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How To Get An Aquarius Man Back

So you’ve lost your Aquarius’ heart, and you need to get it back. Everything you need to know about how to get your man back is here and in the stars.

It’s all about why things happened, and how you can get him back without seeming too clingy. Keep reading and find out how to get an Aquarius man back.

The Reasons Why

How To Get An Aquarius Man Back

If you and your Aquarius man grow apart and you don’t want it to, you have to work pretty hard to get him back. Aquarius men are a great catch, but it’s easy to drift away from them.

Aquarius men are super distant people, and sometimes it can seem like it’s your fault. It’s probably not anyone’s fault. Aquarians are extremely independent and like to be on their own most of the time. There’s a long list of things you can do to upset your Aquarius man, so try not to be shocked if you grow distant.

Once you’ve realized that you potentially made the worst mistake of your life by leaving an Aquarius man, the only way to get him back is to converse.

Talk to each other about important things; make him feel like he’s in control because if there’s chaos in a situation, the Aquarius will stay away from it at all costs. Once you have his mind, you will also gain his heart. Keep the conversation alive and let him know why you want him back.

Do’s and Don’ts

How To Get An Aquarius Man Back

While you’re conversing with him to try to win him back, just stimulate his mind. You don’t have to be talking about physics or the existence of the human race, but just let him know that you’re interested in the conversation, and show you care about the topic. Be passionate, and the conversation will be fulfilling.

Aquarius men usually leave when there’s too much emotional drama around them, this is a big factor in the kind of relationships they have with people.

Aquarius men love spontaneous gestures, so do something exciting together. This will let your Aquarius man know that you are actually a fun person and you can have a good time with him.

One thing to steer clear from when trying to date, or trying to get back with, an Aquarius man is talking too far in the future. This can mean anything from dinner plans to marry. Aquarians don’t typically like planning and scheduling their lives.

The one thing that will tip an Aquarius man off is talking about the future of your relationship too soon. Again, they don’t like planning things too far in advance, and they are total commitment-phobes.

If you’re planning a date with an old Aquarius flame, obviously do something you both like, but do something you know will make him ecstatic. If you get an Aquarius man in a good mood, there’s not much he’ll keep hidden from you. The more fun you have together, the closer you two will get.

Put it to the Test

How To Get An Aquarius Man Back

Of course, no two Aquarius men are totally identical, but the common ground they share is that you’ll have to understand him and love what he loves.

Going deeper into their Astrological chart, you can find out more about them and how they act and feel. This will give you a better insight into who they really are, and you’ll be able to see if you would want to be with a person like that.

To get back with an Aquarius man, both parties have to be willing, and for that to happen, they have to be in sync emotionally with each other.

Though Aquarians don’t typically show how they’re feeling most of the time, it’s not to say that their hearts do not bruise and break.

They are the type of people you would give your heart to, and they will keep it safe on their own. They will protect you will all that they have if you both are willing.

Now that you know everything that can happen in a relationship with an Aquarius man, you’re set to get him back. Your hearts together may break, bend, and shake, but you cannot stay away from each other.

Aquarius men are some of the best people you could ever be with, so if you just so happen to let one slip through your hands, this is how you can get them back to loving you.

Conclusion

Do you know how to get an Aquarius man back? Let me know!

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Wishing you all the luck of the universe

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach



29 thoughts on “How To Get An Aquarius Man Back

  1. My Aquarius and I have been dating for seven years and very much in love. He caught me cheating and has not talked to me since. Is it hopeless to get him back? I have sent him letters apologizing and I have sent him a card every week as encouragement for healing. He even talked about the future, was very affectionate, showered me with gifts. However, he recently lost his mom and is on workers comp, amidst my shenanigans. I’m very remorseful; he doesn’t even want to see me. Is there anything I can do?

    1. Hi Dilly!

      If he lost his mother, he’s grieving and it’s not anything to do with you. If he is dealing with sadness or any other stresses in his life, he will put love on the back burner because he’s not capable of dealing with love at the time. I think if he responded well to you showering him with cards and words of encouragement then that’s good. Be patient with him and let him work on himself. I think you’ll find he may come back around and be ready for you when he finds the healing he needs.

