In many ways, this is a relationship that may look better on paper than it does in practice. Virgo is the Healer, and Aquarius is the Visionary, so they are both intents on bringing compassionate change to the world.
However, Virgo has a more methodical, less progressive agenda than Aquarius. Virgo is also an earth sign, which is opposite to Aquarius’ air. They aren’t necessarily fully opposed, but the two elements are not necessarily the best at harmonizing. Keep reading and find out everything about Aquarius man and Virgo woman compatibility.
Aquarius Man and Virgo Woman Mental Compatibility
This is where this couple will shine. The two signs are very intellectual. Aquarius is a bit more conceptual than Virgo, but the two will admire the other intellectually and will likely never run out of things to talk about.
The two will likely have frequent debates, but it will be in good spirit. These signs need mental stimulation, and they will never be bored with each other as long as they exchange ideas.
A possible issue that will arise is Virgo’s constant planning. Virgo needs to meticulously think out most areas of their life, which might put the spontaneous Aquarius off. Aquarius may even think this constant need to plan is unnecessary and that Virgo is just borrowing trouble. Virgo, on the other hand, will find Aquarius’ rebellious nature to be unacceptable. Virgo may become impatient with Aquarius’ lack of planning or regard to rules.
Aquarius will likely be able to handle Virgo’s planning and traditional tendencies better than Virgo will be able to handle Aquarius’ rebellion.
Aquarius will likely find that they enjoy that matters in money and practical day-to-day issues run smoothly under Virgo’s scrutinizing eye. Virgo maybe a little frustrated at the chaos that Aquarius can create and happily lives in, but ultimately this probably won’t be a breaking point for the two.
Aquarius Man and Virgo Woman Physical Compatibility
Virgo and Aquarius will have to work hard to make a physical connection work. These two are mostly intellectual and lack passion. Aquarius has an adventurous and fun-loving side, but Virgo’s need for rules and planning may squelch this in Aquarius. Aquarius is otherwise not romantic, so it may be hard to get a spark going.
Virgo is not spontaneous and may try to plan out days for intimacy weeks in advance, which will not go over well with the freedom-loving Aquarius. This will likely be the area where this relationship lacks the most. The two are ultimately kind and caring signs, but both need a catalyst to engage intimately fully.
Aquarius Man and Virgo Woman Emotional Compatibility
Both of these signs follow their head more than their heart. This is likely to be mostly positive, as there won’t be many disagreements that are not followed up with reason and logic.
The two will butt heads, but they are not emotionally driven in their debates. As well, neither sign is in a hurry to commit. Both Virgo and Aquarius are thoughtful and like to take their time to see how the future unfolds without making quick judgments. The relationship could risk being a little cold and distant if these two do not work in other areas to maintain a connection, though.
Aquarius is not emotional, but they are whimsical at times, which may make them come across as idealist to Virgo. Virgo is rigid in ways, sometimes based solely on tradition, which may come across as cynical.
Because of Aquarius’ big picture, progressive attitude, Aquarius likes to connect to many people, making them social. Virgo, the healer, likes to connect to the world one person at a time, making them possibly less social. This shouldn’t cause a massive rift, but there is a chance of some lifestyle clashing.
Summary
There is a lot of potential for compatibility in this relationship, but it may be a situation where the two almost connect, but then drift apart. If this couple has a particularly strong intellectual bond from the start, though, it may turn out that Aquarius adds conceptual inspiration to Virgo’s efficiency and this couple may be able to enact grand plans.
There will have to be some concessions made for spontaneity, or the physical chemistry could be a problem. In general, the two elements are opposed, and it may be too much to force these signs to relate to one another fully.
There is great potential for friendship and intellectual connection. The two will inspire and have mutual respect to the other, but they may lack the catalyst to bring them together in a more intimate way.
