Aquarius men are notoriously distant and detached when they’re in a relationship, so just imagine what they’re like when they break up with you. It’ll be like talking to a brick wall! This might have you wondering how to get an Aquarius man after a breakup. Is there even hope worth trying?
You need to know how to fix a relationship with an Aquarius man for this to work, and I am not going to lie to you girl, this can be very difficult so you need to promise to be committed or else it might not work.
Knowing how to get an Aquarius man back is one thing, but being successful at it can prove to be quite difficult. But as you know, you have come to the right place and I am going to guide you in the right direction to help you get the relationship you have always wanted.
Also, Aquarius men have one of the most specific love languages of all zodiac signs. I covered his entire Astrology Love Profile in my Aquarius Love Language guide. I suggest you get your copy if you really want to master his Love language and finally connect with him in the right way.
If getting your Aquarius man is on your agenda then you have come to the right place! Keep on reading to find out how you can fix a relationship with an Aquarius man and how to win him back!
First things first, Why Do You Want to Get Him Back?
It can be a real shock breaking up with someone you love, especially if it is an Aquarius man because these guys are notoriously distant and detached, you might find yourself wondering if he ever loved you in the first place.
This is why it is a pretty good idea for you to check in on yourself and really reflect on what happened in the relationship to know what mistakes you both made in the relationship. This is the only way you are going to grow.
Is it possible that you might not be wanting to face the real reasons the two of you broke up in the first place? You could be avoiding this because it is a lot easier for you to cope with than facing the truth.
When considering getting back together with your ex you might want to ask yourself if it is actually a good idea for the two of you to get together, or is it just because you are lonely and want to be with someone?
If you are sure that this is what you want, then this article is going to be able to help you to find all the answers you have been looking for. If this feels right, then please proceed!
How to Get an Aquarius Man Back After a Breakup? Fixing Up Your Relationship
Getting back together with your Aquarius man is no easy task in the slightest. This guy is difficult to get back, don’t say I didn’t warn you… So keep in mind that there are some serious steps you need to take before he can be yours again.
Here are the phases you might have to go through before your Aquarius man can be yours again:
Talk It Out – Make It Or Break It Point
When you want to get back together with your ex it is important that the two of you first have a conversation about everything. You might to work through some trauma you experienced in the relationship to figure out what went wrong, what you can fix, and how the two of you can learn to forgive each other.
This is a very important step you cannot ignore. Communication is everything in a relationship and the health of the union depends on this. After you have spoken about everything that went wrong between the two of you, ask yourselves if you feel comfortable taking the next step in repairing things in the relationship.
Do you feel like you can trust each other and that the problems you had before are able to be fixed? Do you think your Aquarius man can actually put the effort into the relationship on the level you desire? And does he seem committed to changing his behaviour to fix the problems? Are you willing to change as well?
These are all the questions you need to ask yourself before you go any further than this point. You don’t want to waste your time or his time. So be sure that the two of you are on the same page before getting involved in this again.
Take It Slowly
One thing you probably know about Aquarius men at this point is that they can be very aloof and they need their independence. Their independence is everything to them so when it feels like their freedom has been taken away from them, this is when they freak out.
You do not want to rush things with an Aquarius man because this will just make him disappear. He might think there is too much pressure on him to perform and be the perfect partner. Keep things as chilled as you possibly can.
Don’t expect everything to be the same as it was before the two of you broke up because it isn’t the same. If you both have committed to making changes in the relationship, then this is an entirely fresh start and you need to really respect that.
Do not spend every free moment of your time trying to see him. You’re just going to freak him out and make him feel like you are putting so much pressure on this thing to be perfect. Just lean back and relax into it, you want to follow his pace.
Do Things Differently
It is super easy to fall into a trap of following everything exactly to the T like you did when you and your Aquarius man were together before. This is the last thing you want to do! This is a new relationship, and it’s time for the two of you to do things totally differently.
If you did things a certain way when you were together before, then try to mix it up and take a different approach. It is so important to keep things fresh and new with an Aquarius man or else he gets bored. You don’t want to remind him why the two of you broke up with each other in the first place.
You need to shake up the foundation of this relationship and approach it from a different point of view. If you love your Aquarius man then you need to put in as much work to make things work out differently than they have before.
Both of you need to change and grow into new versions of this relationship. This relationship needs to be evolving just as much as you both are as individuals. If you are well into a trap of dropping everything for your Aquarius man, then now is the time to focus on your own hopes and dreams, and hobbies.
Whatever you did before, try to do it differently and see if you can create a much healthier version of the relationship. I promise this is worth putting in the work and the effort.
5 Ideas To Help You Get Your Aquarius Man Back
If you’re still trying to with your Aquarius man back, then you need some practical tips to help you achieve this of course. Here are some very useful tips to help you win him back and make him yours:
Show Him What You Have Learned Since The Breakup
While you’re conversing with him to try to win him back, just stimulate his mind. You don’t have to be talking about physics or the existence of the human race, but just let him know that you’re interested in the conversation, and show you care about the topic. Be passionate, and the conversation will be fulfilling.
An Aquarius man is a very cerebral mind and he is most stimulated by interesting conversation and a woman who can connect to him on an intellectual level. It is important that you show your Aquarius ex that you have worked on yourself and have interesting things to talk about together.
You want to impress him with your knowledge and everything you have gained since you have been apart. It is important that you pursue him only after you’ve done some work on yourself, otherwise, there is really no point in even trying with him. He’ll be able to see that you haven’t really changed.