  2. My aquarious ex has left me. He said he got some other girl he also send me pictures of them together he don’t even want to talk to me. He is staying distant he don’t even care he is thinking that I have cheated on him because I didn’t let him check my phone he is too busy for me he said its over and he is not interested but when it comes to being physical he is ready but only interested for being physical Is there anything I can do I am really confused and depressed

    1. Hi Tia!

      While he’s with another girl then there isn’t much you can do. Sending you photos of the two of them together is so that you will stop trying to get him back. Give him what he wants. Ignore him and let him go. If he really loves you he’ll leave her and come back to you but until that happens, you have to let go and try your best to move on. Maybe in the process of letting go, you’ll open up your heart to someone else who will show you the world on a platter!

  3. I’m Leo and he is aquarius and we have been dating for 3 month and I fall in love with him and we spent a good time in his place ! But I did mistake I crossed his boundaries I interacted him because of I drunk I try to talk to him a lot of times and he asked me to give him space and I can’t wait to see him and talk to him to ask apologise but I did mistake again I go to his place with out his permission and he really angry at so I do have lot of material in his place and he is didn’t give me back my makeup!! But I don’t know we will gonna be together again??

    1. Hi Meron!

      I think you need to give him some time and space. You’re not going to get anywhere by trying to chase him. Aquarius men don’t like being chased. Try letting him be. You can send a tester text once a week or once every two weeks to say hi and ask how he’s doing. Maybe by giving him space and time, he’ll actually miss you and want to talk to you. As far as your things, tell him you need to gather your things when he’s available to. He should let you. There is no reason to hold onto your stuff.

  4. I was with my boyfriend for 10yrs. During that time everything was perfect! Then things to changed for the worst. He was always working never seemed to have time for me so i started to get lonely.. one night out on the town an to many drinks later i end up cheating on him. He forgave me but from there our relationship ended up spiraling down even more. He still continue to work long hours I talk to him time in over in time over again letting him know that I was very lonely and I needed his attention. It seem like he could make time for other things like friends, his mother, going out of town with his friends but never me. Now recently our break up was awful we were only away from each other for about two months there wasn’t very much communication between the two of us. I thought that he needed time to figure things out I thought we were going to talk things out but never happen come to find out he bought a house. Leaving me in the home that we once shared together. I don’t know how to deal with this situation I thought that we were going to get back together. I never thought that I would lose him completely. I don’t know what to do.Do i still try! Do I continue to give him space do I reach out to him please help me!

    1. Hi Tonya!

      I would say that due to the way he was treating you and not making time for you, he was already on his way out the door. He didn’t want to tell you as to upset you or make you give him a hard time about it so he was quiet, kept working, and kept doing anything he could not to be around so that when the time was right, he could bail. I’m so sorry you experienced this with an Aquarius man. If he’s given up like that then he’s most likely not into getting back together. Unless he changes his mind later. If you’d like to know more about Aquarius man, you may want to read my book “Aquarius Man Secrets” for more helpful information.

  5. Hello,
    I wanted to get your input. I’m not sure what to think of my Aquarius boyfriend. We’ve been together for over two years, and as of recently he’s been unusually distant. And stoped saying I love you. And when we would text he seemed to be mad for some reason. Then out of no where he said our relationship hasn’t been the same and that it’s boring, and that he wants to take a break. He also said he’s been super stressed as of lately. Of course I was devastated, but also confused. He wasn’t very clear, we didn’t discuss how long this “break” would be. This happened a little over a week ago. But everyday for a week since that happened he’s texted me everyday, and even wished me a happy birthday. He also asked me if I wanted to hangout. He’s giving me mixed signals, and I’m not sure what to do. I’ve been giving him space, but I want to ask him where we stand. I really want to be with him, if you have any advice at all I’d greatly appreciate it.
    Thanks so much

    1. Hi W.!

      Sounds like he got bored but is looking for another way to make things exciting again. By pulling back and not having any pressure, he’s trying to “date” you again and see if he can’t find the magic that was there in the beginning. Go along with it. He might surprise you. Just relax and enjoy! If you’d like to know more about Aquarius man, you may want to read my book “Aquarius Man Secrets” for more helpful information.