Conclusion
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Anna Kovach
27yr virgo female & 27 yr aqua male
in middle school i had the most ridiculous crush on this guy. i came from a big family which meant tight budget. i excelled easily in school academically and athletically but was never the social butterfly. He of coarse came from a smaller household which in my opinion enabled him to be more blessed lol. kids at that time focused on who has on what name brands, to put it short he was popular and well groomed. That wasn’t why i liked him. it started more from a competitive note. P.E. i was the fastest female runner and beat out quite a few boys…but not him. i didn’t like that and he never knew…flag football, track and field, dodge ball, it didn’t matter, it was my personal goal to beat HIM no matter whom was participating. well one day in dodge ball we were on the same team but lined up against the wall, the whistle blew and i took off…I MADE IT TO THE BALL BEFORE HIM. he looked and me and said oh good job. THATS WHEN IT STARTED. i started paying attention to his demeanor and character more. i mentioned that he was popular which meant 80% of his friends were unnecessarily mean to most kids that weren’t like them. He wasn’t like that. i never saw him picking on anyone or egging on cruel situations. He was somewhat quiet. He became my first true crush at 12 years old. i moved away, and visited here and there (its a small town in which my entire extended family lives).
as an adult i got married had 2 kids became a nurse…dealt with infidelity with a Capricorn for 6 years then gave up and we split.
He (aquarius) found me online, he had aged well lol, very in shape, football coach now among other things.id venture to say that i had as well, considering 75%of all his old friends had at some point either apologized for youthful events or tried to persuade me to allow them a chance to date me.
his message was brief, complimented my photos, but his next message was pretty direct which surprised me . He wanted a chance to go out together. not gonna lie. i beat around the bush heavy. i am VERY SHY. and although i was no longer the unfortunate school girl, old insecurities crept up FAST. eventual i think he realized what i was doing and he gave up. he later added me on facebook and the same thing happened. months later i received a similar message from him and i decided to grow up and agree to meet up. i did. omg he was so tall in person! we went to a park and talked. he was far from the shy school boy i remembered which was a little intimidating, he sang to me as he threw rocks off the lake. i thought he was cute. eventually thing got a little heavily and admitted to knowing that i liked him in school and voiced that he felt the same but was shy.
the night resulted in sex. i am ashamed because although id known him for years i knew nothing of his new life.
later i found out that he had been involved with someone i was close with which threw a wrench into our relationship which annoyed him because he felt it was insignificant and didn’t matter because it was before me. me being a virgo, it was hard for me to deal with because that person and i were and still are close. so naturally i backed up. his pride i feel came into play because he got angry although he denied such feelings and then ultimately stopped trying to convince me not to care about the previous situation. we stopped talking for maybe 2 months or so. during this time i moved back to my hometown(he lives there) with my kids to be closer to family.
although we hadn’t spoken i couldn’t help but think of him from time to time…he lived 2 miles from me at that time and dint even know it. i drove past his home daily on my way home from work.
i wondered if id bump into him at a gas station awkwardly, or worse end up sitting near him at a local restaurant lol. thankfully neither happened. he randomly texted me. and said that he wanted to reach out many times but decided not to. was blunt and asked if i would give him a chance or just let him know to leave me alone. i didn’t want him to leave me alone but i didn’t want to rush into anything either. my indecisiveness is my curse.for a few days he would call and text whether or not i answered but i felt like his delivery was with irritation. he would say things like
we have already wasted enough of each others time
weve known each other for years
you like me, i like you, what is there to decide
later his messages turned into can we please talk, so we had a long phone conversation,
now his messages are
can i come see you
good morning Mrs.HisLastName.
tonight he texted me and said “im coming to see you when i get off, no if ands or buts”
he lucked out because aggression is the only way to progress with me.
my mind is all over the place…i will be a nervous train wreck all morning knowing he is coming by and that i haven’t seen him since the night we went out.
but im still beyond nervous. our zodiacs aren’t compatible so id hate to take a leap in faith and we end up hating each other. what do you think…i don’t know one virgo/aqua couple who have been married 10+ years…i want longevity and a stable foundation.
help me!
How about virgo man aquarius woman? Me and my girl have been working on it for basically a yr now. Also realize I’m virgo/libra cusp
Hi John!
It’s relatively the same deal. The only real differences may be hormone related but otherwise the same. If you’re both willing to continue working at it then there is no reason it doesn’t have a chance at success. Keep putting your heart into it and if she does as well then you can keep growing your bond long term. If you need more Aquarius info, check out my book “Aquarius Man Secrets”. You can apply much of it to women just use common sense with the hormonal difference.