Be Spontaneous And Adventurous
Aquarius men love spontaneous gestures, so do something exciting together. This will let your Aquarius man know that you are actually a fun person and you can have a good time with him.
Especially if this used to be a problem in your previous relationship. Perhaps you were unwilling to try new things with him or got stuck in some sort of routine you couldn’t get out of.
You will impress him if you show him how open-minded you are and that you are willing to try out new things with him. Especially if it means you get to make special new memories with him.
It is important to test yourself and show yourself that you can also grow and learn new things about yourself. You might have more fun in the process than you expected, so give it a shot!
If you’re planning a date with an old Aquarius flame, obviously do something you both like, but do something you know will make him ecstatic. If you get an Aquarius man in a good mood, there’s not much he’ll keep hidden from you. The more fun you have together, the closer you two will get.
Show Him You’re Done With The Drama
If there is one thing an Aquarius man totally despises then it has to be drama. He just can’t figure out why people can’t just be chilled and relaxed and stop looking for trouble.
If you had a tendency to stir up drama and conflict in his life, then this is probably one of the main reasons he broke up with you in the first place. Nothing irritates him more than petty drama.
That being said, if you are committed to working on yourself and are willing to change, then there is a very good chance your Aquarius man could give you a second shot.
Show your Aquarius man that you are done with all the drama you caused in his life. Work on yourself by going to therapy and figuring out what your patterns are that make you look for these situations.
If you aren’t willing to work on this aspect of your personality, then I don’t have very much faith in you getting your Aquarius ex back. You need to work on your self-development, or else this will fail!
Give Him Space
Space in general is never a bad idea when dealing with an Aquarius man. He needs copious amounts of it, whether he is in a relationship or not. Without space, this guy will go insane, no doubt!
This is also a very useful trick to use when you want to get your Aquarius ex back, but this usually only works right after the break up so you need to time this properly.
If your Aquarius ex is used to you being very clingy, needy, and looking for a lot of attention from him, then he might be shocked if you suddenly go radio silent and stop seeking validation from him.
This will show him that you are actually independent of him and have your own life. He will question what you are doing and start to miss you because you no longer give him the love he has become accustomed to.
Surprise him by not reaching out and leaning back. This might work quite easily, but it is going to be very hard for you to control yourself to not speak to him. You need to be strong for this to work!
Work On Your Friendship With Him First
An Aquarius man will always prefer to keep things low-pressure. He is very chilled and laid back as an individual. He is more concerned with his friends than he is with any of his romantic connections.
If you can find yourself building a friendship with him once again then it might be a good way for you to find yourself in a romantic connection with him in the future. Be his friend and don’t put pressure on him to move too quickly, that would be a big mistake.
Keep things very simple, once you have given him enough space ask him out for a coffee and just have a good old catch-up about where the two of you are in life at the moment.
If things go well you can then suggest working on a friendship with him again. Show interest in the things he shares with you, and ask him a lot of questions about his life.
Remember to try not to get too offended if he has a hard time showing his emotions, he is an Aquarius after all! If you can manage to be friends with him first, then he’ll return the loyalty, and perhaps the two of you can rekindle the passion in the future. Just remember to take things slow or else you might overwhelm him!
How To Get An Aquarius Man To Chase You – Conclusion
There is truly only one way you can act when you have involved yourself with an Aquarius man and that is to simply accept that this is a man who doesn’t care to be tamed. His independence is everything to him.
You need to accept that he is a free spirit. Don’t try to change him. There is no controlling him. If he wants to come back, he will. If he doesn’t, he won’t. It is as simple as that.
He needs his freedom and he needs you to accept this about him. All he is doing is being himself and acting authentically and for an Aquarius man, this is more worth him than actual gold. He needs to be himself no matter what. If he doesn’t have that freedom he gets very unhappy.
He needs to be with someone who can accept that he has to live the life of a man with freedom or else he will feel stifled and this would be even worse for your relationship. So when rekindling your relationship with an Aquarius man you need to ask yourself if this is what you actually want.
You need to have a serious think with yourself and truly question whether you would be happy in a relationship like this. Just remember that you always have a choice in the matter and if you are feeling overwhelmed with your love for him, yet unsatisfied, he might not be the man for you.
This brings me to my next point, do you sometimes struggle to know what to say to your Aquarius man?
He’s a cerebral guy who loves communicating, so conversations are pretty important to him and what he finds attractive in a lady.
Making an Aquarius man fall in love with you is pretty simple
He is a straightforward guy who loves to be loved
Being with an Aquarius man can be a totally new experience, he is so calm and loving and very attentive
You have probably never felt like this about anyone
This man speaks to your soul, and you feel such a deep connection with him
These men are some of the most desirable in the whole Zodiac sign
He is sexy, smart, and incredibly devoted
So it makes so much sense why you are so drawn to your Aquarius man
But you might have been chasing him too hard recently and now he is pulling away
Whenever you reach out and try to speak to him you are met with silence or short replies
The faster he pulls away the more it just breaks your heart
You just can’t seem to understand why your Aquarius man keeps ignoring you
You are sure that you didn’t do something wrong
And when you ask him he says it is nothing
But you know deep down in your gut that this just isn’t true
Why can’t he just be honest with you so that you can fix it
He is pulling away, and you know it
If only there was something you could do to repair the relationship to its former glory
You would do anything in the world to have your Aquarius man look at you the way he once did
You love him with all your heart and you want to fix what is broken
There are definitely ways that you can turn all of this around and make your Aquarius man putty in your hands
You just need to learn how to speak to his soul and what he needs to hear from you
Wishing you so much love and happiness
Your friend and relationship Astrologer