  6. Im a sagg and I was just left by an Aquarius man. We went on a date 4 years ago and I wasnt really into it but we followed each other on social media and discussed random topics via message at any given time, he tried asking me out on a second date throughout the years and I always politely decline. This year he came to do his taxes with me and sent an edible arrangement right after, I accepted his dinner date this time howver I had just gotten out of a long distance relationship and he knew that. In getting to know each other I learned that he was very interested in me and even spoke to his family about me, and told me he wanted a future with me. I got comfortable and even spoke about marriage and would sleep over his place almost every day. Out of nowhere he became so distant and stopped answering my calls. 6 days after not hearing anything he finally texted me and said that he hasnt reached out because he was waiting to snap out of it but he hasnt and that he would get me back the stuff I left at his house but that thats not what he wanted in trying to close this. That im amazing and hes just been out of it and he cant appreciate getting everything hes ever wanted. He apologized for not getting back to me sooner. My reply was that thanks for letting me know and as far as the stuff were in quarantine and he can just dispose of them and that I hope he finds what he wants and that no hard feelings. He still looks at my stories on instagram. I want to get him back but I dont want to text and be ignored or come off as clingy.

    1. Hi KiKi!

      Ok you would not come off as clingy reaching out to him. In fact, he may be waiting to see if you do. If you still like him then you need to let him know that so when he does “snap out of it” then he’ll be able to be back with you. If he told you he doesn’t really want it to end then he means it. He may have other issues going on that he doesn’t want to talk about or is embarrassed. You never know! If you’d like to know more about Aquarius man, you may want to read my book “Aquarius Man Secrets” for more helpful information.

  7. Hello! I’m a Scorpio and an Aquarius man left me a month ago. Our relationship wasn’t perfect but it was incredibly loving. He was committed to the relationship for a while, making grand and loving gestures. I could see he loved me but he never wanted to admit it. Gradually this got very difficult for me and he could see I was unhappy. We almost broke up once, and he was adamant in making it work. We were once again in a honeymoon phase, it was a very honest relationship once again and we couldn’t keep our hands off eachother. I am desperately in love with him and for the longest time I thought all my paths had led to this one. All of a sudden, from one day to the next, he chose to end it. He had just left an old job and was starting a scary new one. I made him swear never to speak to me again but he still watches all my social media etc. I’m very lost and I need a few answers! thank you

    1. Hi Clarence!

      What this is about is his fear of not being able to give you all the time and effort you deserve with him doing this new job. He probably has to put in a great deal of focus and perhaps overtime and wouldn’t want to make you feel neglected as it would be hurtful to you and would make him upset with himself. See what I mean? Aquarius men can be difficult to understand but not impossible. If you’d like to know more about Aquarius man, you may want to read my book “Aquarius Man Secrets” for more helpful information.

  8. My horoscope is Aries I’ve been married with a Cancer for the last 16 years. We were quite happy until a year ago I ran into my ex boyfriend Aquarius. He was my first love and I was his, we had a 6 years relationship and we broke up because we were quite young back then, but we saw each other on/off for another 8 years after that since we were both single at that time, we were best friends and always enjoy our company very much and had a great time together. Then he met his now wife and a year later a met my husband so we stop catching up to focus on our serious relationships, then I moved to another London and didn’t see each other for 15 years. And when I came back one day we saw each other by chance on the street and immediately reconnected as if it was yesterday that we saw each other. We chat for ours having a coffee and we start catching up for a coffee every two weeks for about 2 months, and then one day he told me how every single day he had thought about me and how happy he was I was back in his life. We felt in love again, and after two months more months seeing each other we started an affair. That has lasted a year and we have started talking about divorcing our partners and be together ( more him telling me he didn’t want to lose me again) but we both wanting to do it in the right way to avoid pain and to be sure about everything, so we didn’t put the other under any pressure. I could feel his love so pure and intense. Until we had the bad luck his wife saw one message I sent to him and start controlling him very much, fights, giving him hard time and not allowing him to go out or talk with anyone.
    After that he seemed very distant from as if everything has disappeared suddenly. I was patient for a week trying not to bother him even when I missed him badly and I felt as if everything he had told me was I lie although I know he is a good person. I finally manage to spoke with him and he told me that that he needed time to be back to normal at home and that he didn’t like seeing his wife suffering so much ( as if I wasn’t suffering at all. As If I didn’t count at all) I tried my best to stay away, but after another 5 days with that attitude I I told him that I thought he was a bad person and that he didn’t know how to love anyone, etc, etc. worse I send another message and pressure him to answer me telling him I would tell his wife everything because he didn’t deserve being fine when he treated me that bad because I’m a good person. And I know I’m, I never meant to follow through but at that moment I wanted him to suffer as I was suffering. I was ready to leave my life, to lose everything I have for him, and we were always so perfect when together and he said so many intense and honest things and show me so much love that I was in shock for the sudden change just because he fight with his wife.

