Every month, the planets change signs and affect our relationships. Depending on the planetary movements, it may be tough to understand the needs and desires of the Aquarius man. But with my tips based on the monthly energy, you can draw the attention of an Aquarius man or improve your relationship with one in April 2020.
Attracting an Aquarius Man in April 2020
1. Don’t Be Afraid to Take the Lead
Whether he tells you or not, April 2020 is a month of increased socialization and mental activity for the Aquarius man and his relationships.
As a fixed air sign, the Aquarius man is naturally outgoing, original, and detached.
But with the transit Sun in Aries highlighting his third house of communication and self-learning, the Aquarius man may be more impatient and aggressive than usual.
In astrology, the Sun says a lot about what the Aquarius man wants to experience and achieve on an external level.
The Sun gives us valuable information about how other people see him, how he experiences life, how he expresses his personality, and what his current focus is at the moment.
If you want to keep this busy man on your radar this month, then you need to be assertive and take the lead.
During this period, he is most attracted to a woman who is inquisitive, versatile, and adaptable.
Although it may seem like he’s not interested, chances are he is—it’s just that this month’s planetary energy increases his mental activities and daily chores, and they distract him from spending quality time with you.
But instead of complaining about it, take action.
If you know he’s at work late and you want to see him, bring him dinner. If you want to go out and you know he doesn’t have time to plan anything, make the reservations and pick him up yourself.
Find innovative solutions to your problems without stressing him out. This will draw him to you in April 2020.
2. Keep Things Light and Airy
With transit Venus in Gemini highlighting his fifth house of love affairs and romance, you may find the Aquarius man is more expressive and open in love and relationships.
In astrology, Venus says a lot about what the Aquarius man will want and need out of a relationship.
Venus tells us what he likes, the way he approaches relationships, the way he gives and receives affection, the type of woman he is attracted to, and his emotional relationship to material possessions and money.
Venus in Gemini for the Aquarius man is a time of curiosity and play. Gemini’s airy influence encourages him to keep things light and non-serious. He isn’t attracted to the “conservative” woman.
If possible, spice things up and take him for a fun, playful date, rather than your traditional mature “dinner and a movie.”
Opt for something more youthful and stimulating like rollerblading or late-night karaoke. This is also a perfect time to meet or spend time with each other’s friends.
If you just started dating or are trying to catch his attention, suggest something even lighter like ice cream or a drink at the bar.
And while I don’t want to make you nervous, you should know the fifth house also rules drama and infidelity.
So if you suspect he’s been unfaithful or keeping his options open, the truth is most likely to come out during this time.
Just play it cool if you find out something you don’t want to hear—it’s likely he’ll be honest with you.
I know sometimes it’s hard to read the Aquarius man. But with Venus in Gemini encouraging him to express himself and share more on a romantic level, you’ll know if he’s really into you.
Just remember to focus on having a good time and letting things unfold naturally.
Read next: 5 Signs An Aquarius Man Likes You: Know If He’s Interested
3. Teach Him Something New
Mercury says a lot about how the Aquarius man processes, receives, and sends information on an internal and external level.
Mercury shows us things like how he expresses his emotions, how he processes thoughts, how he perceives life, and what he wants to communicate to the world at the current moment.
With Mercury in Aries highlighting his third house of messaging until April 27, the Aquarius man may be more introspective, curious, and observant than usual.
But with Mercury in Aries encouraging him to be more open-minded, his naturally cold nature is warmed by the fire of Aries. For this reason, April 2020 is a great time to nourish his mind and teach him something new.
It doesn’t matter if you are a doctor, lawyer, teacher, or stay-at-home mom—there is something about you that is intriguing and resourceful to the Aquarius man.
Doing things like exploring each other’s favorite interests, reading books together, watching online learning videos, taking activity-based workshops, and just sharing your dreams and goals turns him on.
If you find that he is acting more distant, cold, or snappish with you than usual, remind him that you are his friend and not his enemy.
With Uranus as his modern planetary ruler, the Aquarius man is always looking for new ways to improve.
Buying him the latest tech gadget or device to make his life simpler is also attractive to the Aquarius man.
Read next: Aquarius Man Traits: Understand His Personality And Temperament
4. Give Him Space to Explore
In relationships, Mars represents how the Aquarius man desires affection and sex and how he will respond to the expectations set by his Venus.
With transit Mars in Aquarius highlighting his first house of self and physical appearances, the Aquarius man may be more assertive, enthusiastic, and egotistical than usual.
