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7 Secret Ways an Aquarius Man Expresses Love

We all have our own ways of expressing love—and they aren’t always obvious to our partners. Aquarius men can be tough to read, especially when your love language isn’t the same as his. These 7 hints will help you figure out whether his behavior is indicating his affection for you!

Independent, progressive, inventive, charming, witty—these are all characteristics that showcase how the delightful Aquarius man expresses his love!

As the third and final air sign in astrology (Libra and Gemini are the other two), Aquarius men are typically very wise and very well spoken. They naturally have an easy-going, humorous personality.

However, because they are ruled by the element of air, which means they like to think, read, and communicate, it can be hard to interpret all the secret ways he likes to express love. 

But it’s possible if you know his heart—and astrology has that information.

For example, you may not consider buying a sustainable compost bin for your kitchen an expression of love. But to the progressive Aquarius man, his thoughtfulness and consideration for your green footprint is a testament to his true feelings for you.

To help you attract, build, and maintain a relationship with an Aquarius man, here are seven secret ways an Aquarius man expresses his love.

7 Secret Ways an Aquarius Man Expresses Love

1. He Calls You His Best Friend

I know hearing the words “best friend” come out of the mouth of the man you’re pursuing is nerve-wracking, but when the Aquarius man calls you his best friend, I promise it is coming from a place of truth and unconditional love.

To this friendship-oriented air sign, a strong foundation and genuine affection for each other is necessary if you expect the relationship to last longer than a week or a month.

So the next time he expresses how much he admires and appreciates your friendship, take it as the compliment it is. He is showing you love

2. He Gives You Space

The last thing you want in a relationship is someone to give you too much space, but when it comes to the Aquarius man, independence and freedom are a huge element of love. 

Often distant but always close by, his frequent escapes typically have nothing to do with him wandering to see other people, but they do have everything to do with him finding space for his individuality and self-expression.

When an Aquarius man loves you, he will give you the same space and freedom he so deeply desires.

Because in his head, this is another way of expressing his affection for you while also building trust.

3. He Challenges Your Ideas

As you may already know, Aquarius men can sometimes be men of very few—but wise—words. 

Being a fixed air sign, he is naturally opinionated and isn’t keen on petty conversation or trivializing thoughts.

Therefore, if this assertive and kind soul challenges your ideas or playfully provokes you during conversation, do not be easily offended. 

Sarcastic wordplay and inquisitive nature are among the secret ways he expresses his love.

4. He Surprises You

One of the best perks of dating an Aquarius man is experiencing his kind heart and imagination. 

Very much like his sister sign, Leo, he enjoys performing romantic gestures for his partner on special occasions. 

However, as a Uranus-ruled man, the Aquarius guy has a quietly spontaneous nature. He finds pleasure in planning a little surprise that keeps a smile on his partner’s face. 

Whether it is whisking you away to a private island retreat for a weekend or buying you tickets to your favorite event or movie—or even leaving a note in your lunch bag—the Aquarius man will shower you with his secret surprises.

5. He Brings the Passion in the Bedroom

As obvious as this one may be, it is important that it makes the list. Because in my career as a relationship astrologer, I have seen that Aquarius men often do not get enough credit for their skills in the bedroom!

Observant, skilful, generous, and creative, the dutiful Aquarius man is attentive in the bedroom. It is one of the only places he will let his vulnerable love nature show.

Therefore, if he shares his sensual side with you, be mindful that you are getting secret access to a part of him that most women will ever know. Enjoy it!

6. He Makes Time for You

Secret Ways an Aquarius Man Expresses Love - He Makes Time for You

Community and service are important values to the purpose-driven Aquarius man, and he does not allow anything to get in the way of that.

So if the Aquarius man is taking you on dates consistently, communicating with you consistently, doing what you ask him to do consistently, etc., consider yourself a lucky woman because this silent loner can be hard to pin down — let alone on a frequent basis.

Even if he downplays his commitment to you, I’ve found that his effort always showcases how he truly feels. Being present will always be one of his secret love expressions.

7. He Introduces You to His Family and Friends

No matter how friendly and outgoing the Aquarius man may come across, he is still a very private person. 

When it comes to relationships, he likes to take his time and make sure the connection is genuine and honest. Because as a sign associated with truth, he needs to know you are legit before he commits.

Naturally, meeting the people he loves the most is reserved for those he is serious about. 

So, if you get to meet mom, dad, grandma, and favorite childhood cousin, he’s sharing with you the secret chambers of his loyal heart. 

Read next: How to Get an Aquarius Man to Open Up and Share His Feelings

Final Thoughts

Now that you’ve read the top seven secret ways that the Aquarius man shows love, have you experienced any on this list? 

What are some ways that the Aquarius man has expressed his love for you? I’d love to hear from you in the anonymous comment section!

Wondering if you and your Aquarius man are compatible? Take my free love compatibility quiz and find out now.


Sending you lots of love on your relationship journey! 

Your sister and friend,

Anna Kovach 

6 thoughts on “7 Secret Ways an Aquarius Man Expresses Love

  1. He is super protective over me. Whether it has to do with someone upsetting me(if I cry he’s ready to kill someone), the possibility of me getting hurt, or even me making a stupid decision.

    Also yes I’ve experienced most if not all of these. Hell he’s let me stay at his camper with him for almost 2 weeks and we are almost always together. I know him better than a lot of his family. I know things he hasn’t opened up to anyone about. Reading this article just makes me feel honored.

    1. Hi Anonymous!

      How wonderful! Thank you for writing in and sharing this. I am always so happy to hear success stories and that my articles really drive things home. Keep your Aquarius guy sweetheart. He sounds like he’s perfect for you. I do wish you the best and if you ever need any other pointers, please check out my books on Aquarius Man Secrets. It may give you some information you didn’t know already.

  2. Hi Anna, idk if you’d reply to my comment but I need your information about my confusing Aquarius guy. I’ve been single since 2017 then I met this guy through our friends when we attended a wedding party in February, we’ve been talking since that. He seems liking me a lot in the first 2 month, he said he has good intentions with me and wanted to get to know me, he texted me everyday, wanted to hangout with me, invited me to his friend’s wedding to met his friends and also wanted me to meet his family as well but I didn’t want to, it was just too fast for me bc I was in the phase “let see where things go with him”. We weren’t in a relationship but we acted like one, texting everyday meeting once a week but he never tells me about his feelings whether he likes me or not, so I thought he wasn’t serious and just wanted a fling which is I don’t like like bc I prefer being in a relationship. We had like a friend with benefits kinda relationship but without sex and until one day in April he wanted sex and persuaded me to do it but I didn’t want to. I thought he went too far so I ended things with him and somehow we became close again that time I know he just used me bc he wasn’t sweet like before only text me when he needs me but I do still respond to him bc I already catch feeling even I wrote him paragraph about how I feel about him but I got no response from him that made me feeling so heartbroken. I tried to move on but he came back after 3 weeks to apologize saying he doesn’t mean to hurt me or leave me. So what does he want from me? It’s really confusing. Should I stay or leave?

    1. Hi Debby!

      I think you clearly need to define for him what it is you feel about him and what you want. Let him tell you what he wants. Either you will be on the same page and actually slowly initiate an actual relationship or you will want to walk away so you can keep yourself open to be loved by someone else. Make it really clear so that a decision can be made on your part. Whether you stay or leave is going to be up to you and based on the reply he gives you as far as what he actually wants. I wish you all the very best!

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