    After that message, he text me saying he felt sorry for me, that he would never forget or recover for my attitude and the emotional pain I caused “him”!!! What about the pain I felt because of his attitude? Feeling like I was nothing. After that he blocked me from everything in his life, phone, whatsapp, Facebook, etc. He told me he didn’t want to speak to me again and that he didn’t recognise me and was scare of me (I’m not a crazy person)/he told me he had love me very much all his life, and that he couldn’t believe my behaviour and inpatient and how much I have hurt him.
    We met when we were 14 years old I’ve known him all my life. We never could resist each other when together because above of all we are(were) best friends and we always have a great image of each other.
    I’m not a crazy person. I had a normal life, I have a very good job position as a director but I can’t stop thinking about him. That was 3 weeks ago and my birthday was last week and he didn’t send any best wishes or anything, nothing! Could you please tell me what should I do to recover it at least as a friend. The worse part is thinking that he may thinks I’m a bad person, because I love him and he is one of my best friends. In reality I would never do anything to hurt him.

    I’ve never wrote before to any astrologer and I normal just move on with things and get on top of things but I feel hopeless here.

    1. Hi Irene!

      Sometimes it can seem one sided to an Aquarius man. He may feel slighted but doesn’t see the other side of the coin. He doesn’t see what he’s caused you. So in that, he feels alone and feels that you did this to him. That being said, all you can really do is reach out to him and tell him that you’d like to put the past behind you and try to at least be friends if he’d be willing to. Give it a shot! If you’d like to know more about Aquarius man, you may want to read my book “Aquarius Man Secrets” for more helpful information.

  9. Hi,

    I was in a relationship with an Aquarius man for almost 4 years (Long distance since 3 years). We had issues all along because of his commitment phobia. But we also had many great times together. I believe being a libra myself, I give commitment way too much importance and must have always put this pressure on him to commit and marry.
    However, a lot many times he only initiated the conversation on marriage and promised me everything. Recently I found out he was cheating on me. When I confronted, he got very upset and guilty and begged me for forgivness. He promised to correct everything and asked me to take time. I toook a week, expecting him to call, but he didnt. When I spoke to him, he said he doesnt want to be in a relationship anymore since he could not undo what he has done and now everything has messed up totally. So he saw no future and wanted to separate. I kind of forced and convinced him to stay. But after some months again he flipped. Now he says he has feelings for that Girl. And doesnt want to stay in touch with me.
    What he is doing is absolutely wrong as of now, but I feel he is more of guilty than in love with that Girl. He can no longer face me (Even though I tried convincing him that I ll let it all go and we can start fresh). He feels things are beyond our control now, so its better to leave. Also he found somebody to be with for now.
    But I have been seeing my future with him since the last 4 years and I cant imagine not having him in my life. Please advice what to do? He doesn’t even take my calls or responds to my texts.
    I Need HELP!

    1. Iam Jessie. I know one Aquarius man and we both have some common likes and dislikes so he got interest on me. He said I’m his lover and best friend. He is asking about my future plans and marriage plan. I clearly noticed he is ready to commitment marriage with me. In this journey I shared my feelings and insecurities about him with my sister. She is trying to separate us. He got trust on her and he stopped text me. they both have commutation on social media. now Iam feeing fear to contact him. If I speak anything with him. he will relate with my sister words and he will definitely feel that I’m cheating on him. Please help me. what can I do now.

      1. Hi Soudamini!

        Why fear reaching out to him. I say do it! Speak your mind and tell him what you feel. If you don’t then you’ll always wonder and you’ll never achieve what you want. Also tell your sister to butt out. It’s none of her concern. If you’d like to know more about Aquarius man, you may want to read my book “Aquarius Man Secrets” for more helpful information.