During this period, take a nontraditional approach in love.
With transit Mars beginning a new cycle in his first house, this is the best time for you to trust in your connection and give him space to explore.
I’ve found that whenever Mars transits the first house, this is a time where men like to “find themselves.” So it’s natural if he desires more time for himself.
However, with Aquarius being a fixed air sign, this doesn’t mean he will be disloyal. I believe this transit will cause the exact opposite for most Aquarius couples.
Instead of him leaving, I feel like he may be returning, coming back to himself once again.
To show him that you support his time of self-discovery, make sure to listen and provide useful feedback for his ideas.
Sexually, the influence of thought-driven Mars in Aquarius arouses the Aquarius man’s love for an authentic and conscientious woman.
While Mars is in his sign of Aquarius, make a point to express verbal gestures of love and affection. Let him know that you noticed his new haircut, new shoes, or finally changing out of his “favorite” shirt.
If you take my cues and do as I’ve suggested, I believe there are so many good things to come for you in May. So make sure you stay updated with the blog to see How to Attract an Aquarius Man in May 2020.
Just remember that the Aquarius man is full of secrets, so for you to build and maintain the relationship of your dreams, you need to understand the Aquarius man on a fundamental level.
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Share your experiences in the comments below—I’d love to hear them!
Your friend and relationship astrologer,
Thank you for your great advices. Right now, my aquarius boyfriend (whom I´ve been dating for less than 3 months but known for 8 years) is distant and doesn´t seem interested. He´s worried about losing his business because of covid-19. I´ve done everything to help him, but he´s too proud to recieve help. He says that the best thing I can do is stay away and don´t expect anything from him. Before the crises he wasn´t sharing his deeply emotions with me either, and he has never told me that he loves me. I can´t just say: “Well, you don´t have to give me compliments, show me that I´m your woman, show me you´re committed to me”. Either I give him a break or I break up with him. If I give him a break, I´m not even sure what waits for me, since he wasn´t that passionate before this.
And if you don’t give him what he wants or thinks he needs, he will just break it off and you won’t have a chance to salvage it. Right now you can still make it work but you’ve got to back off a bit and do what he says as far as not reaching out so much and not expecting much from him. He’s busy and stressed out which means that a relationship would only put him under further strain and pressure. If you hold off and pull back a bit, he may very well move forward to you again. It’s worth a shot! If you would like to know more about Aquarius man, check out my book “Aquarius Man Secrets”.
I’m dealing with aquarius.and I’m scorpio. Yes, may be it is difficult to have good relationship than others. Our relationship is totally different and hard to understand. We met at Facebook before 4 years back. We weren’t that closed but I could feel very strong feeling in heart for him at that time also. I had confessed that he was my crush.? I don’t remember much but I’ve never thought about being in relationship with him even not in my dream. We both were busy with our own stuff and after 4 years I again found him on my facebook without any hesitation I sent him request and texted “hey long time no see do you remember me”.good conversation started. He was totally different than other random guy. He also started to text me we became good friend. He started calling me and actually we didn’t used to connect with each other everytime. Slowly I knew about his all hobby,aim and his goal. We were known about our feeling.He started being cold ,detach and here I used to cry a lot . I always wanted his happiness .He used to told me that he doesn’t want any kind of relationship as well doesn’t want me to go. I could also feel his love for me .My patience, My love, started showing improvement ,he started opening up. I know he love me but it’s so difficult to understand him . I respect his freedom and every negative traits, recently he is again being cold,I know we don’t communicate alot but when we do we clear everything, sometime I feel our soul being connected with each other and sometimes I feel like “do really I know him ?”. I don’t why his mood swings like that. Everytime when he shows me that kind of behaviour I stop texting him,calling him and let him be cool by giving some space. After a week when I call him I always found him so clam
“I love you babe”hope our love lasts forever ♥️
Thank you Anna man.
Well it sounds like to me that you’ve found the formula that works with your Aquarius guy. Why break it? Yes, it takes a long time to get to know them to an extent you feel good about. It’s like peeling an onion with them. You have to peel off layer by layer before you get to the center and that may mean many layers. If you would like to know more about Aquarius man, check out my book “Aquarius Man Secrets”.
Anna, my Aquarius man is not making any time for me. I feel as if he is not making me a priority or our relationship a priority. My birthday is on 2nd April and I have not received contact from him since the Saturday I called him. I do not trust him and me being an Aries I’m sure you’d understand when I tell you I’m thinking of breaking it off as I see no progress. I put him at the forefront but truly I’m tired cause for once I want for him to treat me something special without me having to say it and that he may just keep his word and keep his promises.
