Hello my dear, and welcome to the horoscope reading for your Aquarius man for September. Schools are basically back in session right now, and the mentality is somewhat more focused, a little bit more organized, and perhaps the memories of summer are beginning to fade.
However, it’s a brand new season and a chance to do a little bit of a relationship reboot. In terms of those in the Southern Hemisphere, you’ve finished a long winter, you’re aching for spring to begin, and so you guys are also feeling in the mood for some inspiration.
So I want to inspire you this month about your relationship with Aquarius Man because there’s so much to be gained. There’s a lot of exciting activity which leads to some romance, a more productive frame of mind, with an important acknowledgement of a need for flexibility and compassion.
We have lots of planetary changes this month, and in general, I’m feeling a very different energy. We’ve got Mercury now direct, we’ve got Mars changing signs early in the month, so there certainly is a different flavor to September.
There’s something subtle, sweet, and delicate about it, and we need to get going and analyze the potentials.
Here’s what the stars have in store for an Aquarius Man this September…
New Moon in Virgo – 2nd of September
The New Moon in Virgo represents quite an intense yet also secretive time for Aquarius Man. Now, we all know Aquarius Man can be quite enigmatic. While he’s openly friendly and sociable, in many ways he’s a closed book—someone who sometimes can get under people’s skin, and other times can be an absolute treasure.
Right now is one of those times when he is a little bit mysterious, hard to understand, and at times, very frustrating. What you need to do as a partner is to be calm and zen. Try not to buy into his moods; sometimes, he’s projecting some of his angst into the relationship.
He may be doing that Aquarius thing of trying to wind you up just because he likes a little bit of confrontation, or he wants to talk about things and he’s not sure how to approach the subject.
Ideally, this can be a very good time for the sexual side of the relationship because what better way to take the frustrations out than sexually, rather than having arguments? So, be alert for any sense of sexual frustration and try to address it. But at the same time, if he’s acting a little obtuse, don’t let it get you down.
Mars enters Cancer – 5th of September
Now, this particular placement along with the New Moon in Virgo can arouse some of his sensitivities, especially if he’s feeling out of kilter. This represents a time when it’s important as a couple to have some good routines, to maintain a good work-life balance, and to make sure that he’s not obsessing or giving in to that workaholic tendency that Aquarius Man has.
So, watch out for obsessive behavior and for times when he seems to be placing too much emphasis on one aspect of his life. Balance is absolutely key right now, and as a partner, if you can just watch out for times when things are getting a little bit out of proportion, it will really help your relationship.
Mercury enters Virgo – 10th of September
They say habits are hard to break, and that’s true, but if a good habit is hard to break —fantastic! This is a great time to introduce some good habits, particularly if you’re in the Northern Hemisphere with the beginning of the school year, or even in the Southern Hemisphere with the beginning of summer.
What a great time to establish some positive new routines. These can be health routines, diet, fitness, or even relationship rituals that you feel will contribute to keeping your relationship on a good track.
So, it’s great to be encouraging him, really motivating him to make improvements in his life, and you can even do that whether you are dating. Encourage good new routines within your relationship and encourage him on his self-improvement goals.
Sun enters Libra – 24th September
This is a slightly less intense phase, but it’s still quite a serious period where he enjoys talking about long term issues. This is certainly a time to talk about relationship commitment and getting married or engaged, but remember that as a partner you have to be really positive right now as he’s been in the frame of mind where he can be a little bit anxious and concerns feel heavier.
He’s taking a quite a pragmatic view of life so it’s important not to be flippant or too idealistic, focus together on practical concerns and you can make a lot of progress.
Venus enters Scorpio – 24th September
This is great for social events, work related parties and for him making a great impression. He’s more socially and professionally outgoing, friendly and generous, he feels a lot more confident about himself and therefore a great time to develop your relationship or demonstrate that your support hi goals.
In all relationships with an Aquarius man, give him good feedback, give him compliments and certainly encourage him to express himself. This is a time when he might like to play the fool and be more jovial, so it’s a good time for laughter as laughter is definitely the best medicine as well as an anecdote for the blues and so even if he’s been feeling a little bit low, or depleted, try to convey sunshine and laughter through your communication with him.
Mercury enters Libra – 27th September
This can be a great time for planning travel for next year, making bookings or discussing the aspirations you both have with regard to holidays, but it’s a great time in general for getting your thoughts together, structuring your lives and creating a little bit of organization particularly for the longer term, like summer going into autumn or in the Southern Hemisphere going into Summer.
This is a time when you should be encouraging him to make plans business-wise, go for promotions or think about the next step that you both need to make in terms of prosperity.
So right now business growth is an important part of the discussion you need to have as a couple. If you are newly dating, the key is developing interests that you both share as that will ensure the relationship progresses.
Themes for an Aquarius Man this September 2024…
This can be a month when relationships with Aquarius Man need some perceptive power, some patience, a little bit of tolerance, and perhaps even psychological awareness. He is not always easy to suss out, can be a slightly closed book, and sometimes he can bury himself in work as a way of avoiding things.