    2. Hi Libran!

      I think you may be a rare Libra. Normally Libra likes to take it nice and easy as to not make a mistake. He was cheating on you thought? Yikes! He clearly wasn’t ready to commit and showed this by doing what he did. He wanted to test the waters and see what else was out there. Sadly that means he wasn’t that serious about you. Unless he leaves that girl and wants to give you a commitment, there isn’t a lot you can do. If it’s meant to be, he’ll be back. Otherwise don’t put your life on hold for someone who isn’t there for you. If you’d like to know more about Aquarius man, you may want to read my book “Aquarius Man Secrets” for more helpful information.

  10. My Aquarius man tells me he loves. We met online and were planning to meet then covid happened. Sometimes he is so distant when he is busy. He also has s teenage daughter who visits on alternate weekends so I give them their space but miss him a lot. Sometimes I don’t know how to handle his alone time fo I end up calling him though he doesn’t seem to mind I feel like I come on to him too strong

    1. Hi Nanny!

      You truly will not know whether or not it’s something real and will last until you actually do meet face to face. Chemistry in person is often different than the internet. That’s good he doesn’t mind you calling him but he needs to find time to see you otherwise he may be bluffing about what his life really is. Be careful! If you would like to know more about Aquarius man, check out my book “Aquarius Man Secrets”.

  11. I’m very need of help, I’ve been with my Aquarius man almost 7 years. 3 years apart because of deployments. We had wild arguments sometime and he always went on ignoring mode. Some I’m done texting and he ignored me almost 2 weeks, but he always come back. But this time I’m not sure, because he just come back from a year deployment and was at our house for two weeks, it went side ways kinda. We didn’t had any arguments or so. He had to leave to his duty station 4 hours away from our home where he lives with his friend. We talked every day, than all of the sudden he texted me to end our relationship but still cares and loves me. I broke down at work and I didn’t heard from since 4 days and I texted him love things and how can we fix it?! Almost 7 year’s together and I love him deeply and don’t want to lose him! He texted right back that he set his mind and it was his last straw. The problem was I always bitching about my job and he tried to give me advice all the time about every situation and I never took it and kept on bitching about job, life….. I can’t communicate and only talk when it’s too late. How can I get him back?! Please help

    1. Hi Karina!

      You would have to learn how to change your own actions. You’d have to stop venting to him. Try venting to a girlfriend or someone else you’re close to so that he doesn’t feel like you are complaining all the time to him. Tell him you promise to work on it if he will give it another chance. Then you have to actually do it and show him that you are. Show him more positive thoughts. He’ll appreciate it and it just may salvage things with you two. If you would like to know more about Aquarius man, check out my book “Aquarius Man Secrets”.

  12. Why is he playing mind games with me. He won’t talk to me but won’t even let me go. I really liked him but I am not sure where I stand. I want to talk to you personally.

  13. Hello,
    I’ve been with my Aquarius gf for over a year (long distance), she broke up with me at 15 months.I am a Libra and we had trust issues, to the point she would called me insecure. We had a last moment where she told me she can’t do this anymore. I gave her a few days tried to call and she continued to ignore my calls/text. I took some time to go out and hang with friends, and when I got in that night I called her and she said I told you I didn’t want a relationship. I was drawn back because she never said it so I respected it and begun trying to heal and move on. She text/called when I didn’t respond to ask if it’s okay if we talk every so often. I told her it’s probably not a good idea. She’s called a couple more times a couple days later and our last conversation I told her I need to get ready, I’ll talk to you another time. We have not talked but she’s been watching all of my stories. I feel like I want to reconnect but not if it will be a waste of time. It’s been two weeks and we have not spoke. Do you think she has moved on, should I continue to do the same.

    1. Hi A!

      What I suggest is that you actually find time to talk to her. Have boundaries though. You cannot or will not be with her if the same issues are present. Period. Don’t compromise on that. Tell her you had time to heal yourself and that you’ve figured out what you will or will not accept. Either she can adhere to that or she should just move on. I hope that helps! I’m wishing you all the very best!

  14. I have been seeing an Aquarius man for two weeks and we Had sex it was amazing. When we parted he said we would get together but it would be a while I don’t know what that means exactly how long is a while a month two months three months I don’t want To pressure him

    1. Hi Sharon!

      That sounds very odd to me to be really honest. It sounds like he got what he wanted and now wants to play anything else by ear. I wouldn’t give him the satisfaction. Keep living your life. If he does want to have more with you, he will come to you. Don’t hold your breath. Keep dating! I wish you all the very best!

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