I do see why you are thinking of calling it off. However, I’d advise you to not do that until you get some answers from him. Most Aquarius’ will not volunteer their feelings or thoughts about things unless you actually ask them. Go ahead and confront him. Ask him what is going on and why isn’t he spending time with you like he used to. He should tell you. From there you can make the best decision for you. If you would like to know more about Aquarius man, check out my book “Aquarius Man Secrets”.
Hello! Lately I’ve been struggling with a friend that turned into a close friend… then a fwb.. and to where I am right now, which is back to being a simple friend. It’s been months back and forth with this Aquarius man. He’s friendly with me and cares for me. But this has been the third time he has broken my heart. The first time, he was drunk and made a move on me. I was happy and excited where this might lead. A few days later, he confronted me saying he shouldn’t have kissed me and we should stick to being friends or turn into a fwb. I gave in a little bit but regretting my decision and just sticking to being just strictly friends. After a few months, I got tired of his games where it would seem like he likes me and then doesn’t. We’d stay up until 3 or 2 am just talking on the phone and then eventually sleeping together on the phone. We would walk eachother to classes, pick & drop eachother off to our cars, get food together (and just only the two of us), and simply be in each others presence all the time. I gave in quite of few times trying a little bit of fwb, but I would revert back because he would tell me his feelings hasn’t changed afterwards. I got frustrated and went on a date with a guy, who ended up being too overwhelming to me. I ended up breaking it off with the other guy after 2 weeks because I was getting annoyed and I wasnt over my Aquarius. After, I ended up sleeping with him and it was the BEST IVE EVER HAD. Being a Leo, I didn’t think it would be that good! This was back in December. After the 4th or 3rd hookup, we decided we couldn’t continue or else I would keep getting attached. few months later, I’m getting closer to him and trying to show him what it is like to have someone that genuinely cares for him. I try a lot more to understand his feelings and ways and I’m still clinging onto that hope. This month, I slept with him one more time before spring break. During spring break, he drunk texted me saying “I love you”, “I wanna kiss you”, “I wanna Cuddle with you” . When he came back from break, he started acting super distant. He didn’t seem like he wanted to talk at all. I confronted him and I emphasized if we were close friends, why are you distancing yourself from me? I opened up about a situation between my parents and friend a few days before that conversation and he wasn’t sure how to respond. I was getting angered how ive been there for him to listen to his problems and he couldn’t do the same for me. Finally that night, we called eachother and confessed how we were currently feeling. Even after SEVERAL months, he still wants to be just close friends! Nothing more! And yes he was drunk but he was confusing me more when he said “there’s a little bit of truth to that”. He later said he feelings 50/50 with me, on dating me or not dating me. The opposing 50 being that a year and a half from now we will be stationed in different places (we are about to be into be military), he doesn’t want to do long distance, and he doesn’t feel ready to be in a relationship. He kept saying how If we did end up dating, he would have to time manage me and his boys. I was completely hurt and just frustrated. More into the conversation, he said that he is emotionally invested into me because “why would I stay on the phone at 2am with a girl?”. My last question was if he could ever give me a chance to prove him wrong and to see that I’m actually a good enough girl to be with. Previously before me, his heart was broken by another Aquarius woman. He tried REALLY hard to be with her (even in a fwb) and begged to be with her . But, I wanted him to see how different I am and that I can’t hurt him. He said no and he’s sticking to his guns. That was a few days ago and I haven’t talked to him ever since. I’m doing the no contact rule and I’m completely confused and frustrated of his back and forth crap. I want to be with him, but I want him to learn what he could be potentially letting go. I went on that date with the other guy out of pure frustration and I deeply regret that. Now, I’m trying to signal to the Aquarius that I am a good fit since we fit so well with eachother. But, him not giving me a chance to prove myself made me feel like I’m not enough for him to commit. I’m giving the no contact rule, but how do I turn this situation around and finally get him to buckle down to me?
You cannot make him unlike someone. I wish there was a way but that goes against free will and so you cannot do it. Now, I do agree with the no contact rule. Perhaps if you give him time without reaching out to him, he will actually miss you and think about you which will pull him back around to want to talk to you and elevate your relationship with him. If you would like to know more about Aquarius man, check out my book “Aquarius Man Secrets”.
