ridiculous.

It is quite normal for the Aquarius man to react in this way. If he hasn’t physically pulled back, he won’t talk much around you if he’s in your presence. There may be a bit of normal behavior without a lot of talk from him. This just shows he is in his head. 

Related: Why Is An Aquarius Man Distancing Himself?

2. He Pretends Like Nothing Is Wrong

Due to his inability to accept what is, he doesn’t want to say the wrong thing or appear weak. He will not want to talk about what is wrong when you ask him. He’ll pretend like everything is all good. This is most common how does Aquarius act when jealous.

It is unlikely that you will be able to pry information out of him about what he was upset about or why. It won’t take long for him to open up and tell you, but there’s nothing you can do to force him to do so. And don’t force him, this will only irritate him. Find out why an Aquarius man may be ignoring you…

3. He Suddenly Acts Extremely Nosy

Possessiveness might appear where it had not before. In contrast, before, he was fine not knowing where you were or who you were with. Now he suddenly might be full of questions about what you are doing and with whom.

He may also want you to text him when you arrive home, at work, etc. The security of knowing you’re not visiting some other guy on your own time is important to him. He’ll want to know who you are spending your time with if isn’t with him. 

Learn more about the possible reasons why an Aquarius man pulls away.

4. He Is Trying To Make You Jealous

Another disturbing possibility is that you see him conversing with other women. Whether it’s in person or online, he seems to be trying to make YOU jealous by keeping his options open.

It’s not something he does often, but it’s possible, so beware. If a man becomes jealous, you never know how he may react, and it really depends on what or who caused it. It is impossible to know what anyone’s trigger points may be. This is an Aquarius man jealous and possessive.

Up next: The Signs An Aquarius Man Is In Love With You.

What To Do When An Aquarius Man Is Acting Jealous

You may have noticed that your Aquarius man is acting a little jealous at the moment, here are some ways to help you cope and curb his jealousy:

Spend More Time With Him

Something you need to realize is that his level of jealousy will really depend on you and who you are. If you are a big flirt, then he may not dig that too much. If you’re a pretty dedicated woman, then he may not worry so much.

He is an independent man who loves being with a woman who is much the same. Spending time together is amazing as is spending some time apart from time to time.

Yes, I know that an Aquarius man loves his freedom and independence, but sometimes he needs reassurance too. Make some time for him and let him know that you are all his.

Give Him Some Space To Figure Out His Own Thoughts

He needs that release to do his own thing. He will totally appreciate it if you do your own thing as well. This is something that is healthy and wonderful for a relationship with an Aquarius man. 

Dating an Aquarius man isn’t the easiest, but if you know what he’s like, you’ll be able to figure out what to do and what not to do. Jealousy isn’t something that comes up in him easily.

His independence teaches him that to be with a partner and still have a certain amount of freedom, there has to be trust between them. If there is no trust, there is no way to rely on each other.

Give him some space and recognize that he is in a weird spot at the moment. He’ll quickly realize that he is being silly and see the error of his ways. So don’t pressure him in changing, just let him be for a while. 

Be Open And Honest With Him

Always be honest and true with your Aquarius man. Tell him like it is, tell him where you’re going and who you are going with. He will love you offering that information up.

This allows him to trust in you and not have to worry. Ask him to do the same as it’s fair for you both to do it not just one of you. If you live together, you can keep up a dry erase board to remind each other of your plans.

Make lots of plans together so that you two can bond and enjoy your time. The more you two do this, the more trust can build. Aquarius isn’t normally insecure but they can be if they are with someone they aren’t confident in.

Always show him respect and love. He will do the same for you and will be less insecure about you relationship. 

Give Him Comfort When He Needs It

The Aquarius man in love wants to feel comfortable and secure. Try giving him lots of affection and loving attention. He’ll appreciate how much effort you put into being with him!

Let him have his time to himself when he needs it and always be open with him. If you hid anything or try to keep secrets, he will know it and he will likely bust you with it.

Don’t give him any reason to be jealous. If you think that he’s not paying enough attention to you, it’s not wise to do something that which would make him feel jealous.

Once you do that, he may think you’re not worth the effort anymore and he may drop you. Be very careful with how you treat him. It’s often better to tell him you need more of his attention and time than to try to hurt him.

Jealousy will feel like a head game to him and he will not want to play that game. He will want to move on and be with someone who will not do this sort of thing. 

How To Make An Aquarius Man Jealous — 4 Flirty Ways To Win His Attention

Act Non-Chalant Towards Him

Your Aquarius man will instantly be attracted to you if you act like you don’t care! It shows him you’re an independent, strong woman who probably has other men lining up for you when you act like you don’t care about him and what he thinks. 

It’s important to remember that Aquarius men are naturally detached, so he’ll want to chase the thrill of the relationship rather than settle down. It is all about the game for him. Anything too straightforward is boring. 

Don’t Pay Him Attention In Company

If you want to make your Aquarius man jealous, another tactic you can use is to be friendly, sociable, and helpful to others, but not to him. As a result, he will beg for your attention and you will gain power in the relationship. He won’t understand why everyone else has your attention while he doesn’t. 

Furthermore, when you are friendly to others but not to him, you are directly detaching your energy from him so that he misses you more. Seeing you not positively interacting with him riles him up and makes him angry and jealous.

Be Openly Flirtatious With Others

One of the most common and effective tactics is to show him how positively you interact with other men. It is an effective way to rile him up since you are showing him you have many options and are not concerned about hurting him. 