His slightly more perfectionistic, critical nature can come to the fore, and yet he’s really feeling a bit vulnerable. So, if you can gently coax him out of his sexy shell, into a positive mood, and reinforce some positive habits, all the better for your relationship.
Magic Motto – “Our relationship doesn’t sacrifice excitement and growth for security and safety.”
Magic Text – “You are my sweet little mystery and I love discovering your hidden facets.”
Do
The moon waxes from the 2nd to the 17th of the month and this fortnight is ideal for initiating projects, beginning brand new activities, being proactive and more risqué or audacious. After the 17th is the time for more caution, reflection and to take a slightly more measured approach.
Aquarius Man craves a partner who is a good team player and that means he needs push back from a partner, and sometimes he needs tough love. Don’t be afraid of intense experiences with Aquarius Man as this drives a relationship with him into more interesting territory, so embrace the whirlwind.
A good relationship with Aquarius Man is all about your ego, so if you have low self-esteem or low self-worth it may be a struggle and you may feel a little bit like second fiddle in the relationship, so that means you have to work on developing your personality, your strengths and making time for your own personal growth.
Avoid
The waxing phase is not a good time for large purchases like furniture, art or jewellery. This is not a suitable time to set budgets or organize personal money matters. Trust is more fragile in relationships and this aspect of love needs work. This is not a good time for making major financial outlays. Cash flow should be monitored carefully.
It is a time to be really careful of office romances, so if you and your Aquarius man are in the same industry and you are a little bit competitive with each other, that can be a deal breaker.
September 2024 Horoscope for an Aquarius Man (week by week)
Week 1: Dodgeball
Now, Mercury in Leo squares Uranus in Taurus, and that means it’s really hard to predict your relationship this week. If you’ve made any plans, they may not come to fruition exactly as you would have expected. Sometimes you can wonder what the hell he needs and wants from you, so it’s important for you to go with the flow.
This isn’t a good time for important decisions, particularly if you’ve recently been dating. It’s a time when he may also need a little bit of space and may be a bit vague about his intentions.
So, if you’re not really feeling it this week, don’t panic—it’s just the kind of mood he’s in. Allow him a little bit of space and see how things develop as the month goes on.
Week 2: Breathing Room
Now, this is a time to tread carefully in relationships, particularly in regard to boundaries. He will tend to be more easily angered when you don’t respect his needs, his opinions, and the kind of relationship he has with work. This is a time when the relationship is going to be tested in terms of its durability, as he becomes stubborn and a little bit more demanding.
Now, if you’re in a new relationship with Aquarius Man, this is a big learning curve. You’re going to find out what it is he likes, what he doesn’t like, and when he’s going to get his back up.
So, this is all about understanding the amber warning light when he’s giving it to you and not pushing too far. In fact, it’s probably a good idea for you to give each other a little bit of breathing room.
Week 3: Private Thoughts
Now, with the Sun in Virgo opposite Neptune in Pisces and Mercury opposite Saturn and square Jupiter, this can be a time of mixed messages in relationships. If you’re in the early stages with an Aquarius man, just be cautious. If you are dating, he is anything but clear about his intentions, and he’s not necessarily the most romantic.
At times, you may feel that he’s really beginning to open up, and then all of a sudden, he kind of shuts down again, so there’s a stop-start motion. Now, usually, he’s fairly eager in relationships, but he’s also very nervous, particularly if he’s been hurt before.
In fact, the ghosts of relationships past can be troubling him, so it’s usually something to do with his past relationships rather than with you, for the fact that he is rather awkward in love.
If you’ve been with him a really long time, this is a week where you probably understand that it’s just how he can be sometimes, but don’t underestimate his feelings. There may be things that he’s a bit concerned about, but not yet ready to talk about, you know how he likes to keep his privacy sometimes.
Week 4: Beware the comfort zones
This week, Venus in Scorpio squares Pluto, which is, of course, in Capricorn. This is a period to make sure the relationship is on a sure footing, and that means understanding how effective your communication is, how honest you are with each other, and being honest with yourself about any potential problems in the relationship.
Right now, transparency and eagerness to approach problems with a positive attitude are really important. It’s likely that there are things an Aquarius man needs to change, perhaps about his life, or ways that he wants the relationship to adapt so that he can find it more fulfilling.
So, it’s always important to be flexible, open-minded, and to see the relationship as a thing that is evolving rather than a static object. Many women go wrong with an Aquarius man because they don’t like change when the relationship is settled into a comfortable mode, but the key is: don’t get stuck in a comfort zone as it’s really not good for an Aquarius man.
Summary
Well, it’s quite a complicated month with an Aquarius man, and that’s why it’s important to survey the scene and understand the deeper aspects of his personality.
Right now, he is that complicated Aquarius man that we all know about, but at the same time, he is quite needy. He’s eager for love, so although you should give him space, don’t let him feel abandoned or like you’re drawing away. Be there, show concern and empathy, and be willing to work on ways to improve communication—and all will be good.
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