Hi Anna, I have been attracted to an acquarius man and I like him a lot. But recently I tried to understand about his thoughts on relationships and stuff but he isn’t interested is what he said, due to his own reasons which he can’t disclose to me. I tried telling him that I am there always if he needs anyone to talk to. But he turned out to me by saying that he is good on his own. I also tried giving him signs that I like him, but he didn’t respond to it. I am a friend of his (leo) and have met him like 3 months back. Initially we used to chat a lot, talk more via msgs, etc. He is my colleague in another department at work. He keeps looking or staring at me (the look is quite different, like a spark in his eyes), smiles at me, comes and plays games with me in office, but when asked about relationships n stuff, he said he doesn’t fall for such futile emotions. He also had a past relationship which didn’t go well. After his cold reaction on relationship, I kinda stopped msging him and chasing him. I distanced myself from him. What should I do? Is he not interested and am I the one who keeps going after him? Shall I stop pursuing him? Please help 🙁
Your guy sounds jaded due to past things that have happened to him. He isn’t the type to live his life totally alone forever so fear not. If you give him the time and be patient with him, he may very well work past his fears of the past so he can embrace the future. Keep being nice to him, keep talking, and bat your eyelashes at him when he stares at you. Smile at him! Keep up that rhythm and one day he’ll break down and talk to you more. If you would like to know more about Aquarius man, check out my book “Aquarius Man Secrets”.
Hi Anna I have no words to express my gratitude for all the knowledge I received on understanding my Aquarius Man. Tony n I have been together since October 8, 2018. We have a unique challenge, I just turned 78 on March 28 n Tony turned 61 February 10. I look much younger than my age. I.asked Tony at the start if this age difference mattered he said no. I am very energized n active. The first year I had a hard time understanding his push n pull, even though he called every night for entire year, ate together a couple times a week n went every weekend. On October 8 2019, I asked him if we had a future. He got all nervous n said “What’s wrong we can do this forever”. I tod him goodbye. He was very angry. He doesn’t a committed relationship but now I know that it is not an AQUAURIS THING we both love each other very much. He will not let me go but now because of all that you taught me, I can just sit back ,relax, n watch this unusual n unique relationship unfold. I could go on n on about this creative genius, “My Aqurius Man”. Thank you with all my heart???
Haha! Wow! Thank you for sharing your story with me. I really appreciate the feedback and am really pleased to hear that it worked for you and that the methods are making things easier to deal with. Sounds like you know what to do and will find much success with your love. I wish you nothing but the best! If you would like to know more about Aquarius man, check out my book “Aquarius Man Secrets”.
We are in forbidden relationship over 2 years,because I’m married but I think I loved him from the day he smiled at me. Something about him is so charming I just can’t get my mind of him. Most of the time we are separated by many miles and I miss him. I did a bad thing by cheating but the love at home is gone for a long time. Strangely my Aquarius guy wants to marry me,have kids…and reading all about them how afraid they are with marriage he is the one who wants me to live with him and due to law and paper work we need to be in marriage. He says he is tired of having me partially.
Well if you truly love him more than your husband then you’re going to have to find a way to divorce so that you can be free for him to marry otherwise you could find yourself in trouble with your culture and the law. Be careful with yourself sweetheart. Do what you know you need to do to make yourself happy but watch your karmic path as well. If you would like to know more about Aquarius man, check out my book “Aquarius Man Secrets”.
Wow. After reading some of the other posts I feel a little bit better about my situation. Like all Aquarius men are going through something right now.
I’ve been seeing my Aquarius man since last May but our long distance relationship complicates things and he’s so focused on his future / work which makes long distance even harder.
We had a fall out in January early February since we constantly fought. In March we regained our friendship again and it felt like old days.
I thought things were going amazing since all last week we were constantly talking and flirting. But out of no where the first of this month he started acting very distant and I knew in my gut things were wrong. He told me he’s been overthinking and feels guilty about leading me on since he doesn’t see a commitment anytime soon since there are many barriers in the way.
I start my rotations in May and two of them are 20-30 mins away from him killing the distance but he doesn’t hold onto the unseen.
I’m just confused because he’s my best friend and he doesn’t want to lose me either but he doesn’t know what else to do.
Hope to hear from you
Well it sounds like since he’s not sure, you’ll just have to take it as it comes if you really want to give it a chance. Unless you think it’s too complicated then you can always opt to walk away. The choice is yours whether you will or can give him the time it may take for him to come around. If you would like to know more about Aquarius man, check out my book “Aquarius Man Secrets”.