Playing cards with other men while not giving a damn will make him insanely jealous. Flirt with other men and see how he reacts! I promise this will drive him crazy, but don’t flirt so much that he thinks you are no longer interested. 

Go Deep With Another Man

Aquarius men enjoy deep conversations. Talks that will have different fascinating topics. Even if he doesn’t show it directly to you, if he ever sees you having that kind of intellectual stimulation with someone he will be jealous and angry at the same time! He’s the only one he wants you to do this with. 

If you are having fun without him, it shows you are unworthy of him in a relationship! Furthermore, he will be more likely to go after you if he thinks he’s wandered a bit from you if you have a deep conversation with him. 

Trying to fake it or be ingenuine about it will only make things worse between you and your Aquarius man. He needs to see that you can hold off witty and intelligent conversations with other people and that you can easily connect with someone else – not only him.


Are Aquarius Men Controlling?

Aquarius men may love their freedom and independence, but there is a side to them that can be incredibly controlling. Especially with their romantic partners. This is because he is a fixed sign ruled by Saturn. 

An Aquarius man has very high standards and a lot of rules they live by and they expect this from their partner as well. He really isn’t as happy-go-lucky as he may seem. 

Structure and routine are extremely important to an Aquarius man and this is what makes him so controlling. 

What Makes An Aquarius Man Insecure?

An Aquarius man is likely a lot more insecure than you may realize, but not for the reasons you may think. He is not your average guy. The things an Aquarius man is insecure about is likely things to do with the future of the planet and humanity. 

Romantic relationships aren’t going to be too much cause for worry in his life, unfortunately. The things he cares about most are his friendships and goals in life. He wants to achieve great things and puts a great deal of pressure on himself to make this happen. 

What Is An Aquarius Man’s Weakness In Love?

When an Aquarius man meets the right woman he will do absolutely everything to keep her. His weakness in love is a woman who understands him and accepts him for who he is completely.

It will take a remarkable woman to make him weak in the knees, but the qualities he is looking for is a woman who is independent, strong, unique, supportive, and understanding.  

This is a man who is looking for a woman who can hold her own next to him. She needs to be out of this world and understand him on many levels. 

How Do You Know When An Aquarius Man Is No Longer Interested?

It is pretty easy to see when an Aquarius man is no longer interested in a woman. He will simply stop engaging and withdraw his energy completely. He will not put any effort into her. 

His aloof and detached nature will become even more so and it will be like talking to a brick. He will stonewall you and stop responding to you at all. He is also the type of guy to ghost you. It will be fairly obvious that he no longer feels the same way about you, unfortunately.

If Your Aquarius Man Pulls Away, DON’T Do This…

I’ve heard from so many of my clients that their Aquarius man is AMAZING when they are in person with him…

So charming, sweet, funny, and really connected!

But he can tend to pull away when you’re not with him.

It’s a super frustrating situation for any woman. And if you are like my other clients who have been through this, you’re probably feeling REALLY confused.

“Why is he so hot and cold through text?”

“Why does he back off when we aren’t together?”

And most importantly…

“What can I DO about this?”

First, I want to share the things you definitely should NOT do in this situation…

  1. Don’t get clingy or needy and ask him if something is wrong or beg to see him
  2. Don’t force closure if you’ve had some conflict. Wait until you can talk in person about important issues. Text can EASILY lead to miscommunication.
  3. Don’t assume that there IS a problem. He could just be really busy.
  4. Don’t let fear drive your actions. Assume the best and not the worst.
  5. Don’t chase him. Chase your dreams and goals instead.
  6. Don’t stalk him on social media. Give him space.
  7. Don’t get upset with him or freak out. This will only push him away.
  8. Don’t ignore him so he can “see what it feels like.”
  9. Don’t get needy, jealous, or beg for reassurance.

So what SHOULD you do instead?

  1. Take some time out to reflect on the situation and consider logical reasons for his actions.
  2. Date other men if you aren’t exclusive. Don’t lock yourself down with him if you aren’t yet in a committed relationship with him.
  3. Give him space and time with zero pressure. He might be overwhelmed with work or not be feeling well. 
  4. Focus on your own life. If you don’t have an epic life filled with hobbies and time with friends or family, you need to build that.

Your Aquarius man should be the sprinkles on the cupcake of your awesome life, not the cupcake itself.

  1. Let him reach out to you when he’s ready. Aquarius men like to lead. You need to let him do that!
  2. Be supportive. If you haven’t heard from him in a week (or a even day if you text every single day no matter what), ask if he’s okay. And offer to be supportive if he’s going through a challenging time.
  3. Communicate what your needs are, but avoid any blame or shame.
  4. When your Aquarius man comes back, welcome him lovingly with open arms. If you are angry, he’ll want to run.
  5. When you are in person, let him know (kindly) the things that make you feel valued and adored.

Text can be challenging, and I don’t want you to feel alone in this.

I don’t want you to lie in bed unable to sleep because you are worried about why your Aquarius man is pulling away.

And there is no need for you to do that.

Especially when I can guide you on how to deeply connect with his heart through text messages… 

Because when you know SPECIFICALLY what to text him based on his astrology… 

He WON’T be pulling away anymore.

And you’ll never again have to worry about what to say to your lovely Aquarius man through text anymore.

Go see what I mean here now so he never pulls away again.



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